ok now my BF claims i have jealousy problem wit his x but hes constantly around his X and he says he has no feelings for him at all he cant help it she comes around him but im still having doubts that he still has feelings for her cuz ive read the myspace messages hes wrote her and im still trying to reassure myself hes not lying like he messages her and i know he still cares for her and they talk on the phone he messages her stuff and even though he says hedon'tt want to be around her hes messages say whydon'tt you ever speak to me when you walk by and if hedidn'tt want her to speak with him he coudve been told her hedidn'tt want to talk to her or want nothing to do with her like i understand his side but he says imoverreactingg and jealousy and when i day it hurts he still does these things he says im blowing it up. And idon'tt think he understands me when i say ifYouu want nothing to do with her tell her butobviouslyy youhaven'tt and he says i do the same thing talk to boys but the thing is ididn'tt kiss that boy in front of you face ididn'tt break up with you for that boy once upon a time and idon'tt constantly play withthatt boy in you face.
so tell me cause idon'tt know!Advice on relationship problem please?
You don't have a jealousy problem, and he does still have feelings for his ex. He's the one with the problem. I think you need to end that relationship before you get hurt.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Advice for this problem I'm currently having...?
Ok, so I'm in 8th grade. I haven't made one B in all of middle school on a report card. In fact, I haven't made one B in all of my years of school (elementary too). But right now, in math, I have a 90. Usually, math is my stronger subject, and last semester, I had a 95 in that class.
But since then, on pretty much every test, I've been making B's so it's been dropping my grade slowly. We have 7 more days left of school- and 1 more math test. A final one. If I do bad, I get my first B ever. So I'm really stressing now. I've studied and everything- but that's what I do for all tests- and I still manage to make mistakes =(
It's like I'm jynxed. Tips to keep my A and do good on this test? That would be appreciated. It's midnight and I'm still doing practice problems. lol. That's how freaking worried I am. And I check over my work too before I turn in my test, but then I get it back, and I'm like, ';How did that happen!?';Advice for this problem I'm currently having...?
aww...don't worry about it sweetie
i know you want your straight A's to continue but don't feel so bad. everyone makes mistakes once in a while. and you're obviously a VERY smart girl and i'm sure your parents and teachers know that. keep studying hard and keep up the good work, this is just one grade and it shouldn't affect you to dramatically. try speaking to your teacher privately for any extra credit opportunities she might give you.
DON'T WORRY, YOU'RE SMART!!Advice for this problem I'm currently having...?
Don't stress out about it. You studied and as long as you're confident and worry free you will pass with an A. Stressing about it can make you fail so just get enough sleep and rest for the test and you will be good. I used to stress out like that too but then i noticed i had to stop being negative so i became positive and that has helped me a lot.
Good luck! =]
Take a break!
It sounds like your stressing out TOO much about it. When people are stressed they can't focus and often forget what they know because they are in a state of panic. (even if its not the same kind you see on TV).
So I suggest taking a break for a day or two, then go over some math problems to study, but don't push too hard. And see if it starts coming easier to you.
Good luck!
Hey.getting a B isnt bad.I get C's but its enough for me.Okay,just get some shut eyes and go to sleep.If you wake up early,start revieewing.Go to Tutoring so they can help you with your screw ups.B isnt bad.Its not gonna ruin your grades. Ask your teacher what mistakes are you making(Math can be confusing).Ask your teacher if he/she can tutor you after class because you wanted to have a perfect score.
try this website with some practice and tools:
http://www.math.com/students/practice.ht鈥?/a>
plus, you need to calm down the more you are nervous the more you are going to overlook and forget things. Don't pressure yourself and talk to your teacher if she/he can help with this issue, Good luck to you!
dont take it so seriously i never take grades seriously sleep in my 1st 3classes and still have all A's wat u need is 2 study before the test as a reminder. Ask the teacher y u got these answers wrong and see your mistakes that way u dont make them as often.
You should study but don't over study, too much studying could get you stressed, which probably won't get you a good mark on your test.
Just don't worry about it, you will do fine :)
Your best bet is to arrange to talk with your teacher after class. They may be able to find a pattern to the mistakes you make most frequently, and offer some advice to avoid them.
For one, you cant be studying too hard if you are on yahoo, and for two, staying up til this hour will not help you be focused in school tomorrow, and for three, so what, its just a B.
just a question is this Mikyong? um any way you could do little reveiw questions or practice test from online i hope that helps!!
just continue to study, and be confident
have positive attidtude
First off, no late nighters, kay? =))
If you stay up till midnight, you most likely won't remember some key factors, because your brain is too tired to function. Not only this, but you'll be too tired to function and remember the next day. I recommend studying for about an hour at a time, giving yourself a break of about 30 minutes between each one, to let yourself unwind a little, eat something like fish or a small bread snack to boost your brain a bit! And while your studying, suck on a mint to keep your brain from getting bored. Plus, if you study for hours on end, your mind tends to hate that, and it will begin to lose focus, due to an overly spent time on one activity. So dont do the study for hours thing, its too straining on the brain!
And for the next day, sleep long and good, with a good breakfast to boost you up! 3 hours before bedtime, try to cut back on TV, because that stimulates the mind to keep going, thus cutting back on snoozz time!
Other than that, dont worry! =)) An A average is very, VERY good, even a B average is quite amazing. So unless you really NEED that A, dont sweat it!
Zizzie
Hi -- congratulations for years of having great grades.
If you get a B you get a B... it's not the end of the world, and hon, nothing to beat yourself up over. You are just like everyone else -- human. We do not perform perfectly on everything in our lives. You will find this to be true in some of your life experiences as the years go by.
I think it's great to do your best, but obsessing over the fact that you might receive a ';B'; grade isn't healthy. Sometimes we really need to ACCEPT ourselves and our limits. Just do your best.....!
I think you getting a B will ';save'; you from your perfectionism. I am a perfectionist too. I only have two B's in my entire school life on my report cards.
Perfectionism is like OCD because they are unrealistic restrictions that they put on you. Don't let it take over you. You are stressing over something abnormal. You think it will end after you are done with school?? No.... perfectionism will haunt for the rest of your life if you don't stop it. Getting a B will not destroy your life.
hey hun all i can say is just relax and take it easy..i got all straight a's from 1st grade..i used to put alot of pressure on myself and stay up all nite until like 2 in the morning studying and in the end all it did was stress me out more. instead i should have been practising for shorter periods of time. all u need to do to take that math test is practise, not all the time, wake up in the morning and have a good breakfast and try not to get tired before the test and always check your test back. and i dont know if u will manage to keep straight a's all your life but if u do awesome and dont forget to be super proud of yourself. personally i stopped getting all a's second semester of 10th grade. im now a senior. ive failed one test and i cried my life out and my mom told me it was okai. just dont stress yourself and try your best and when u give it your best shot and you know thats your best shot thats your A. and wow i know i sound cheesy and ur prolly wondering why the hell am i typing all this idk either but hey have a goodnite and goodluck on that test!!!:-)
But since then, on pretty much every test, I've been making B's so it's been dropping my grade slowly. We have 7 more days left of school- and 1 more math test. A final one. If I do bad, I get my first B ever. So I'm really stressing now. I've studied and everything- but that's what I do for all tests- and I still manage to make mistakes =(
It's like I'm jynxed. Tips to keep my A and do good on this test? That would be appreciated. It's midnight and I'm still doing practice problems. lol. That's how freaking worried I am. And I check over my work too before I turn in my test, but then I get it back, and I'm like, ';How did that happen!?';Advice for this problem I'm currently having...?
aww...don't worry about it sweetie
i know you want your straight A's to continue but don't feel so bad. everyone makes mistakes once in a while. and you're obviously a VERY smart girl and i'm sure your parents and teachers know that. keep studying hard and keep up the good work, this is just one grade and it shouldn't affect you to dramatically. try speaking to your teacher privately for any extra credit opportunities she might give you.
DON'T WORRY, YOU'RE SMART!!Advice for this problem I'm currently having...?
Don't stress out about it. You studied and as long as you're confident and worry free you will pass with an A. Stressing about it can make you fail so just get enough sleep and rest for the test and you will be good. I used to stress out like that too but then i noticed i had to stop being negative so i became positive and that has helped me a lot.
Good luck! =]
Take a break!
It sounds like your stressing out TOO much about it. When people are stressed they can't focus and often forget what they know because they are in a state of panic. (even if its not the same kind you see on TV).
So I suggest taking a break for a day or two, then go over some math problems to study, but don't push too hard. And see if it starts coming easier to you.
Good luck!
Hey.getting a B isnt bad.I get C's but its enough for me.Okay,just get some shut eyes and go to sleep.If you wake up early,start revieewing.Go to Tutoring so they can help you with your screw ups.B isnt bad.Its not gonna ruin your grades. Ask your teacher what mistakes are you making(Math can be confusing).Ask your teacher if he/she can tutor you after class because you wanted to have a perfect score.
try this website with some practice and tools:
http://www.math.com/students/practice.ht鈥?/a>
plus, you need to calm down the more you are nervous the more you are going to overlook and forget things. Don't pressure yourself and talk to your teacher if she/he can help with this issue, Good luck to you!
dont take it so seriously i never take grades seriously sleep in my 1st 3classes and still have all A's wat u need is 2 study before the test as a reminder. Ask the teacher y u got these answers wrong and see your mistakes that way u dont make them as often.
You should study but don't over study, too much studying could get you stressed, which probably won't get you a good mark on your test.
Just don't worry about it, you will do fine :)
Your best bet is to arrange to talk with your teacher after class. They may be able to find a pattern to the mistakes you make most frequently, and offer some advice to avoid them.
For one, you cant be studying too hard if you are on yahoo, and for two, staying up til this hour will not help you be focused in school tomorrow, and for three, so what, its just a B.
just a question is this Mikyong? um any way you could do little reveiw questions or practice test from online i hope that helps!!
just continue to study, and be confident
have positive attidtude
First off, no late nighters, kay? =))
If you stay up till midnight, you most likely won't remember some key factors, because your brain is too tired to function. Not only this, but you'll be too tired to function and remember the next day. I recommend studying for about an hour at a time, giving yourself a break of about 30 minutes between each one, to let yourself unwind a little, eat something like fish or a small bread snack to boost your brain a bit! And while your studying, suck on a mint to keep your brain from getting bored. Plus, if you study for hours on end, your mind tends to hate that, and it will begin to lose focus, due to an overly spent time on one activity. So dont do the study for hours thing, its too straining on the brain!
And for the next day, sleep long and good, with a good breakfast to boost you up! 3 hours before bedtime, try to cut back on TV, because that stimulates the mind to keep going, thus cutting back on snoozz time!
Other than that, dont worry! =)) An A average is very, VERY good, even a B average is quite amazing. So unless you really NEED that A, dont sweat it!
Zizzie
Hi -- congratulations for years of having great grades.
If you get a B you get a B... it's not the end of the world, and hon, nothing to beat yourself up over. You are just like everyone else -- human. We do not perform perfectly on everything in our lives. You will find this to be true in some of your life experiences as the years go by.
I think it's great to do your best, but obsessing over the fact that you might receive a ';B'; grade isn't healthy. Sometimes we really need to ACCEPT ourselves and our limits. Just do your best.....!
I think you getting a B will ';save'; you from your perfectionism. I am a perfectionist too. I only have two B's in my entire school life on my report cards.
Perfectionism is like OCD because they are unrealistic restrictions that they put on you. Don't let it take over you. You are stressing over something abnormal. You think it will end after you are done with school?? No.... perfectionism will haunt for the rest of your life if you don't stop it. Getting a B will not destroy your life.
hey hun all i can say is just relax and take it easy..i got all straight a's from 1st grade..i used to put alot of pressure on myself and stay up all nite until like 2 in the morning studying and in the end all it did was stress me out more. instead i should have been practising for shorter periods of time. all u need to do to take that math test is practise, not all the time, wake up in the morning and have a good breakfast and try not to get tired before the test and always check your test back. and i dont know if u will manage to keep straight a's all your life but if u do awesome and dont forget to be super proud of yourself. personally i stopped getting all a's second semester of 10th grade. im now a senior. ive failed one test and i cried my life out and my mom told me it was okai. just dont stress yourself and try your best and when u give it your best shot and you know thats your best shot thats your A. and wow i know i sound cheesy and ur prolly wondering why the hell am i typing all this idk either but hey have a goodnite and goodluck on that test!!!:-)
Advice- daughter having problem making friends?
My almost 8 year old daughter was in tears tonight sobbing because since she's switched schools this year- she doesn't have any friends and one day at recess her reading buddy was gossiping about her to another friend and they didnt realize she was standing right there and the girl said she hated her. What can I do? I feel horrible she isn't making any friends- but not sure what to do. Her last school was a charter school and it was much smaller and a completely different atmospher=- her new school is 4x as big and it has a reputation for being 'stuck up' and 'yuppy'. I need some advice- i was overweight when i was young and had the same issue finding friends- and this is breaking my heart.. i dont know how to help her!Advice- daughter having problem making friends?
Maybe you can have a party for her. Invite the kids from school. Allow the other kids a chance to get to know your daughter outside of the school environment. Just make sure you supervise the party closely so that you can facilitate the play, and make sure your daughter is not left out at her own party or is being treated nasty.
Keep in mind that children at this age have a hard time with change. Your daughter is having to change by leaving her friends and going into a completely different environment and these kids now have a new student in their class. Everyone is dealing with change and these students may not know how to handle it either.
You may want to talk to the teacher and see if she can help facilitate relationship building in the classroom as well. Sometimes the way to the kids is through the parents, so if you can get friendly with some of the girl's parents in your daughter's class maybe then you can plan some play dates which might help.
Good luck to you and your daughter. This must be very hard for you both.Advice- daughter having problem making friends?
Being the odd one out sucks. The best thing you can do is do what you can to get her involved in sports and to make sure that she knows that she is nothing that these girls say because those who put others down do it to make themselves feel better. i was made fun of when I was younger and i now in 9th grade have many friends and completely understand what she is dealing with tell her she will survive everything turns out great in the end just hang in there.
perhaps ask if she wants to do some out of school activities. if you force her to try and make friends you will push her socially away.
i would definately try to put her in after school activities. perhaps swimming? soccer girls tend to be kinda b*tchy so watch out there.
I had the exact same problem around that age.
My parents kept moving from one place to another, and I just couldn't stand it anymore because I felt like every time we moved, a part of my kept breaking, because I knew I had to start everything over again.
I don't want to upset you; I'm just trying to tell you how your daughter might be feeling.
I know exactly what she is going through because I had tons of kids in new schools purposely insult me in my face. I cried literally every night, knowing I had to go back there tomorrow.
But I got through this by just putting a smile on my face, and moving on.
I realized crying wouldn't help me; just break me even more.
I just tried to be as social as I could, and kept a smile on my face no matter how much I wanted to cry.
I know it's very hard to do this, but there really isn't another way.
I hope I helped :]
If I were you I would plan a little party for her and invite all the girls from her class over for a pizza and a movie party, or something to that effect. That way you can see if these girls are really mean to your daughter or if you even want your daughter to be friends with these girls. My mom did this with me when I started at a new school and it was great. We bonded and had stuff to talk about the next week which really helped break the ice. Have fun!
tell her to stay away from them the real friends will come by them self.keep her busy like soccer team or some and she is gonna have lots of friends and she will also will learn alot.
Get her out of there...change schools...get her into a drama class to build her confidence...at 8 you can turn this around....dont wait it out or she'll get worse.....her little ego needs to be built up and she needs to know that she is worthy and will have friends in the future....
We just moved last year. My sister was a year older than ur daughter. Sometimes things just take time. Tell her to try and get to know people better. Get her started in after school activities. She'll eventually get some friends!! I really hope everything works out for her!!
well you could try having a get to know everyone party make up some spiffy invites choose some were cool or just your house either one get a crap load of sugary stuff make up some games an invite all those Lil snobby girls round they ll be eating out of her hand %26gt;:) so simple an devilish lol
take her out to a museum to cheer her up . Perhaps look for activities where she can have other friends besides school . Like the girls/ boys club , girl scouts , sports , dance .... something to get her confidence up and running again.
You should try to get her involved in other things outside of school--soccer, dance, karate, children's theatre. There are probably loads of local options in your area, at a YMCA or maybe your town has town sports teams. That might not help her with not having friends at school, which is definitely hard, but at least she will have friends in other places so she won't be so down on herself. It will help her realize that others really do like her, and that its just the people in her school that are missing out.
I had her problem. My mom put me into stuff like girl scouts and just little clubs that I would make friends. My heart goes out to your daughter because I know personally how she feels and it's not a good feeling. This is a transition period. Be her friend until she finds some. Take her out (like a girls night out )maybe once or twice a week. She'll love you for it, and when she finds friends at her new school, she won't forget that you're her first friend. As for what the little girl said to her...if she told your daughter she hated her, the next time she says it, tell your daughter to tell her ';well, you may hate me, but Jesus loves you and so do I!'; and walk away. One thing I've learned, bullies can't stand it when you beat them at their own game and they don't like it when you aren't affected by their words or actions.
I really don't think it matters what kind of school your in, kids can be very cruel. She has to have confidence in herself and know that she will find friends that like her for who she is. Please, get her to choose a sport that she thinks she might like. Sign her up asap. You mentioned that you were over weight when you were her age. Is she over weight as well? If so, a sport will help shed some of those extra pounds and give her a little more confidence in herself. Everything will work out in the end. keep her busy, busy, busy. She will find her true friends.
Good Luck :)
maybe suggest she join some clubs, or a sport. i moved around a lot when i was younger, and i finally got the hang of it.. i was a little older than she was, though. it might be better she get an earlier start at it! she just has to put herself out there. its hard, but its the only way. you get what you give you know!
I would talk to her teacher and let her know that she's having a hard time adjusting and meeting friends.Maybe the teacher could give her a new reading buddy.I know at my daughters school the teacher will have the kids work together with different kids everyday.That might help so she can get to know some of the other kids.
Good luck
Maybe you can have a party for her. Invite the kids from school. Allow the other kids a chance to get to know your daughter outside of the school environment. Just make sure you supervise the party closely so that you can facilitate the play, and make sure your daughter is not left out at her own party or is being treated nasty.
Keep in mind that children at this age have a hard time with change. Your daughter is having to change by leaving her friends and going into a completely different environment and these kids now have a new student in their class. Everyone is dealing with change and these students may not know how to handle it either.
You may want to talk to the teacher and see if she can help facilitate relationship building in the classroom as well. Sometimes the way to the kids is through the parents, so if you can get friendly with some of the girl's parents in your daughter's class maybe then you can plan some play dates which might help.
Good luck to you and your daughter. This must be very hard for you both.Advice- daughter having problem making friends?
Being the odd one out sucks. The best thing you can do is do what you can to get her involved in sports and to make sure that she knows that she is nothing that these girls say because those who put others down do it to make themselves feel better. i was made fun of when I was younger and i now in 9th grade have many friends and completely understand what she is dealing with tell her she will survive everything turns out great in the end just hang in there.
perhaps ask if she wants to do some out of school activities. if you force her to try and make friends you will push her socially away.
i would definately try to put her in after school activities. perhaps swimming? soccer girls tend to be kinda b*tchy so watch out there.
I had the exact same problem around that age.
My parents kept moving from one place to another, and I just couldn't stand it anymore because I felt like every time we moved, a part of my kept breaking, because I knew I had to start everything over again.
I don't want to upset you; I'm just trying to tell you how your daughter might be feeling.
I know exactly what she is going through because I had tons of kids in new schools purposely insult me in my face. I cried literally every night, knowing I had to go back there tomorrow.
But I got through this by just putting a smile on my face, and moving on.
I realized crying wouldn't help me; just break me even more.
I just tried to be as social as I could, and kept a smile on my face no matter how much I wanted to cry.
I know it's very hard to do this, but there really isn't another way.
I hope I helped :]
If I were you I would plan a little party for her and invite all the girls from her class over for a pizza and a movie party, or something to that effect. That way you can see if these girls are really mean to your daughter or if you even want your daughter to be friends with these girls. My mom did this with me when I started at a new school and it was great. We bonded and had stuff to talk about the next week which really helped break the ice. Have fun!
tell her to stay away from them the real friends will come by them self.keep her busy like soccer team or some and she is gonna have lots of friends and she will also will learn alot.
Get her out of there...change schools...get her into a drama class to build her confidence...at 8 you can turn this around....dont wait it out or she'll get worse.....her little ego needs to be built up and she needs to know that she is worthy and will have friends in the future....
We just moved last year. My sister was a year older than ur daughter. Sometimes things just take time. Tell her to try and get to know people better. Get her started in after school activities. She'll eventually get some friends!! I really hope everything works out for her!!
well you could try having a get to know everyone party make up some spiffy invites choose some were cool or just your house either one get a crap load of sugary stuff make up some games an invite all those Lil snobby girls round they ll be eating out of her hand %26gt;:) so simple an devilish lol
take her out to a museum to cheer her up . Perhaps look for activities where she can have other friends besides school . Like the girls/ boys club , girl scouts , sports , dance .... something to get her confidence up and running again.
You should try to get her involved in other things outside of school--soccer, dance, karate, children's theatre. There are probably loads of local options in your area, at a YMCA or maybe your town has town sports teams. That might not help her with not having friends at school, which is definitely hard, but at least she will have friends in other places so she won't be so down on herself. It will help her realize that others really do like her, and that its just the people in her school that are missing out.
I had her problem. My mom put me into stuff like girl scouts and just little clubs that I would make friends. My heart goes out to your daughter because I know personally how she feels and it's not a good feeling. This is a transition period. Be her friend until she finds some. Take her out (like a girls night out )maybe once or twice a week. She'll love you for it, and when she finds friends at her new school, she won't forget that you're her first friend. As for what the little girl said to her...if she told your daughter she hated her, the next time she says it, tell your daughter to tell her ';well, you may hate me, but Jesus loves you and so do I!'; and walk away. One thing I've learned, bullies can't stand it when you beat them at their own game and they don't like it when you aren't affected by their words or actions.
I really don't think it matters what kind of school your in, kids can be very cruel. She has to have confidence in herself and know that she will find friends that like her for who she is. Please, get her to choose a sport that she thinks she might like. Sign her up asap. You mentioned that you were over weight when you were her age. Is she over weight as well? If so, a sport will help shed some of those extra pounds and give her a little more confidence in herself. Everything will work out in the end. keep her busy, busy, busy. She will find her true friends.
Good Luck :)
maybe suggest she join some clubs, or a sport. i moved around a lot when i was younger, and i finally got the hang of it.. i was a little older than she was, though. it might be better she get an earlier start at it! she just has to put herself out there. its hard, but its the only way. you get what you give you know!
I would talk to her teacher and let her know that she's having a hard time adjusting and meeting friends.Maybe the teacher could give her a new reading buddy.I know at my daughters school the teacher will have the kids work together with different kids everyday.That might help so she can get to know some of the other kids.
Good luck
Advice on this problem i have w/my friend who i thought she was my sis n best friend?
Hi people!
Well, this is my story. Well track season started n ended already n everything I had a good friend who was a girl n she was my best friend n at the same time like my sis. But when track ended she became a real messed up person. She started to steal all of my friends my new n old friends, Even my bf and all of my popularity. When we were on track some ppl said a lot of mean stuff n one time I got on a fight bcuz I tried to protect her n everything. Also when I do something nice or do something people think I tried to copy her n they say I do everythin like her but she is the one who is doing tht on everything i do. She copies me of how I dress, talk an everythin n thts my style NOT hers. If it wasn't watever i did she wouldn't be this way n this high of her popularity. And Then later on she pays me like tht. I don鈥檛 know wat I should I do. Any advice I鈥檒l take. Please help!
THANKS!Advice on this problem i have w/my friend who i thought she was my sis n best friend?
Hun, stop letting this person gt the best of you. You sound like a very sweet person. It's time you spend your energy on positive things in your life. You will be much happier when you realize she's better off an ex friend. Good luck hun.
Well, this is my story. Well track season started n ended already n everything I had a good friend who was a girl n she was my best friend n at the same time like my sis. But when track ended she became a real messed up person. She started to steal all of my friends my new n old friends, Even my bf and all of my popularity. When we were on track some ppl said a lot of mean stuff n one time I got on a fight bcuz I tried to protect her n everything. Also when I do something nice or do something people think I tried to copy her n they say I do everythin like her but she is the one who is doing tht on everything i do. She copies me of how I dress, talk an everythin n thts my style NOT hers. If it wasn't watever i did she wouldn't be this way n this high of her popularity. And Then later on she pays me like tht. I don鈥檛 know wat I should I do. Any advice I鈥檒l take. Please help!
THANKS!Advice on this problem i have w/my friend who i thought she was my sis n best friend?
Hun, stop letting this person gt the best of you. You sound like a very sweet person. It's time you spend your energy on positive things in your life. You will be much happier when you realize she's better off an ex friend. Good luck hun.
Advice on this problem i am a victim of abusive husband verbally and emotional abuse and some phyiscal and i?
am just so lost.You see i been through so much for 31years why i stayed i don't know but i just didn't know what i was going through i and didn't realise it was domestic violence and now i do its my third time out i have two grown children and his family and my kids and our family friends are all against me making me out like i am crazy i have no family on my side they died and now its so hard i got a support group i don't know what i would of done without them all and now its been 8months i been out and my daughter is still bitter with me i try ed to talk to them they wont listen its all dad they feel sorry for i am just so upset it dis troys me inside so much and advice from you guys pleaseeeeeeeeAdvice on this problem i am a victim of abusive husband verbally and emotional abuse and some phyiscal and i?
keep up with your support group. For now you have to realize that your children are in shock and are still proccessing it all. They are also angry, probably for a number of reasons. You just give them their space, tell them that you understand their pain, but they have to understand yours as well, and that for you to leave was really your only option. Who knows when they will come around, but that is not your issue. Get the help you need to heal your wounds from so many years of emotional abuse. Take care of you, cause only when they see how much better off you are will they realize how wrong and unfair they are being with you. So please please keep up the support group and get help to stand on your own two feet and love yourself and the rest will fall into place. Cause only when you finally love and respect yourself will those around you do the same. Good for you, you should be very proud of yourself that you found the strength to save yourself after so many years. Don't falter you are on the right path. It may hurt right now that your children do not see that you are really the victim right now, but remember you unfortunately have a hand in that, and are sort of paying for your mistakes. What do I mean by that? All the years of abuse your children witnessed and you passively accepted they were taught that, that is just how you and your husband are, that in a twisted way that was normal, now that you have stood up and said I can't take it anymore they are left to wonder why, what was so wrong that wasn't all these years. That is why I am saying give it some time, and as much as it hurts, don't allow yourself to be beaten down about looking after you. This is your time. Best of luck and keep at it and have patiance with your children, they will come around. Just don't get into a tug of war with your husband. By putting them in the middle will make it worse for you. You are not alone, you have your support group now, and get out there and surround yourself with new people, people who will show you the love and respect you deserve.Advice on this problem i am a victim of abusive husband verbally and emotional abuse and some phyiscal and i?
Get out NOW. Go to a battered women's shelter. I cannot think of any reason to stay in an abusive situation, especially abusive. Support groups will not help you if you continue to be in the same situation. Sure his family supports him. They were all raised in the same environment. To them, it is normal behavior.
So, what exactly did he do? What did you do to make your children bitter? I can't be sure, but I think there may be two sides to this story.
I think you guys should see a counselor or get some other professional help/advice. If that doesn't work out, I'm afraid a divorce is the only option. All the best.
You've stayed for so long with this man, it's kinda hard for everyone involved to fully understand. I am sorry that you have no family that you can turn to, I am sure that's difficult. If you can not get through to your kids and to your family, there is really no point stressing yourself out over it. Hopefully sooner or later they will realized that you are the victim and not the villain. You have to stay strong %26amp; stay positive, you need to do this for yourself, not for anyone else. It's good that you have a support group that you can turn to and relay on. Now that you are out, make something of yourself. So much of your life have been lost, you need to reclaim your life, and figure out what will make you happy. If you need someone to talk to, I am all ears.....
Family counselling desperatly needed here. If you are making good on your escape from an abusive situation, good for you. Let them feel what they want to feel, you need to feel safe and free from harm. Your kids are grown so you would be looking to start new anyway at this point in your life. Let them live their lives. Let them side with Dad. All you need is God and yourself on your side. It is hard and lonely and scary to start over, I know I am doing it myself but it is worth it and you will come through the fire to find a good new life for yourself. Ask God to help you, Trust that He will help you and you will see a remarkable change in your life. If I can survive a shattered heart to find a brand new life, you can too. God be with you
I don't know how good my advice will be for your situation, but I feel you made the right decision by leaving. If your children don't see that now they will later. Hold your head up high and continue to be strong and I pray you find faith in yourself and God to be able to stand alone in the face of adversity. God delivers to us what we need,when we need it and your time is coming. Show others that you made the right decision with your actions and not your words; the truth always comes out in the end. Good Luck and God Bless You.
PHENOMENAL WOMAN
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
31 years of abuse? I don't know how you could have stayed. Getting out is the best thing you could do. Even if your kids support their dad...get counseling even if it winds up being just for you. Think about divorce. You have a legit reason for it. And if you do...start over fresh...move somewhere you always wanted to move and pursue any dreams you maybe have put on the back burner years ago...just take time for yourself...you have obviously been through a lot and deserve to endulge in some of the things you want. And maybe there will be an amazing man in your future.scars
keep up with your support group. For now you have to realize that your children are in shock and are still proccessing it all. They are also angry, probably for a number of reasons. You just give them their space, tell them that you understand their pain, but they have to understand yours as well, and that for you to leave was really your only option. Who knows when they will come around, but that is not your issue. Get the help you need to heal your wounds from so many years of emotional abuse. Take care of you, cause only when they see how much better off you are will they realize how wrong and unfair they are being with you. So please please keep up the support group and get help to stand on your own two feet and love yourself and the rest will fall into place. Cause only when you finally love and respect yourself will those around you do the same. Good for you, you should be very proud of yourself that you found the strength to save yourself after so many years. Don't falter you are on the right path. It may hurt right now that your children do not see that you are really the victim right now, but remember you unfortunately have a hand in that, and are sort of paying for your mistakes. What do I mean by that? All the years of abuse your children witnessed and you passively accepted they were taught that, that is just how you and your husband are, that in a twisted way that was normal, now that you have stood up and said I can't take it anymore they are left to wonder why, what was so wrong that wasn't all these years. That is why I am saying give it some time, and as much as it hurts, don't allow yourself to be beaten down about looking after you. This is your time. Best of luck and keep at it and have patiance with your children, they will come around. Just don't get into a tug of war with your husband. By putting them in the middle will make it worse for you. You are not alone, you have your support group now, and get out there and surround yourself with new people, people who will show you the love and respect you deserve.Advice on this problem i am a victim of abusive husband verbally and emotional abuse and some phyiscal and i?
Get out NOW. Go to a battered women's shelter. I cannot think of any reason to stay in an abusive situation, especially abusive. Support groups will not help you if you continue to be in the same situation. Sure his family supports him. They were all raised in the same environment. To them, it is normal behavior.
So, what exactly did he do? What did you do to make your children bitter? I can't be sure, but I think there may be two sides to this story.
I think you guys should see a counselor or get some other professional help/advice. If that doesn't work out, I'm afraid a divorce is the only option. All the best.
You've stayed for so long with this man, it's kinda hard for everyone involved to fully understand. I am sorry that you have no family that you can turn to, I am sure that's difficult. If you can not get through to your kids and to your family, there is really no point stressing yourself out over it. Hopefully sooner or later they will realized that you are the victim and not the villain. You have to stay strong %26amp; stay positive, you need to do this for yourself, not for anyone else. It's good that you have a support group that you can turn to and relay on. Now that you are out, make something of yourself. So much of your life have been lost, you need to reclaim your life, and figure out what will make you happy. If you need someone to talk to, I am all ears.....
Family counselling desperatly needed here. If you are making good on your escape from an abusive situation, good for you. Let them feel what they want to feel, you need to feel safe and free from harm. Your kids are grown so you would be looking to start new anyway at this point in your life. Let them live their lives. Let them side with Dad. All you need is God and yourself on your side. It is hard and lonely and scary to start over, I know I am doing it myself but it is worth it and you will come through the fire to find a good new life for yourself. Ask God to help you, Trust that He will help you and you will see a remarkable change in your life. If I can survive a shattered heart to find a brand new life, you can too. God be with you
I don't know how good my advice will be for your situation, but I feel you made the right decision by leaving. If your children don't see that now they will later. Hold your head up high and continue to be strong and I pray you find faith in yourself and God to be able to stand alone in the face of adversity. God delivers to us what we need,when we need it and your time is coming. Show others that you made the right decision with your actions and not your words; the truth always comes out in the end. Good Luck and God Bless You.
PHENOMENAL WOMAN
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
31 years of abuse? I don't know how you could have stayed. Getting out is the best thing you could do. Even if your kids support their dad...get counseling even if it winds up being just for you. Think about divorce. You have a legit reason for it. And if you do...start over fresh...move somewhere you always wanted to move and pursue any dreams you maybe have put on the back burner years ago...just take time for yourself...you have obviously been through a lot and deserve to endulge in some of the things you want. And maybe there will be an amazing man in your future.
Advice on boy problem,<3?
ohkay so Theres this boy, and i absolutely love him, i see him everyday at school. %26amp; get butterflies. he likes me too. but he has a girl friend, he just doesnt want to hurt her. %26amp; hes not a cheater. He says hi %26amp; i say hi, then hug. %26amp; hes like are yhu mad, why are yhu not talking,? the thing is i dont feel comfortable talking like that, because he has a girlfriend. i dont know. but i honestly i cant live without him. %26amp; imm gonnah wait till its the right time,%26lt;3 but advie,?Advice on boy problem,%26lt;3?
1. Correct your spelling. You kids never look back on what you typed?
2. Do not give 'big hugs'. There IS a difference to me. If there's a girl I like, my hugs are usually big ones --%26gt; putting my hands on her back and stroking it a bit for a feeling of comfort and security to her. It can last for a few seconds.
A casual hug is one where I just put one arm around her back and not move it, then disperse quickly. That signifies that it's just a friendly hug for them.
3. Talk to him casually. Don't flirt. Stay basic with conversation, and if he tries flirting with you, tell him to stop.
4. put him in your 'friend' zone. Since he has a girlfriend, stop thinking that you have the potential to be his girl. Just be friends. Like I said, keep the chat basic and simple about school or whatever. But if he has problems or you do, feel free to ask each other what to do about them. Confide in friendship for the time being.
You DO NOT want to destroy their relationship. Instead, help preserve it and be happy for him and his girl. Get over your crazy feelings since he's taken, and getting in the way of their relationship will put a serious dent between you two that may drive you apart and not be friends anymore. Don't get jealous either, because jealousy is a bad instinct that can easily hurt people.Advice on boy problem,%26lt;3?
Theres really nothing you can do right now , just be patient . . . %26amp; if he really likes you then why doesn't he just breakup with his girlfriend?
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TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!! i mean seriosuly think about the other girl. if his heart is really yours then tell him to think about his current gf's feelings like she wants to date a guy who is only half there. she may be upset at first but she'll get over it. If you belongtogether then you belong together simple as that.
Tell him you don't wanna hug him anymore until he breaks up with his girlfriend because you feel bad. he shouldn't continue to lead her on, and he obviously wants to go out with you so yeah... hope i helped.
You need to ask him which girl he likes best. And also you should watch his actions with his girlfriend and you. WHO does he treat better%26gt;??
you have to suck on his cokc. then he'll choose you for sure
1. Correct your spelling. You kids never look back on what you typed?
2. Do not give 'big hugs'. There IS a difference to me. If there's a girl I like, my hugs are usually big ones --%26gt; putting my hands on her back and stroking it a bit for a feeling of comfort and security to her. It can last for a few seconds.
A casual hug is one where I just put one arm around her back and not move it, then disperse quickly. That signifies that it's just a friendly hug for them.
3. Talk to him casually. Don't flirt. Stay basic with conversation, and if he tries flirting with you, tell him to stop.
4. put him in your 'friend' zone. Since he has a girlfriend, stop thinking that you have the potential to be his girl. Just be friends. Like I said, keep the chat basic and simple about school or whatever. But if he has problems or you do, feel free to ask each other what to do about them. Confide in friendship for the time being.
You DO NOT want to destroy their relationship. Instead, help preserve it and be happy for him and his girl. Get over your crazy feelings since he's taken, and getting in the way of their relationship will put a serious dent between you two that may drive you apart and not be friends anymore. Don't get jealous either, because jealousy is a bad instinct that can easily hurt people.Advice on boy problem,%26lt;3?
Theres really nothing you can do right now , just be patient . . . %26amp; if he really likes you then why doesn't he just breakup with his girlfriend?
answer mines:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!! i mean seriosuly think about the other girl. if his heart is really yours then tell him to think about his current gf's feelings like she wants to date a guy who is only half there. she may be upset at first but she'll get over it. If you belongtogether then you belong together simple as that.
Tell him you don't wanna hug him anymore until he breaks up with his girlfriend because you feel bad. he shouldn't continue to lead her on, and he obviously wants to go out with you so yeah... hope i helped.
You need to ask him which girl he likes best. And also you should watch his actions with his girlfriend and you. WHO does he treat better%26gt;??
you have to suck on his cokc. then he'll choose you for sure
Advice needed for problem bedtime?
My daughter is having probs with her 21mth old little boy at night ever since fireworks night. She also has a 4mth old little boy. Most nights he goes to bed then screams for mummy or daddy and gets himself in a real state. He gets out of bed and bangs the stairgate, screams, etc.
theyve tried controlled crying, staying with him til hes asleep but he wakes up and starts screaming again.
Hes fine when he stays with me or his other grandparents.
so has anyone got any productive advice please for my worn out daughter and son in lawAdvice needed for problem bedtime?
My daughter suffers from Nightmares and Night terrors and my nights alter from calm and serene to complete hell.
Here are a few tricks I use:
Leave a few quiet toys in his room like building blocks, soft toys and books - if he want's to play a little let him.
Get him a night light - we used a light up fairy house on Keira and told her the Fairies had moved in to look after her at night.
Also we got a selection of calming audio tales and music which she is allowed to choose. Paddington Bear and Kipper are good ones. Watch out for tales of witches and giants as they caused me problems.
When she does get upset I usually climb into bed with her until she settles but leave before she falls asleep - though often if she is having a night terror she isn't really awake and doesn't know I'm there.
Sometimes she is being a typical toddler and is trying it on - that is when I use controlled crying. I never use it if I think she is distressed as I think it is then harmful.
But most of all I remember that this is just a phase (although its been going on for a year on and off) and he will grow out it and probably straight into the next phase!Advice needed for problem bedtime?
Hiya! Ive been having the same problem with my little boy. He`s now 2yrs 7 months.
I resulted in putting a tv/dvd combi in his bedroom. He now looks forward to bed time and likes to watch peppa pig...lol
He is now doing fantastic at bedtimes, Result as im due to give birth again anyday and need the rest myself.
Good luck!!!
Jeni :)
There are a few things they could try if they haven't already.
A night light,
Changing his room around so it feels different for him, maybe even change rooms (if possible)
It might not be the fireworks but the new baby. He may be feeling left out.
xx
doing a makeover in his room, maybe with character he enjoys, putting in one of those monitors that your daughter can watch from her room.
Changing his room around so it feels different for him, maybe even change rooms (if possible) puting the lil boy in 2 share the room with him,
next time fireworks season comes around have like a picnic and everyone can make a big deal everytime one goes off, maybe if dad can say things like do you want the stars to laugh loud with funny colors, silly talk always helps. i know he's still a baby and doesn't understand but maybe who knows it might help.
Yep. Keep putting him back to bed and persevere; he's pushing their buttons. If he keeps getting out of bed, put him back in the cot for a bit.
i agree with amy
Thats awful, poor things. The trouble is fire works seem to go on for almost a month now its no wonder the little one is frightened.
As he is ok with his grand parents he may be scared of his bedroom, is his bed near a window ? Maybe worth trying to move it. Might even be an idea to put up some soothing pictures, soft lighting
Have they tried soft background music classic might be worth a try. I can't think what else to suggest I'm sorry to say. Wishing them all good luck
Night light but having a bed time routine where they read a book and say prayers and Mom and Dad lay there for while till he falls asleep
theyve tried controlled crying, staying with him til hes asleep but he wakes up and starts screaming again.
Hes fine when he stays with me or his other grandparents.
so has anyone got any productive advice please for my worn out daughter and son in lawAdvice needed for problem bedtime?
My daughter suffers from Nightmares and Night terrors and my nights alter from calm and serene to complete hell.
Here are a few tricks I use:
Leave a few quiet toys in his room like building blocks, soft toys and books - if he want's to play a little let him.
Get him a night light - we used a light up fairy house on Keira and told her the Fairies had moved in to look after her at night.
Also we got a selection of calming audio tales and music which she is allowed to choose. Paddington Bear and Kipper are good ones. Watch out for tales of witches and giants as they caused me problems.
When she does get upset I usually climb into bed with her until she settles but leave before she falls asleep - though often if she is having a night terror she isn't really awake and doesn't know I'm there.
Sometimes she is being a typical toddler and is trying it on - that is when I use controlled crying. I never use it if I think she is distressed as I think it is then harmful.
But most of all I remember that this is just a phase (although its been going on for a year on and off) and he will grow out it and probably straight into the next phase!Advice needed for problem bedtime?
Hiya! Ive been having the same problem with my little boy. He`s now 2yrs 7 months.
I resulted in putting a tv/dvd combi in his bedroom. He now looks forward to bed time and likes to watch peppa pig...lol
He is now doing fantastic at bedtimes, Result as im due to give birth again anyday and need the rest myself.
Good luck!!!
Jeni :)
There are a few things they could try if they haven't already.
A night light,
Changing his room around so it feels different for him, maybe even change rooms (if possible)
It might not be the fireworks but the new baby. He may be feeling left out.
xx
doing a makeover in his room, maybe with character he enjoys, putting in one of those monitors that your daughter can watch from her room.
Changing his room around so it feels different for him, maybe even change rooms (if possible) puting the lil boy in 2 share the room with him,
next time fireworks season comes around have like a picnic and everyone can make a big deal everytime one goes off, maybe if dad can say things like do you want the stars to laugh loud with funny colors, silly talk always helps. i know he's still a baby and doesn't understand but maybe who knows it might help.
Yep. Keep putting him back to bed and persevere; he's pushing their buttons. If he keeps getting out of bed, put him back in the cot for a bit.
i agree with amy
Thats awful, poor things. The trouble is fire works seem to go on for almost a month now its no wonder the little one is frightened.
As he is ok with his grand parents he may be scared of his bedroom, is his bed near a window ? Maybe worth trying to move it. Might even be an idea to put up some soothing pictures, soft lighting
Have they tried soft background music classic might be worth a try. I can't think what else to suggest I'm sorry to say. Wishing them all good luck
Night light but having a bed time routine where they read a book and say prayers and Mom and Dad lay there for while till he falls asleep
I need an advice about my problem to my bestfriend....help me!!!!?
ok here goes--
when i was in 5th grade, i met my bestfriend
she transferred to our school
at first we weren't that close but after a few months we became bestfriends
we were so close that we treat each others a precious possession
but when we got to other schools, she changed a lot
and what's hurting is that she had another bestfriend..
she totally have forgotten our friendship
she even forgotten my bday!
when i asked her 2 choose between us 2, she never picked any,she said we're both her no.1 bf..
but she told me i'll only be her no.1 bf forever when we were in grade 6...
she used to love me like we'll never leave each other's side..
she promised that...
she broke her promise...
it made a very deep scar in my heart and upto now it still aches everytime i remember her...
i feel like it can't be cured...
the pain she've caused was really hard to forget...
i really love her so much that maybe it's the cause i feel this awkward feeling...
i've cried hard enough..
help..I need an advice about my problem to my bestfriend....help me!!!!?
She is probably busy... Don't take it serious...I need an advice about my problem to my bestfriend....help me!!!!?
we cannot avoid those such things in life.. it happens.. things change, and so as people.. whats hard though, is the distance between you two.. she tranferred to another school.. just try to understand.. since, you do not belong to the same school this time, its hard for her to be with you for you are not together.. she is your bestfriend when you were in grade 5 until grade six.. and since both of you are not on the same school, she found another bestfriend and you said that you are ony her bestfriend til grade 6.. she needs a friend in her new school.. and you too.. dont be afraid to love your friends.. because your true friends will stil be your friend if you grow old if, you really are good friends.. dont be afraid to lose a friend.. for everytime you lose, some one better is given.. God has a plan for you.. dont be afraid.. just trust HIM and you'll never run out of true best friends..
when i was in 5th grade, i met my bestfriend
she transferred to our school
at first we weren't that close but after a few months we became bestfriends
we were so close that we treat each others a precious possession
but when we got to other schools, she changed a lot
and what's hurting is that she had another bestfriend..
she totally have forgotten our friendship
she even forgotten my bday!
when i asked her 2 choose between us 2, she never picked any,she said we're both her no.1 bf..
but she told me i'll only be her no.1 bf forever when we were in grade 6...
she used to love me like we'll never leave each other's side..
she promised that...
she broke her promise...
it made a very deep scar in my heart and upto now it still aches everytime i remember her...
i feel like it can't be cured...
the pain she've caused was really hard to forget...
i really love her so much that maybe it's the cause i feel this awkward feeling...
i've cried hard enough..
help..I need an advice about my problem to my bestfriend....help me!!!!?
She is probably busy... Don't take it serious...I need an advice about my problem to my bestfriend....help me!!!!?
we cannot avoid those such things in life.. it happens.. things change, and so as people.. whats hard though, is the distance between you two.. she tranferred to another school.. just try to understand.. since, you do not belong to the same school this time, its hard for her to be with you for you are not together.. she is your bestfriend when you were in grade 5 until grade six.. and since both of you are not on the same school, she found another bestfriend and you said that you are ony her bestfriend til grade 6.. she needs a friend in her new school.. and you too.. dont be afraid to love your friends.. because your true friends will stil be your friend if you grow old if, you really are good friends.. dont be afraid to lose a friend.. for everytime you lose, some one better is given.. God has a plan for you.. dont be afraid.. just trust HIM and you'll never run out of true best friends..
I need some advice on this problem I have... Help me!!!!!!!!!!?
Hey, I'm in 7th grade, and last year when I was in 6th grade, we made a play in drama. It was from the movie ,'; 7 Brides for 7 Brothers'; and I didn't audition for any parts because it's like you know suitors and all and I was sure my mom and dad wouldn't let me cause I'm not allowed to do those kind of things, like boyfriends and all. But I danced in this scene, and felt pretty good bout it. But next year in 7th grade I want to be part of something. like not extra curricular, just like part of a play. I am on the school teams and I'm good in my studies, but I want to be in a play if we're going to have it this year. I really want to be someone in school, not just a somebody that everybody knows, but doesnt really know. I want to show my love of acting and singing, because I really really love singing and acting. What should I do to prepare for the auditions? My parents appreciate my love for singing, but don't really think I'm the next American Idol. Please HELP!I need some advice on this problem I have... Help me!!!!!!!!!!?
You don't have to be the next American Idol to love singing and acting.
I teach choir in middle school. I have many students who want to participate in plays and musicals during their school years.
This is my advice...first off, sign up for choir classes and theatre arts classes at your school. This will help you increase your vocal and acting skills. It will also give you the chance to get to know the teachers better who actually direct the plays and musicals. The more they know about you (as long as you are a hard worker, keep your grades up, can sing on pitch and have a desire to learn) the better chance you will receive parts in plays and musicals.
Next...tryout for any part that interests you. I will tell you that your voice will not be perfect for every part/solo/etc. But you never know when your voice will be best for a certain song or part or character. You may be surprised. (I have had a few students who were afraid to try out for a solo because they thought for sure the girl with the strongest voice or the one who ';always'; gets the solo would get picked. They were surprised when they were chosen instead.) Don't second guess yourself.
Next...if you don't get chosen for the part you really wanted, accept the part you get graciously and then do your best at that part. You can learn alot by being in the background and watching. If you don't get a part, ask your teacher if you can be the on the lighting or sound crew. You can learn alot there as well. (My senior year I wanted so badly to be the lead in ';My Fair Lady';. I didn't get it. But I got to play 3 other parts which meant I had more singing parts than the lead and more costume changes. I learned so much that year and really loved that I got to be 3 different people instead of just one.)
Next...keep records of everything you do...every solo you sing, every character you play, every production you are a part of. Keep a binder with plastic sleeves and put the programs from each performance in its' own plastic sleeve. This will help you keep track of your experience and when you audition you can list this experience. This in itself may help you get a part.
Now about parents...it sounds like your parents are supportive of your singing. That is great. Let them know you appreciate their support and although you may not be the next American Idol, it is still very important that you have the opportunity to be a part of singing and acting in your school productions. Then with every performance they come to see you show them how dedicated you are and how much you love it. With each performance they will encourage you more and more. Just don't give up and don't get mad at them or yell and say ';You don't understand';. It may be true that they don't really understand. But parents sometimes don't really know how important something is to you until they see how devoted you are to it.
So...for now...be confident in what you want to do. Don't let anyone keep you from trying. Get involved in whatever you can. Audition for the parts you really would like and even some you may not think you would like. You never know what might happen and one day you may wake up and when you look in the mirror you will see a real star!
Best wishes and remember...you never know what you can until you try!I need some advice on this problem I have... Help me!!!!!!!!!!?
hmmm....Hard question.Well if you really love 2 sing and act try learning how 2 sing small songs and perform 4 small crowds and when you build your confidince up go sing 4 bigger groups remember your in charge of your life so you don't hv 2 do what i say.
Just keep on practising and that goes 4 the acting 2.The reason i say pracitise is bcoz if you do get a part in a play you have to perform in a huge crowd so get use 2 the people watching you.But don't go over board!
singing:try to find your vocal range,%26amp; if you knew it,test your ability on a varity genre of music.if you are lacking practicing,practice at every opportunity
acting:got a book/drama you like?you can watch how they act ,but also to add your own style.
use wikihow %26amp; ehow..com
my advice is to have a nice,calm talk with your parents.ask them their views.you both might not agree wholly but you can make them understand and respect your decision to a certain extent .try to prepare what you are going to talk to them
You don't have to be the next American Idol to love singing and acting.
I teach choir in middle school. I have many students who want to participate in plays and musicals during their school years.
This is my advice...first off, sign up for choir classes and theatre arts classes at your school. This will help you increase your vocal and acting skills. It will also give you the chance to get to know the teachers better who actually direct the plays and musicals. The more they know about you (as long as you are a hard worker, keep your grades up, can sing on pitch and have a desire to learn) the better chance you will receive parts in plays and musicals.
Next...tryout for any part that interests you. I will tell you that your voice will not be perfect for every part/solo/etc. But you never know when your voice will be best for a certain song or part or character. You may be surprised. (I have had a few students who were afraid to try out for a solo because they thought for sure the girl with the strongest voice or the one who ';always'; gets the solo would get picked. They were surprised when they were chosen instead.) Don't second guess yourself.
Next...if you don't get chosen for the part you really wanted, accept the part you get graciously and then do your best at that part. You can learn alot by being in the background and watching. If you don't get a part, ask your teacher if you can be the on the lighting or sound crew. You can learn alot there as well. (My senior year I wanted so badly to be the lead in ';My Fair Lady';. I didn't get it. But I got to play 3 other parts which meant I had more singing parts than the lead and more costume changes. I learned so much that year and really loved that I got to be 3 different people instead of just one.)
Next...keep records of everything you do...every solo you sing, every character you play, every production you are a part of. Keep a binder with plastic sleeves and put the programs from each performance in its' own plastic sleeve. This will help you keep track of your experience and when you audition you can list this experience. This in itself may help you get a part.
Now about parents...it sounds like your parents are supportive of your singing. That is great. Let them know you appreciate their support and although you may not be the next American Idol, it is still very important that you have the opportunity to be a part of singing and acting in your school productions. Then with every performance they come to see you show them how dedicated you are and how much you love it. With each performance they will encourage you more and more. Just don't give up and don't get mad at them or yell and say ';You don't understand';. It may be true that they don't really understand. But parents sometimes don't really know how important something is to you until they see how devoted you are to it.
So...for now...be confident in what you want to do. Don't let anyone keep you from trying. Get involved in whatever you can. Audition for the parts you really would like and even some you may not think you would like. You never know what might happen and one day you may wake up and when you look in the mirror you will see a real star!
Best wishes and remember...you never know what you can until you try!I need some advice on this problem I have... Help me!!!!!!!!!!?
hmmm....Hard question.Well if you really love 2 sing and act try learning how 2 sing small songs and perform 4 small crowds and when you build your confidince up go sing 4 bigger groups remember your in charge of your life so you don't hv 2 do what i say.
Just keep on practising and that goes 4 the acting 2.The reason i say pracitise is bcoz if you do get a part in a play you have to perform in a huge crowd so get use 2 the people watching you.But don't go over board!
singing:try to find your vocal range,%26amp; if you knew it,test your ability on a varity genre of music.if you are lacking practicing,practice at every opportunity
acting:got a book/drama you like?you can watch how they act ,but also to add your own style.
use wikihow %26amp; ehow..com
my advice is to have a nice,calm talk with your parents.ask them their views.you both might not agree wholly but you can make them understand and respect your decision to a certain extent .try to prepare what you are going to talk to them
How to live a problem free life ? what advice would you give ?
Don't believe the people who tell you that it is impossible. It works.
True Happiness happens whenever we are not judging anything.
Any time that you are not judging you are happy.
The moment that you start judging, you find something to be unhappy about.
It really is that simple.
Love and blessings DonHow to live a problem free life ? what advice would you give ?
This is a very interesting question so I gave you a star, LOL!
You’ve got some great answers already: Don’t judge; live for the now; be positive, think pure, speak truth; and be true to yourself.
I think you have to identify what the “source” of your problems appear to be; are they external or internal? Once you identify the source then you can determine whether or not it is something you can change. For example, if you are getting a bunch of traffic violations you can try to be more aware of your speed when you drive. On the other hand, if your boss is constantly riding your back even though you are doing your job correctly, that is not something that you have direct control over.
It is not enough simply to always follow the rules because you can’t control the actions, feelings, or emotions of others. Plus, there is no guarantee that those around you are going to be as conscientious about following the rules as you are. For instance, you may wait until the light turns green to enter the intersection, but if the other guy runs a red light you both have a problem. Or, you may choose not to cheat on your spouse, but if he or she isn’t faithful then you both have a problem.
Learn to identify the things that you do have direct control over and focus your energy there. When you throw a ball you can aim it at the target but once it leaves your hand its destination will be impacted by wind speed, wind direction, and other factors that you have no control over. Mathematically, the shortest distance between two points is always a straight line, but this isn’t necessarily the case when it comes to life and people. :)How to live a problem free life ? what advice would you give ?
for one you would need to feel there are no such thing as problems
but then, you could have a problem with that fact
dessensitize yourself to everything, but then you may have no pleasure either, then you may consider that a problem
faith in God?, might help, but then you might have a problem in making yourself believe in it
problems will always be there
being yourself, and doing unto others as you would have done unto you might be the best advice
for a problem free life you'd need to let go of the desire for things not essential to survival. but that does not mean letting go of the desire for conveniance. you need to reach a balance where you enjoy your life for what it is, when you spend, you spend according to what you can afford to spend, no need to watch money closely, but also no need to over spend. not doing that seems to be one of the main contributions to people's problems today
We should be competent and skillful to face any problems. The techniques for solving problems are many. We should adopt a principled life. Do quality work. Be positive. Have right vision. Use all our time, energy, knowledge and resources in right pursuits. Earn lot of good will. Be righteous. Be virtuous. Be pious. Be noble. Think pure, speak truth, act in a balanced way. Nurture good habits and build strong moral behavior.
There's always problems in life, each person has their own worries and problems. But I suggest to live one day at a time. Don't worry about the past, it's gone and you can do nothing to change it. Don't worry about the future as it's not here yet. Just enjoy everyday you have and be happy to have it. Love Living!
can't problem totally problem-free but you can greatly reduce the problems in your life
focus on things that make you happy (make a list if you have to)
take care of yourself
be around people who seem to be heading that same way or already there
plan ahead (either for the next day, week or month/s)
Do the things you want to do.. not what someone wants you to do. Be your own best friend. Live life for what it is - living.. not working so hard to make money.. which is spent on mostly junk anyway. Life is the real thing.. the sun.. the sea.. the mountains..
Life is very temporary. Don't waste it on nonsensical garbage.. don't be a typical 'consumer' and get sucked into that scene. Also, live for the now. Forget the past days %26amp; years.. 'those that forget the most are happiest' - an old quote I remember..
Live.. joie de vivre...!!!
inherit about a zillion dollars
live in a thick stone bubble
have the world piped into your existence?
Problem free life?! Hmmmm impossible, the power of light you can understand only at dark.the meaning of life you can understand only by problems.
the world will judge you on how you handle your problems--its the one thing every body has--quote from the book of frederic
Sorry to disappoint you, but no one's life is completely problem free. That's what makes us human.
impossible.. suicide is about it if you want problem free.. come on already.
learn to love problems ones you don't mind having problems your problems suddenly stop being problems
You can't. You shouldn't. I won't.
Never buy anything on credit!
True Happiness happens whenever we are not judging anything.
Any time that you are not judging you are happy.
The moment that you start judging, you find something to be unhappy about.
It really is that simple.
Love and blessings DonHow to live a problem free life ? what advice would you give ?
This is a very interesting question so I gave you a star, LOL!
You’ve got some great answers already: Don’t judge; live for the now; be positive, think pure, speak truth; and be true to yourself.
I think you have to identify what the “source” of your problems appear to be; are they external or internal? Once you identify the source then you can determine whether or not it is something you can change. For example, if you are getting a bunch of traffic violations you can try to be more aware of your speed when you drive. On the other hand, if your boss is constantly riding your back even though you are doing your job correctly, that is not something that you have direct control over.
It is not enough simply to always follow the rules because you can’t control the actions, feelings, or emotions of others. Plus, there is no guarantee that those around you are going to be as conscientious about following the rules as you are. For instance, you may wait until the light turns green to enter the intersection, but if the other guy runs a red light you both have a problem. Or, you may choose not to cheat on your spouse, but if he or she isn’t faithful then you both have a problem.
Learn to identify the things that you do have direct control over and focus your energy there. When you throw a ball you can aim it at the target but once it leaves your hand its destination will be impacted by wind speed, wind direction, and other factors that you have no control over. Mathematically, the shortest distance between two points is always a straight line, but this isn’t necessarily the case when it comes to life and people. :)How to live a problem free life ? what advice would you give ?
for one you would need to feel there are no such thing as problems
but then, you could have a problem with that fact
dessensitize yourself to everything, but then you may have no pleasure either, then you may consider that a problem
faith in God?, might help, but then you might have a problem in making yourself believe in it
problems will always be there
being yourself, and doing unto others as you would have done unto you might be the best advice
for a problem free life you'd need to let go of the desire for things not essential to survival. but that does not mean letting go of the desire for conveniance. you need to reach a balance where you enjoy your life for what it is, when you spend, you spend according to what you can afford to spend, no need to watch money closely, but also no need to over spend. not doing that seems to be one of the main contributions to people's problems today
We should be competent and skillful to face any problems. The techniques for solving problems are many. We should adopt a principled life. Do quality work. Be positive. Have right vision. Use all our time, energy, knowledge and resources in right pursuits. Earn lot of good will. Be righteous. Be virtuous. Be pious. Be noble. Think pure, speak truth, act in a balanced way. Nurture good habits and build strong moral behavior.
There's always problems in life, each person has their own worries and problems. But I suggest to live one day at a time. Don't worry about the past, it's gone and you can do nothing to change it. Don't worry about the future as it's not here yet. Just enjoy everyday you have and be happy to have it. Love Living!
can't problem totally problem-free but you can greatly reduce the problems in your life
focus on things that make you happy (make a list if you have to)
take care of yourself
be around people who seem to be heading that same way or already there
plan ahead (either for the next day, week or month/s)
Do the things you want to do.. not what someone wants you to do. Be your own best friend. Live life for what it is - living.. not working so hard to make money.. which is spent on mostly junk anyway. Life is the real thing.. the sun.. the sea.. the mountains..
Life is very temporary. Don't waste it on nonsensical garbage.. don't be a typical 'consumer' and get sucked into that scene. Also, live for the now. Forget the past days %26amp; years.. 'those that forget the most are happiest' - an old quote I remember..
Live.. joie de vivre...!!!
inherit about a zillion dollars
live in a thick stone bubble
have the world piped into your existence?
Problem free life?! Hmmmm impossible, the power of light you can understand only at dark.the meaning of life you can understand only by problems.
the world will judge you on how you handle your problems--its the one thing every body has--quote from the book of frederic
Sorry to disappoint you, but no one's life is completely problem free. That's what makes us human.
impossible.. suicide is about it if you want problem free.. come on already.
learn to love problems ones you don't mind having problems your problems suddenly stop being problems
You can't. You shouldn't. I won't.
Never buy anything on credit!
Economics School Problem: need some advice?
I posted this before and thanks so much for all your help in getting me started. Just want to be sure I'm on the right track with my answers. Here's the problem
1. A firm is considering building a bridge. The cost to build the bridge is $2 million with no maintenance costs. The following table shows demand for the entire life time of the bridge:
Price per crossing # of crossings
$8 0
7 100,000
6 200,000
5 300,000
4 400,000
3 500,000
2 600,000
1 700,000
0 800,000
a. What is the profit maximizing price? 4
b. What is the efficient level of output? why? 80,000
c. If the firm is interested in maximizing profit, shout it build the bridge? No, the cost shouldn't be more than 1,600,000
d. If the government was to build the bridge, what price should the government charge? NOT SURE ON THIS
e. Should the government build the bridge? Why? If cost is below 8.4 million, government should build the bridgeEconomics School Problem: need some advice?
I agree with the answers you put for (a) and (c). The rest should be as follows:
(b) Where did 80,000 come from??? Does ';output'; mean ';number of bridge crossings';?? Then you probably mean 800,000. It is efficient since the marginal cost of bridge crossings in this example is zero.
(d) The government ';should'; charge an efficient price. That is, a price where price equals marginal cost, which is zero. So, the government will not charge for bridge crossings and the level of output in this case will be efficient (see part (b)).
(e) Where did $8.4 million come from in your answer? The government ';should'; build the bridge if the total social value of doing so is positive. Given that they will not charge for bridge use, the number of crossings will be 800,000. Given the demand schedule, the total consumer surplus from the bridge is: 8*800,000/2 = $3,200,000. So, the government should build the bridge because the consumer surplus is greater than the construction cost of $2 million. But, they shouldn't build the bridge if the cost is above $3.2 million (*not* 8.4).
Hope that helps.how to apply
1. A firm is considering building a bridge. The cost to build the bridge is $2 million with no maintenance costs. The following table shows demand for the entire life time of the bridge:
Price per crossing # of crossings
$8 0
7 100,000
6 200,000
5 300,000
4 400,000
3 500,000
2 600,000
1 700,000
0 800,000
a. What is the profit maximizing price? 4
b. What is the efficient level of output? why? 80,000
c. If the firm is interested in maximizing profit, shout it build the bridge? No, the cost shouldn't be more than 1,600,000
d. If the government was to build the bridge, what price should the government charge? NOT SURE ON THIS
e. Should the government build the bridge? Why? If cost is below 8.4 million, government should build the bridgeEconomics School Problem: need some advice?
I agree with the answers you put for (a) and (c). The rest should be as follows:
(b) Where did 80,000 come from??? Does ';output'; mean ';number of bridge crossings';?? Then you probably mean 800,000. It is efficient since the marginal cost of bridge crossings in this example is zero.
(d) The government ';should'; charge an efficient price. That is, a price where price equals marginal cost, which is zero. So, the government will not charge for bridge crossings and the level of output in this case will be efficient (see part (b)).
(e) Where did $8.4 million come from in your answer? The government ';should'; build the bridge if the total social value of doing so is positive. Given that they will not charge for bridge use, the number of crossings will be 800,000. Given the demand schedule, the total consumer surplus from the bridge is: 8*800,000/2 = $3,200,000. So, the government should build the bridge because the consumer surplus is greater than the construction cost of $2 million. But, they shouldn't build the bridge if the cost is above $3.2 million (*not* 8.4).
Hope that helps.
ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
Ok so here is whats up with the guy I like
-football player and is popular
-jokes around a lot
-we live in the same neighborhood
-we have 2 classes together i sit next to him in one of them
-we have talked before, not a lot but some small convo
-we are both sophomores
You got any tips on how to catch his eye or get him interested?ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
wear a skirt in the class that u sit next to him in to catch his eye.then strike up a conversation if u can.maybe about how u live near each other then say something like ';well since we live so close we shud hangout sometime'; or something like that.ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
you making the first move will be an eye opener for sure. not necessarily does the guy have to make the first move you know.
Ask him on a date... that'll catch his eye
start talking to him get to know him just show interest in him don't be shy around him.
ask him out if it works it works if it don't no big deal hes just a big dumb jock anyway
talk to him!
be sweet and make sure he is a sweet guy himself and not a jerk that wants to get in ur pants.
but yeah say hi to him everyday
well u could act like u dont know wat ur doing in the classes u have with him and ask him for help then get to talkin to him more. or just keep taklin to him. im best friends with my crushes and its b/c i talk to them.
dress sexy =] hahah
jump on him and rub him down in honey worked for my first wife... : )
-football player and is popular
-jokes around a lot
-we live in the same neighborhood
-we have 2 classes together i sit next to him in one of them
-we have talked before, not a lot but some small convo
-we are both sophomores
You got any tips on how to catch his eye or get him interested?ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
wear a skirt in the class that u sit next to him in to catch his eye.then strike up a conversation if u can.maybe about how u live near each other then say something like ';well since we live so close we shud hangout sometime'; or something like that.ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
you making the first move will be an eye opener for sure. not necessarily does the guy have to make the first move you know.
Ask him on a date... that'll catch his eye
start talking to him get to know him just show interest in him don't be shy around him.
ask him out if it works it works if it don't no big deal hes just a big dumb jock anyway
talk to him!
be sweet and make sure he is a sweet guy himself and not a jerk that wants to get in ur pants.
but yeah say hi to him everyday
well u could act like u dont know wat ur doing in the classes u have with him and ask him for help then get to talkin to him more. or just keep taklin to him. im best friends with my crushes and its b/c i talk to them.
dress sexy =] hahah
jump on him and rub him down in honey worked for my first wife... : )
Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
i like this girl who i am good friends with. we are both juniors in highschool. the problem is, she has a boyfriend and she really likes him, but i know for a fact i like and appreciate her more than he does. i just want to find a way to either be with her, to clear my chest, or to just get over these feelings completly. I just want this wonderful girl in my life without screwing something up. please help.Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
that is tough once you have already established a friendly relationship with a girl. you got to jump into it as if you want to dater her right away.. best you can do is try to let her know you are interested but be subtle about it.. flirt with her just a little and give her compliments.. like wow you sure look nice today.. and pay attention to her body language, you can tell a lot from that..
just give it your best shot while bieing some what suttle but not to suttle, that is probably your best bet unles you really feel the need to just be like hey this is the deal.. and see what happens.. but remember this you kever know till you try.. but maybee try the flirting and compliments.. and if she starts flirting back and all that than tell her the deal..Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
since u said please... if u think something is rong with this girlz bf talk 2 her about it, if she is trying to get out of the relationship-HELP HER, dont try 2 get over the feelingz 4her, she obviously likes u back!!!
whatever you do dont pressure her into leaving her boyfriend. if things dont work out between you two she'll blame you. tell her how you feel but you respect she has a boyfriend. you never know she may eventually leave him and look for you.
Don't get involved in a relationship. Just wait til she is free. Otherwise you would be like kind of a junior homewrecker.
Stay friends with her until she dumps her boyfriend. You might ask her to go with you to grab a shake or a soda. If she says OK then you might tell her that you really like her and see what she has to say.
Good luck.
tell he how you feel and let the desion be hers!!!!!!!!!!
If she thinks of you as a friend and she has a boyfriend, then I wouldn't say anything for the time being. Just be her friend and be happy for her right now..because if you try to break up her and her boyfriend she could get mad at you. There really isn't anything you can do, just be happy as friends.
r u a lesbo?
Do nothing Peter...If she breaks up with him, that is different...
Thats a tuff one... I would*if i were you* put an annomonous note in her locker saying how you feel... and put maybe a rose or some really pretty flower in her locker too... but if you have guts.. then write your name at the bottom of the note or just tell her to her face how you feel...
Well, I believe that close friends are better than a boy/girlfriend. You should wait it out. Don't pressure her into anything. And if you truly feel that he's not the right one, then you should tell her.
It's not your decision to choose who she goes out with. But if there's a way to change her mind, go ahead.
Eventually she will find out what you already know and then things will look up for you. In the mean time, be there for her...especially in an emergency or when she needs emotional support. Make her laugh sometimes (girls love that). If it is meant to be it will come about.
Just tell her how wonderful she is and how losing her would be devastating to you.
She probably already nose that you're pretty wonderful too.
Now it's up to you to figure out the best way to handle the situation.
Saying nice things is not my strong point.
awww thats so sweet!
it will be harder trying to get over it so i suggest that you just come clean and tell her how you feel.,
if she tells you that she loves her bf and isnt interested in you in that way, then you can still be good friends with her but it will be easier to get over her... if that makes ne sense!
good luck
ok i say back off and move on or sit and wait. cause if you say enything to ';clear your chest'; you will prolly make things awkward with her and her boyfriend will hate you adn prolly kill you. dude just put yourself in his shoes. if she was your girl would you want some guy hitting on your girl just because he thinks he deservs her more..... ya didnt think so. u dont really know wat they have going. this could be one of her great loves. dont ruin it for both of them. dont be that selfish. u can always come back to her later.
that is tough once you have already established a friendly relationship with a girl. you got to jump into it as if you want to dater her right away.. best you can do is try to let her know you are interested but be subtle about it.. flirt with her just a little and give her compliments.. like wow you sure look nice today.. and pay attention to her body language, you can tell a lot from that..
just give it your best shot while bieing some what suttle but not to suttle, that is probably your best bet unles you really feel the need to just be like hey this is the deal.. and see what happens.. but remember this you kever know till you try.. but maybee try the flirting and compliments.. and if she starts flirting back and all that than tell her the deal..Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
since u said please... if u think something is rong with this girlz bf talk 2 her about it, if she is trying to get out of the relationship-HELP HER, dont try 2 get over the feelingz 4her, she obviously likes u back!!!
whatever you do dont pressure her into leaving her boyfriend. if things dont work out between you two she'll blame you. tell her how you feel but you respect she has a boyfriend. you never know she may eventually leave him and look for you.
Don't get involved in a relationship. Just wait til she is free. Otherwise you would be like kind of a junior homewrecker.
Stay friends with her until she dumps her boyfriend. You might ask her to go with you to grab a shake or a soda. If she says OK then you might tell her that you really like her and see what she has to say.
Good luck.
tell he how you feel and let the desion be hers!!!!!!!!!!
If she thinks of you as a friend and she has a boyfriend, then I wouldn't say anything for the time being. Just be her friend and be happy for her right now..because if you try to break up her and her boyfriend she could get mad at you. There really isn't anything you can do, just be happy as friends.
r u a lesbo?
Do nothing Peter...If she breaks up with him, that is different...
Thats a tuff one... I would*if i were you* put an annomonous note in her locker saying how you feel... and put maybe a rose or some really pretty flower in her locker too... but if you have guts.. then write your name at the bottom of the note or just tell her to her face how you feel...
Well, I believe that close friends are better than a boy/girlfriend. You should wait it out. Don't pressure her into anything. And if you truly feel that he's not the right one, then you should tell her.
It's not your decision to choose who she goes out with. But if there's a way to change her mind, go ahead.
Eventually she will find out what you already know and then things will look up for you. In the mean time, be there for her...especially in an emergency or when she needs emotional support. Make her laugh sometimes (girls love that). If it is meant to be it will come about.
Just tell her how wonderful she is and how losing her would be devastating to you.
She probably already nose that you're pretty wonderful too.
Now it's up to you to figure out the best way to handle the situation.
Saying nice things is not my strong point.
awww thats so sweet!
it will be harder trying to get over it so i suggest that you just come clean and tell her how you feel.,
if she tells you that she loves her bf and isnt interested in you in that way, then you can still be good friends with her but it will be easier to get over her... if that makes ne sense!
good luck
ok i say back off and move on or sit and wait. cause if you say enything to ';clear your chest'; you will prolly make things awkward with her and her boyfriend will hate you adn prolly kill you. dude just put yourself in his shoes. if she was your girl would you want some guy hitting on your girl just because he thinks he deservs her more..... ya didnt think so. u dont really know wat they have going. this could be one of her great loves. dont ruin it for both of them. dont be that selfish. u can always come back to her later.
I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
what hair colour should i useI colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
DO NOT USE Permanent hair color this will damage your hair and cause it to be dry or break/shed. Try using a color rinse or a Semi-permanent hair color that doesnt damage your hair. Make sure you use a deep conditioner every week and this should help!I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
You need to use a good protein reconstructor, check out Kerastase or Joico. Use that for a few weeks then get a color gloss to add some shine back
Especially this is a big problem for the persons who have long hairs but I think U wont be in this category. Just kidding . Anyways when U wash your hairs then put few drops of veneger(sirka) in ur bucket and then use this water to wash ur hairs .If U realy trust me then itwill work in 4 to 5 days. Just go and try it . God Day.
Your hair is feeling dull and dry, and is falling out... it's overprocessed.
Stop using harsh treatments - colour with temporaries for a while, the mousse's or the shampoo-in ones.
Use deep conditioning treatments at least once a week, to help your hair and scalp build back strength.
If you keep using harsh dyes right now, you might want to look into wigs!
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
DO NOT USE Permanent hair color this will damage your hair and cause it to be dry or break/shed. Try using a color rinse or a Semi-permanent hair color that doesnt damage your hair. Make sure you use a deep conditioner every week and this should help!I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
You need to use a good protein reconstructor, check out Kerastase or Joico. Use that for a few weeks then get a color gloss to add some shine back
Especially this is a big problem for the persons who have long hairs but I think U wont be in this category. Just kidding . Anyways when U wash your hairs then put few drops of veneger(sirka) in ur bucket and then use this water to wash ur hairs .If U realy trust me then itwill work in 4 to 5 days. Just go and try it . God Day.
Your hair is feeling dull and dry, and is falling out... it's overprocessed.
Stop using harsh treatments - colour with temporaries for a while, the mousse's or the shampoo-in ones.
Use deep conditioning treatments at least once a week, to help your hair and scalp build back strength.
If you keep using harsh dyes right now, you might want to look into wigs!
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
I have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
I like this guy ALOT but i don't know if he likes me and i want him to verry much. How can i get him to like me? We have the same friends and we hang out at school almost everyday but i want him to like me. What should i do? Im afraid to ask him if he wants to do something with me and i don't want to make it extreemley ovious because than my friends will try to get involved or tease me. Any suggestions?I have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
just be nice and see if u and ur friends want to go on a group date to the movies or something...get to kno him a lil better and found out his likes and dislikesI have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
Invite him out casually. Somewhere you guys kick it a lot at. He'll be confused if you ask him to go to your ';kick it'; spot. He'll be thinking, ';Does she like me? Is she inviting me to go hang out cause she likes me or cause she just wants to hang out?'; Like if you kick it at a park, its a casual place to be just hanging out, yet you're hanging out with him...the best part? You have him all to yourself and you'll get closer. Let things fall into place after that.
Good Luck!
well i could tell u is this get him in a nice quiet place like the libary or something if ur in a study book or what ever is called talk to him be a nice cute young lady and act ur self and tell him how u feel about him and u should get the guy
You will miss out on a lot of great experiences in life if you let fear hold you back. I would encourage you to step out of your shell and make life happen! BUT, in this case - when it comes to men, I never pursue a guy. If he doesn't approach me on his own, it is safe to assume that he is not interested or that he is too weak of a man (which you don't want anyway). Stop wasting your energy, live life and stop worrying about this boy! It should be the other way around - some guy should be stressing out over you! You're worth it and don't you forget it!
Continue. Soon he will notice this one sided affair of yours.
Don't worry about friends teasing you. If you really like this guy, do something about it. But, at the same time, don't be SO wrapped up in him. If he turns you down you will just be devastated. Talk to him. Find out more about him. Is he involved in sports? Go to some of his games. Is he in after-school clubs? Get involved in that too. Become interested in the things that he is interested in. Put yourself in a position where you know he will be. Let him know about your favorite things. If you have things in common you are both more likely to hit it off and possibly spark a little romance. Be friends first. My husband and I were friends first. And, get this, I actually asked him to marry me! You never know how things will work out!
Wouldn't the world be a boring place if not for the work that is creative between a girl and a boy. If you are as shy about your feelings for this boy as you have indicated you can find out about him lots of ways, watch him when he speaks to someone else and see how he shows if he likes them, its called body language and we all do it, watching someone else is easier than trying to figure it out while he is talking to you and your mind is sizzling with affection chemicals. One thing is for sure for every shy girl there is a shy boy. We all fall for someone who has no interest in us once in a while, the consequences of not asking are usually much worse than asking, even if your friends give you a hard time, infact the harder they ride you they more scared they are themselves so take heart, while they still pick on you they are scared too. Just don't wait too long or you will be left behind, after college no one (except a few perverts) is looking for immature shy people of either sex, that is school stuff, enjoy.
flirting
being a really great friend
helping him out
be yourself, if he is interested he will totally take notice
Dress cute (not slutty) smile a lot and make eye contact and then when he notices look away.
There's nothing that you can really do. You cant just magically make someone fall for you..It takes time. You just need to be yourself, and hope for the better. That maybe something will happen between you two. But until then, there's nothing that you can do. Just sit back and enjoy this bumpy ride called 'Life'. Stuff like this happens to everyone. Im in a situation myself..But a little more complex than yours. But really, you just cant make someone fall in love with you, or just simply like you, thats not how life is. You have to let the guy slowly grow feelings for you. So Im sorry that I didnt really help cause I know you were looking for suggestions to get the guy to like you, but the only one I got is to just play it cool, and most importantly, be yourself!
Grow up, that's a start. There are so many problems, real problems in the ';field'; of love...If you don't know how to solve this, how could you face up the other problems?
Be good friends with everyone. At this age and stage in school everyone has a crush on someone, but no one is really serious, they are all experimenting and are curious and are infatuated, and they like everyone and they are confused. They need time to be mature before they really know what they want, so in the meantime I suggest you be good friends with everyone. Boys are shy so you must talk to them and make them feel comfortable and be their friend. No harm talking to them, they are shy just like you at this young age. Take care all the best.
Well, it could be really embaressing and uncomfortable if you go up and ask him out and he says no. I would just wait it out and see if he ever tries to make any moves. You could though on the low and see how he responds.
There was this guy I liked a lot and he is my neighbor. I wrote love letters then, we got into a fight and a week later we hung out forever and started going out for.......5 months. Honey it is so worth it to tell him you absolutly adore every inch of him.
Dont care about what others think. Care about what you think and ask him. Its not worth playing the ''im too scared to ask him out game'' either. Just go for it.! Good luck!
just go for it, ask him to do something, you shouldnt worry about whether your friends tease you or not. if you are concerned about that, just ask him to do something casual
just be nice and see if u and ur friends want to go on a group date to the movies or something...get to kno him a lil better and found out his likes and dislikesI have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
Invite him out casually. Somewhere you guys kick it a lot at. He'll be confused if you ask him to go to your ';kick it'; spot. He'll be thinking, ';Does she like me? Is she inviting me to go hang out cause she likes me or cause she just wants to hang out?'; Like if you kick it at a park, its a casual place to be just hanging out, yet you're hanging out with him...the best part? You have him all to yourself and you'll get closer. Let things fall into place after that.
Good Luck!
well i could tell u is this get him in a nice quiet place like the libary or something if ur in a study book or what ever is called talk to him be a nice cute young lady and act ur self and tell him how u feel about him and u should get the guy
You will miss out on a lot of great experiences in life if you let fear hold you back. I would encourage you to step out of your shell and make life happen! BUT, in this case - when it comes to men, I never pursue a guy. If he doesn't approach me on his own, it is safe to assume that he is not interested or that he is too weak of a man (which you don't want anyway). Stop wasting your energy, live life and stop worrying about this boy! It should be the other way around - some guy should be stressing out over you! You're worth it and don't you forget it!
Continue. Soon he will notice this one sided affair of yours.
Don't worry about friends teasing you. If you really like this guy, do something about it. But, at the same time, don't be SO wrapped up in him. If he turns you down you will just be devastated. Talk to him. Find out more about him. Is he involved in sports? Go to some of his games. Is he in after-school clubs? Get involved in that too. Become interested in the things that he is interested in. Put yourself in a position where you know he will be. Let him know about your favorite things. If you have things in common you are both more likely to hit it off and possibly spark a little romance. Be friends first. My husband and I were friends first. And, get this, I actually asked him to marry me! You never know how things will work out!
Wouldn't the world be a boring place if not for the work that is creative between a girl and a boy. If you are as shy about your feelings for this boy as you have indicated you can find out about him lots of ways, watch him when he speaks to someone else and see how he shows if he likes them, its called body language and we all do it, watching someone else is easier than trying to figure it out while he is talking to you and your mind is sizzling with affection chemicals. One thing is for sure for every shy girl there is a shy boy. We all fall for someone who has no interest in us once in a while, the consequences of not asking are usually much worse than asking, even if your friends give you a hard time, infact the harder they ride you they more scared they are themselves so take heart, while they still pick on you they are scared too. Just don't wait too long or you will be left behind, after college no one (except a few perverts) is looking for immature shy people of either sex, that is school stuff, enjoy.
flirting
being a really great friend
helping him out
be yourself, if he is interested he will totally take notice
Dress cute (not slutty) smile a lot and make eye contact and then when he notices look away.
There's nothing that you can really do. You cant just magically make someone fall for you..It takes time. You just need to be yourself, and hope for the better. That maybe something will happen between you two. But until then, there's nothing that you can do. Just sit back and enjoy this bumpy ride called 'Life'. Stuff like this happens to everyone. Im in a situation myself..But a little more complex than yours. But really, you just cant make someone fall in love with you, or just simply like you, thats not how life is. You have to let the guy slowly grow feelings for you. So Im sorry that I didnt really help cause I know you were looking for suggestions to get the guy to like you, but the only one I got is to just play it cool, and most importantly, be yourself!
Grow up, that's a start. There are so many problems, real problems in the ';field'; of love...If you don't know how to solve this, how could you face up the other problems?
Be good friends with everyone. At this age and stage in school everyone has a crush on someone, but no one is really serious, they are all experimenting and are curious and are infatuated, and they like everyone and they are confused. They need time to be mature before they really know what they want, so in the meantime I suggest you be good friends with everyone. Boys are shy so you must talk to them and make them feel comfortable and be their friend. No harm talking to them, they are shy just like you at this young age. Take care all the best.
Well, it could be really embaressing and uncomfortable if you go up and ask him out and he says no. I would just wait it out and see if he ever tries to make any moves. You could though on the low and see how he responds.
There was this guy I liked a lot and he is my neighbor. I wrote love letters then, we got into a fight and a week later we hung out forever and started going out for.......5 months. Honey it is so worth it to tell him you absolutly adore every inch of him.
Dont care about what others think. Care about what you think and ask him. Its not worth playing the ''im too scared to ask him out game'' either. Just go for it.! Good luck!
just go for it, ask him to do something, you shouldnt worry about whether your friends tease you or not. if you are concerned about that, just ask him to do something casual
I have a vascular headache problem for 7 yrs. And doctor advice me to take a cyproheptadine hydrochloride.?
so i want to know abt this medicine??I have a vascular headache problem for 7 yrs. And doctor advice me to take a cyproheptadine hydrochloride.?
It's an anti-histamine. And is usually used for allergies but they are now using it for miagraines.
It binds to receptors and opens blood vessels.
With a migraine the medication blockes the production of serotonin, which is raised in miagraines.
It has a sedative side effect.
If you Google the drug you can find plenty of information on it written in plain English. Not medical jargon.
It's an anti-histamine. And is usually used for allergies but they are now using it for miagraines.
It binds to receptors and opens blood vessels.
With a migraine the medication blockes the production of serotonin, which is raised in miagraines.
It has a sedative side effect.
If you Google the drug you can find plenty of information on it written in plain English. Not medical jargon.
ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
Ok so here is whats up with the guy I like
-football player and is popular
-jokes around a lot
-we live in the same neighborhood
-we have 2 classes together i sit next to him in one of them
-we have talked before, not a lot but some small convo
-we are both sophomores
You got any tips on how to catch his eye or get him interested?ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
wear a skirt in the class that u sit next to him in to catch his eye.then strike up a conversation if u can.maybe about how u live near each other then say something like ';well since we live so close we shud hangout sometime'; or something like that.ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
you making the first move will be an eye opener for sure. not necessarily does the guy have to make the first move you know.
Ask him on a date... that'll catch his eye
start talking to him get to know him just show interest in him don't be shy around him.
ask him out if it works it works if it don't no big deal hes just a big dumb jock anyway
talk to him!
be sweet and make sure he is a sweet guy himself and not a jerk that wants to get in ur pants.
but yeah say hi to him everyday
well u could act like u dont know wat ur doing in the classes u have with him and ask him for help then get to talkin to him more. or just keep taklin to him. im best friends with my crushes and its b/c i talk to them.
dress sexy =] hahah
jump on him and rub him down in honey worked for my first wife... : )how to apply
-football player and is popular
-jokes around a lot
-we live in the same neighborhood
-we have 2 classes together i sit next to him in one of them
-we have talked before, not a lot but some small convo
-we are both sophomores
You got any tips on how to catch his eye or get him interested?ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
wear a skirt in the class that u sit next to him in to catch his eye.then strike up a conversation if u can.maybe about how u live near each other then say something like ';well since we live so close we shud hangout sometime'; or something like that.ANY GUYS GOT ADVICE FOR THIS PrOBLEM????
you making the first move will be an eye opener for sure. not necessarily does the guy have to make the first move you know.
Ask him on a date... that'll catch his eye
start talking to him get to know him just show interest in him don't be shy around him.
ask him out if it works it works if it don't no big deal hes just a big dumb jock anyway
talk to him!
be sweet and make sure he is a sweet guy himself and not a jerk that wants to get in ur pants.
but yeah say hi to him everyday
well u could act like u dont know wat ur doing in the classes u have with him and ask him for help then get to talkin to him more. or just keep taklin to him. im best friends with my crushes and its b/c i talk to them.
dress sexy =] hahah
jump on him and rub him down in honey worked for my first wife... : )
Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
i like this girl who i am good friends with. we are both juniors in highschool. the problem is, she has a boyfriend and she really likes him, but i know for a fact i like and appreciate her more than he does. i just want to find a way to either be with her, to clear my chest, or to just get over these feelings completly. I just want this wonderful girl in my life without screwing something up. please help.Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
that is tough once you have already established a friendly relationship with a girl. you got to jump into it as if you want to dater her right away.. best you can do is try to let her know you are interested but be subtle about it.. flirt with her just a little and give her compliments.. like wow you sure look nice today.. and pay attention to her body language, you can tell a lot from that..
just give it your best shot while bieing some what suttle but not to suttle, that is probably your best bet unles you really feel the need to just be like hey this is the deal.. and see what happens.. but remember this you kever know till you try.. but maybee try the flirting and compliments.. and if she starts flirting back and all that than tell her the deal..Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
since u said please... if u think something is rong with this girlz bf talk 2 her about it, if she is trying to get out of the relationship-HELP HER, dont try 2 get over the feelingz 4her, she obviously likes u back!!!
whatever you do dont pressure her into leaving her boyfriend. if things dont work out between you two she'll blame you. tell her how you feel but you respect she has a boyfriend. you never know she may eventually leave him and look for you.
Don't get involved in a relationship. Just wait til she is free. Otherwise you would be like kind of a junior homewrecker.
Stay friends with her until she dumps her boyfriend. You might ask her to go with you to grab a shake or a soda. If she says OK then you might tell her that you really like her and see what she has to say.
Good luck.
tell he how you feel and let the desion be hers!!!!!!!!!!
If she thinks of you as a friend and she has a boyfriend, then I wouldn't say anything for the time being. Just be her friend and be happy for her right now..because if you try to break up her and her boyfriend she could get mad at you. There really isn't anything you can do, just be happy as friends.
r u a lesbo?
Do nothing Peter...If she breaks up with him, that is different...
Thats a tuff one... I would*if i were you* put an annomonous note in her locker saying how you feel... and put maybe a rose or some really pretty flower in her locker too... but if you have guts.. then write your name at the bottom of the note or just tell her to her face how you feel...
Well, I believe that close friends are better than a boy/girlfriend. You should wait it out. Don't pressure her into anything. And if you truly feel that he's not the right one, then you should tell her.
It's not your decision to choose who she goes out with. But if there's a way to change her mind, go ahead.
Eventually she will find out what you already know and then things will look up for you. In the mean time, be there for her...especially in an emergency or when she needs emotional support. Make her laugh sometimes (girls love that). If it is meant to be it will come about.
Just tell her how wonderful she is and how losing her would be devastating to you.
She probably already nose that you're pretty wonderful too.
Now it's up to you to figure out the best way to handle the situation.
Saying nice things is not my strong point.
awww thats so sweet!
it will be harder trying to get over it so i suggest that you just come clean and tell her how you feel.,
if she tells you that she loves her bf and isnt interested in you in that way, then you can still be good friends with her but it will be easier to get over her... if that makes ne sense!
good luck
ok i say back off and move on or sit and wait. cause if you say enything to ';clear your chest'; you will prolly make things awkward with her and her boyfriend will hate you adn prolly kill you. dude just put yourself in his shoes. if she was your girl would you want some guy hitting on your girl just because he thinks he deservs her more..... ya didnt think so. u dont really know wat they have going. this could be one of her great loves. dont ruin it for both of them. dont be that selfish. u can always come back to her later.
that is tough once you have already established a friendly relationship with a girl. you got to jump into it as if you want to dater her right away.. best you can do is try to let her know you are interested but be subtle about it.. flirt with her just a little and give her compliments.. like wow you sure look nice today.. and pay attention to her body language, you can tell a lot from that..
just give it your best shot while bieing some what suttle but not to suttle, that is probably your best bet unles you really feel the need to just be like hey this is the deal.. and see what happens.. but remember this you kever know till you try.. but maybee try the flirting and compliments.. and if she starts flirting back and all that than tell her the deal..Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
since u said please... if u think something is rong with this girlz bf talk 2 her about it, if she is trying to get out of the relationship-HELP HER, dont try 2 get over the feelingz 4her, she obviously likes u back!!!
whatever you do dont pressure her into leaving her boyfriend. if things dont work out between you two she'll blame you. tell her how you feel but you respect she has a boyfriend. you never know she may eventually leave him and look for you.
Don't get involved in a relationship. Just wait til she is free. Otherwise you would be like kind of a junior homewrecker.
Stay friends with her until she dumps her boyfriend. You might ask her to go with you to grab a shake or a soda. If she says OK then you might tell her that you really like her and see what she has to say.
Good luck.
tell he how you feel and let the desion be hers!!!!!!!!!!
If she thinks of you as a friend and she has a boyfriend, then I wouldn't say anything for the time being. Just be her friend and be happy for her right now..because if you try to break up her and her boyfriend she could get mad at you. There really isn't anything you can do, just be happy as friends.
r u a lesbo?
Do nothing Peter...If she breaks up with him, that is different...
Thats a tuff one... I would*if i were you* put an annomonous note in her locker saying how you feel... and put maybe a rose or some really pretty flower in her locker too... but if you have guts.. then write your name at the bottom of the note or just tell her to her face how you feel...
Well, I believe that close friends are better than a boy/girlfriend. You should wait it out. Don't pressure her into anything. And if you truly feel that he's not the right one, then you should tell her.
It's not your decision to choose who she goes out with. But if there's a way to change her mind, go ahead.
Eventually she will find out what you already know and then things will look up for you. In the mean time, be there for her...especially in an emergency or when she needs emotional support. Make her laugh sometimes (girls love that). If it is meant to be it will come about.
Just tell her how wonderful she is and how losing her would be devastating to you.
She probably already nose that you're pretty wonderful too.
Now it's up to you to figure out the best way to handle the situation.
Saying nice things is not my strong point.
awww thats so sweet!
it will be harder trying to get over it so i suggest that you just come clean and tell her how you feel.,
if she tells you that she loves her bf and isnt interested in you in that way, then you can still be good friends with her but it will be easier to get over her... if that makes ne sense!
good luck
ok i say back off and move on or sit and wait. cause if you say enything to ';clear your chest'; you will prolly make things awkward with her and her boyfriend will hate you adn prolly kill you. dude just put yourself in his shoes. if she was your girl would you want some guy hitting on your girl just because he thinks he deservs her more..... ya didnt think so. u dont really know wat they have going. this could be one of her great loves. dont ruin it for both of them. dont be that selfish. u can always come back to her later.
I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
what hair colour should i useI colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
DO NOT USE Permanent hair color this will damage your hair and cause it to be dry or break/shed. Try using a color rinse or a Semi-permanent hair color that doesnt damage your hair. Make sure you use a deep conditioner every week and this should help!I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
You need to use a good protein reconstructor, check out Kerastase or Joico. Use that for a few weeks then get a color gloss to add some shine back
Especially this is a big problem for the persons who have long hairs but I think U wont be in this category. Just kidding . Anyways when U wash your hairs then put few drops of veneger(sirka) in ur bucket and then use this water to wash ur hairs .If U realy trust me then itwill work in 4 to 5 days. Just go and try it . God Day.
Your hair is feeling dull and dry, and is falling out... it's overprocessed.
Stop using harsh treatments - colour with temporaries for a while, the mousse's or the shampoo-in ones.
Use deep conditioning treatments at least once a week, to help your hair and scalp build back strength.
If you keep using harsh dyes right now, you might want to look into wigs!
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
DO NOT USE Permanent hair color this will damage your hair and cause it to be dry or break/shed. Try using a color rinse or a Semi-permanent hair color that doesnt damage your hair. Make sure you use a deep conditioner every week and this should help!I colour my hair and my hair feel dull and dry. i am having hair fall problem please advice what should i do?
You need to use a good protein reconstructor, check out Kerastase or Joico. Use that for a few weeks then get a color gloss to add some shine back
Especially this is a big problem for the persons who have long hairs but I think U wont be in this category. Just kidding . Anyways when U wash your hairs then put few drops of veneger(sirka) in ur bucket and then use this water to wash ur hairs .If U realy trust me then itwill work in 4 to 5 days. Just go and try it . God Day.
Your hair is feeling dull and dry, and is falling out... it's overprocessed.
Stop using harsh treatments - colour with temporaries for a while, the mousse's or the shampoo-in ones.
Use deep conditioning treatments at least once a week, to help your hair and scalp build back strength.
If you keep using harsh dyes right now, you might want to look into wigs!
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
hey................ hair coloring products a good in the below mentioned website.............i.think this may help uuuuuuuuu
I have a vascular headache problem for 7 yrs. And doctor advice me to take a cyproheptadine hydrochloride.?
so i want to know abt this medicine??I have a vascular headache problem for 7 yrs. And doctor advice me to take a cyproheptadine hydrochloride.?
It's an anti-histamine. And is usually used for allergies but they are now using it for miagraines.
It binds to receptors and opens blood vessels.
With a migraine the medication blockes the production of serotonin, which is raised in miagraines.
It has a sedative side effect.
If you Google the drug you can find plenty of information on it written in plain English. Not medical jargon.
It's an anti-histamine. And is usually used for allergies but they are now using it for miagraines.
It binds to receptors and opens blood vessels.
With a migraine the medication blockes the production of serotonin, which is raised in miagraines.
It has a sedative side effect.
If you Google the drug you can find plenty of information on it written in plain English. Not medical jargon.
I have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
I like this guy ALOT but i don't know if he likes me and i want him to verry much. How can i get him to like me? We have the same friends and we hang out at school almost everyday but i want him to like me. What should i do? Im afraid to ask him if he wants to do something with me and i don't want to make it extreemley ovious because than my friends will try to get involved or tease me. Any suggestions?I have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
just be nice and see if u and ur friends want to go on a group date to the movies or something...get to kno him a lil better and found out his likes and dislikesI have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
Invite him out casually. Somewhere you guys kick it a lot at. He'll be confused if you ask him to go to your ';kick it'; spot. He'll be thinking, ';Does she like me? Is she inviting me to go hang out cause she likes me or cause she just wants to hang out?'; Like if you kick it at a park, its a casual place to be just hanging out, yet you're hanging out with him...the best part? You have him all to yourself and you'll get closer. Let things fall into place after that.
Good Luck!
well i could tell u is this get him in a nice quiet place like the libary or something if ur in a study book or what ever is called talk to him be a nice cute young lady and act ur self and tell him how u feel about him and u should get the guy
You will miss out on a lot of great experiences in life if you let fear hold you back. I would encourage you to step out of your shell and make life happen! BUT, in this case - when it comes to men, I never pursue a guy. If he doesn't approach me on his own, it is safe to assume that he is not interested or that he is too weak of a man (which you don't want anyway). Stop wasting your energy, live life and stop worrying about this boy! It should be the other way around - some guy should be stressing out over you! You're worth it and don't you forget it!
Continue. Soon he will notice this one sided affair of yours.
Don't worry about friends teasing you. If you really like this guy, do something about it. But, at the same time, don't be SO wrapped up in him. If he turns you down you will just be devastated. Talk to him. Find out more about him. Is he involved in sports? Go to some of his games. Is he in after-school clubs? Get involved in that too. Become interested in the things that he is interested in. Put yourself in a position where you know he will be. Let him know about your favorite things. If you have things in common you are both more likely to hit it off and possibly spark a little romance. Be friends first. My husband and I were friends first. And, get this, I actually asked him to marry me! You never know how things will work out!
Wouldn't the world be a boring place if not for the work that is creative between a girl and a boy. If you are as shy about your feelings for this boy as you have indicated you can find out about him lots of ways, watch him when he speaks to someone else and see how he shows if he likes them, its called body language and we all do it, watching someone else is easier than trying to figure it out while he is talking to you and your mind is sizzling with affection chemicals. One thing is for sure for every shy girl there is a shy boy. We all fall for someone who has no interest in us once in a while, the consequences of not asking are usually much worse than asking, even if your friends give you a hard time, infact the harder they ride you they more scared they are themselves so take heart, while they still pick on you they are scared too. Just don't wait too long or you will be left behind, after college no one (except a few perverts) is looking for immature shy people of either sex, that is school stuff, enjoy.
flirting
being a really great friend
helping him out
be yourself, if he is interested he will totally take notice
Dress cute (not slutty) smile a lot and make eye contact and then when he notices look away.
There's nothing that you can really do. You cant just magically make someone fall for you..It takes time. You just need to be yourself, and hope for the better. That maybe something will happen between you two. But until then, there's nothing that you can do. Just sit back and enjoy this bumpy ride called 'Life'. Stuff like this happens to everyone. Im in a situation myself..But a little more complex than yours. But really, you just cant make someone fall in love with you, or just simply like you, thats not how life is. You have to let the guy slowly grow feelings for you. So Im sorry that I didnt really help cause I know you were looking for suggestions to get the guy to like you, but the only one I got is to just play it cool, and most importantly, be yourself!
Grow up, that's a start. There are so many problems, real problems in the ';field'; of love...If you don't know how to solve this, how could you face up the other problems?
Be good friends with everyone. At this age and stage in school everyone has a crush on someone, but no one is really serious, they are all experimenting and are curious and are infatuated, and they like everyone and they are confused. They need time to be mature before they really know what they want, so in the meantime I suggest you be good friends with everyone. Boys are shy so you must talk to them and make them feel comfortable and be their friend. No harm talking to them, they are shy just like you at this young age. Take care all the best.
Well, it could be really embaressing and uncomfortable if you go up and ask him out and he says no. I would just wait it out and see if he ever tries to make any moves. You could though on the low and see how he responds.
There was this guy I liked a lot and he is my neighbor. I wrote love letters then, we got into a fight and a week later we hung out forever and started going out for.......5 months. Honey it is so worth it to tell him you absolutly adore every inch of him.
Dont care about what others think. Care about what you think and ask him. Its not worth playing the ''im too scared to ask him out game'' either. Just go for it.! Good luck!
just go for it, ask him to do something, you shouldnt worry about whether your friends tease you or not. if you are concerned about that, just ask him to do something casual
just be nice and see if u and ur friends want to go on a group date to the movies or something...get to kno him a lil better and found out his likes and dislikesI have a problem and need all the advice i can get.?
Invite him out casually. Somewhere you guys kick it a lot at. He'll be confused if you ask him to go to your ';kick it'; spot. He'll be thinking, ';Does she like me? Is she inviting me to go hang out cause she likes me or cause she just wants to hang out?'; Like if you kick it at a park, its a casual place to be just hanging out, yet you're hanging out with him...the best part? You have him all to yourself and you'll get closer. Let things fall into place after that.
Good Luck!
well i could tell u is this get him in a nice quiet place like the libary or something if ur in a study book or what ever is called talk to him be a nice cute young lady and act ur self and tell him how u feel about him and u should get the guy
You will miss out on a lot of great experiences in life if you let fear hold you back. I would encourage you to step out of your shell and make life happen! BUT, in this case - when it comes to men, I never pursue a guy. If he doesn't approach me on his own, it is safe to assume that he is not interested or that he is too weak of a man (which you don't want anyway). Stop wasting your energy, live life and stop worrying about this boy! It should be the other way around - some guy should be stressing out over you! You're worth it and don't you forget it!
Continue. Soon he will notice this one sided affair of yours.
Don't worry about friends teasing you. If you really like this guy, do something about it. But, at the same time, don't be SO wrapped up in him. If he turns you down you will just be devastated. Talk to him. Find out more about him. Is he involved in sports? Go to some of his games. Is he in after-school clubs? Get involved in that too. Become interested in the things that he is interested in. Put yourself in a position where you know he will be. Let him know about your favorite things. If you have things in common you are both more likely to hit it off and possibly spark a little romance. Be friends first. My husband and I were friends first. And, get this, I actually asked him to marry me! You never know how things will work out!
Wouldn't the world be a boring place if not for the work that is creative between a girl and a boy. If you are as shy about your feelings for this boy as you have indicated you can find out about him lots of ways, watch him when he speaks to someone else and see how he shows if he likes them, its called body language and we all do it, watching someone else is easier than trying to figure it out while he is talking to you and your mind is sizzling with affection chemicals. One thing is for sure for every shy girl there is a shy boy. We all fall for someone who has no interest in us once in a while, the consequences of not asking are usually much worse than asking, even if your friends give you a hard time, infact the harder they ride you they more scared they are themselves so take heart, while they still pick on you they are scared too. Just don't wait too long or you will be left behind, after college no one (except a few perverts) is looking for immature shy people of either sex, that is school stuff, enjoy.
flirting
being a really great friend
helping him out
be yourself, if he is interested he will totally take notice
Dress cute (not slutty) smile a lot and make eye contact and then when he notices look away.
There's nothing that you can really do. You cant just magically make someone fall for you..It takes time. You just need to be yourself, and hope for the better. That maybe something will happen between you two. But until then, there's nothing that you can do. Just sit back and enjoy this bumpy ride called 'Life'. Stuff like this happens to everyone. Im in a situation myself..But a little more complex than yours. But really, you just cant make someone fall in love with you, or just simply like you, thats not how life is. You have to let the guy slowly grow feelings for you. So Im sorry that I didnt really help cause I know you were looking for suggestions to get the guy to like you, but the only one I got is to just play it cool, and most importantly, be yourself!
Grow up, that's a start. There are so many problems, real problems in the ';field'; of love...If you don't know how to solve this, how could you face up the other problems?
Be good friends with everyone. At this age and stage in school everyone has a crush on someone, but no one is really serious, they are all experimenting and are curious and are infatuated, and they like everyone and they are confused. They need time to be mature before they really know what they want, so in the meantime I suggest you be good friends with everyone. Boys are shy so you must talk to them and make them feel comfortable and be their friend. No harm talking to them, they are shy just like you at this young age. Take care all the best.
Well, it could be really embaressing and uncomfortable if you go up and ask him out and he says no. I would just wait it out and see if he ever tries to make any moves. You could though on the low and see how he responds.
There was this guy I liked a lot and he is my neighbor. I wrote love letters then, we got into a fight and a week later we hung out forever and started going out for.......5 months. Honey it is so worth it to tell him you absolutly adore every inch of him.
Dont care about what others think. Care about what you think and ask him. Its not worth playing the ''im too scared to ask him out game'' either. Just go for it.! Good luck!
just go for it, ask him to do something, you shouldnt worry about whether your friends tease you or not. if you are concerned about that, just ask him to do something casual
I need a guys advice for a dating problem help!?
hey guys um so today at lunch i asked out one of not really close friends and he said no but his friend said he said maybe and in core he kept staring at me and i kept staring at him and he sits next to me in math and he always sits so close that his arm toches me and once he held my hand imn math and smiled what do you think i should do please help?I need a guys advice for a dating problem help!?
see if you like him back. if so, why not give it a chance?
see if you like him back. if so, why not give it a chance?
I am losing my hiar,means Iam balding iam 25 I need advice to stop this problem without using medicines?
Massage your head a lot, brush your hair and take vitamins.If you are smoking or drinking quit. And try to not stress.I am losing my hiar,means Iam balding iam 25 I need advice to stop this problem without using medicines?
You don't say whether you're male or female. If you're male then from what I understand it is down to genetics - men start losing their hair to some extent from puberty, but unfortunately some lose it quicker than others. You could try hair weaves (which are expensive) and various hair thickening products marketed as shampoos - these just make your existing hair strands thicker. Or you could grow your hair long and braid it into cornrows with extensions. IMHO - I'd do what other guys do and have a short style or shave it. Plenty do it and it looks great!
If you are female, I'd strongly recommend you go and see a doctor or trychologist and ensure there are no medical problems causing baldness.
Either way, meantime ensure that you have a good diet and maintain a good lifestyle.how to apply
You don't say whether you're male or female. If you're male then from what I understand it is down to genetics - men start losing their hair to some extent from puberty, but unfortunately some lose it quicker than others. You could try hair weaves (which are expensive) and various hair thickening products marketed as shampoos - these just make your existing hair strands thicker. Or you could grow your hair long and braid it into cornrows with extensions. IMHO - I'd do what other guys do and have a short style or shave it. Plenty do it and it looks great!
If you are female, I'd strongly recommend you go and see a doctor or trychologist and ensure there are no medical problems causing baldness.
Either way, meantime ensure that you have a good diet and maintain a good lifestyle.
I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
I am a 14 and a girl that stays up way too late!! everytime i start staying up super late like this i hear the holy spirit saying ';rachel do no do that you need to be going to bed'; and i keep on ignoring it and staying up till like 1:00 am in the morning!! what is going on?? i feel like god is gonna send me 2 hell for doing this???I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Well Rachel, you won't go to hell for that, but you are going to feel awful in the morning when you have to get up and function! I know the feeling because I am a night owl too. I do not think God sends all night owls to hell. He is a good God and loves us! Try drinking some hot milk and eating a turkey sandwich. I think you should wind down and take a warm bath and turn the lights off and count sheep or do a crossword puzzle. You will feel a little drowsy because some crossword puzzles are boring. Your mind is too active so only keep beautiful things in your mind before you go to bed. Once you establish a routine, it won't be so hard for you!
God bless you, Rachel!I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Okay, first off, it is probably you thinking ';Hey, it's probably about time I go to bed.'; Second off, whoever is making you think that staying up late at night is a sin is a damn fool. If being up at one o' clock in the morning were a sin, all the cops, factory workers, college students, Emergency room doctors/nurses/staff would all be absolutely screwed in the spiritual world. You need to just get some sleep. I tend to stay up way too late for my own good, but have to force myself to go to bed at a decent time. This is something that you have to do for yourself. Only you can determine when you go to bed. Also try turning off music and lights in your bedroom and removing any distractions. If you need some white noise, try some soft music turned down very low or a ceiling fan or something to that effect.
Best wishes.
a lot of it can be simple things
1) lack of exercise - most likely part of it. if you get enough exercise normally you'll be tired and then go to bed.
2) eating too much at night - if you eat too much at night you will have trouble sleeping.
3) not eating enough raw fruits and vegetables - should make up a large part of your diet.
4) not enough sunlight - this can definitely be a factor.. because sunlight is what helps start melatonin production which is what helps regulate sleep.
5) too much computer or tv at night - studies have proven that being on the computer/tv can interfere with sleep patterns.
First of all, god does not hate you for staying up late. If staying up late is the worse thing you ever did, then Kudos to you!!!-)
I am a night owl myself. You just have to train yourself to go to sleep. that means if you have to get up at 6am then make sure you are in bed no later than 11pm. Make yourself go to bed, lay there if you have to, that is what I had to do. After a while, your body will get used to it.
Good luck to you
Staying up late at night does not bring you to hell, disobeying God will. Just check on your habbits because it developes into an attitude. It is not good for 14 year old to stay very late at night for your health and academics sakes. Because it lowers your brain activity and weakens your body. continous practice will result to unbalance health and diet. It might not be the spirit saying those thing but rather your concience. Don't stay very late unless important and does not affect your studies.
This is not a spiritual problem though it may be an ethical one?
Are you staying up late on school nights or just weekends?
If on a weekend is it because you were at a party?
What kind of party?
Are you staying up to watch TV or videos or gaming instead of studying?
Are you reading books? What kind?
Are you running late for morning activities or school?
Please be more specific!
The problem could just be restlessness caused by fluctuating teenage blood sugar and hormone levels.
Try a simple solution avoid stimulants like junk food with lots of sugar or caffeine after 9 pm.
About 9pm have one last snack something like hot drinking chocolate or milk.
God gave you a brain and expects you to use it. Also, being a Christian means you have to discipline yourself. So you shouldn't be staying up to 1 am without good reason.
If you have a mobile, set a time to go to bed as well as a time to get up in the morning.
God does not send people to Hell for not listening to the Holy Spirit.
It is by your own choice to quench the Holy Spirit .You're only hurting yourself.
If you feel it's the Holy Spirit trying to guide you into doing the right thing, then why are you resisting ?Just do what you feel the Holy Spirit is guiding you to do and you will be alright.
Maybe these verses will help coax you to bed at a decent hour:
Proverbs 6:9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou rise out of thy sleep?
Proverbs 11:27 Well doth he rise early who seeketh good things; but he that seeketh after evil things shall be oppressed by them.
If that doesn't work, ask your parents to start dragging you out of bed at 5am every morning. (EVERY morning, 7 days a week). In a couple of days you'll be so exhausted you'll go to bed earlier.
Going to bed late isn't a big deal compared to other things but could be a sin if you parents told you to go to bed at a certain time. You won't go to hell for your sins though if you ask god to forgive you for them and accept him as your savior.
Well, if God's bidding you to do something you really should do it
I am 16, and I like to stay up late too, but if u decide to stay up late, read the bible and pray
(hint: satan always try to distract you or make you sleep when you pray)
Dont let the holey spirit put ideas in your head.
Play it smart and get those voices out. You'll
feel better in the AM and your parents will still
be alive. Oh, and tell your folks to use protection
for their next child.
no he is not but your parents are telling you to go to bed and you are not that means you are being disobedent. right. when i have a hard time sleeping reading God word comforts me and i fall straight to sleep. try it
What problems are resulting from your staying up late?
What activities are you involved in when you stay up late?
Are you disobeying your parents by staying up late?
Just staying up late itself is not a sin.
Hold up the Bible above your head with two hands and then let go.
It will either make the voices go away, or make you fall asleep... or er... unconscious. Either way, it's a win-win situation.
God will not send you to hell for staying up late.
God loves you even at your worst.
God's love is unconditional... so much so we cannot even fathom his endless mercy and grace towards us.
Talk to your mom about getting prescription drugs.
Take your finals after a month of doing that,
and you'll have made it to hell.
STs!
Rule 14.
If that's the best you've got, try again.
LMAO
That voice is PEDO BEAR!
Don't ask me I have always been a night owl.
What????
Well Rachel, you won't go to hell for that, but you are going to feel awful in the morning when you have to get up and function! I know the feeling because I am a night owl too. I do not think God sends all night owls to hell. He is a good God and loves us! Try drinking some hot milk and eating a turkey sandwich. I think you should wind down and take a warm bath and turn the lights off and count sheep or do a crossword puzzle. You will feel a little drowsy because some crossword puzzles are boring. Your mind is too active so only keep beautiful things in your mind before you go to bed. Once you establish a routine, it won't be so hard for you!
God bless you, Rachel!I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Okay, first off, it is probably you thinking ';Hey, it's probably about time I go to bed.'; Second off, whoever is making you think that staying up late at night is a sin is a damn fool. If being up at one o' clock in the morning were a sin, all the cops, factory workers, college students, Emergency room doctors/nurses/staff would all be absolutely screwed in the spiritual world. You need to just get some sleep. I tend to stay up way too late for my own good, but have to force myself to go to bed at a decent time. This is something that you have to do for yourself. Only you can determine when you go to bed. Also try turning off music and lights in your bedroom and removing any distractions. If you need some white noise, try some soft music turned down very low or a ceiling fan or something to that effect.
Best wishes.
a lot of it can be simple things
1) lack of exercise - most likely part of it. if you get enough exercise normally you'll be tired and then go to bed.
2) eating too much at night - if you eat too much at night you will have trouble sleeping.
3) not eating enough raw fruits and vegetables - should make up a large part of your diet.
4) not enough sunlight - this can definitely be a factor.. because sunlight is what helps start melatonin production which is what helps regulate sleep.
5) too much computer or tv at night - studies have proven that being on the computer/tv can interfere with sleep patterns.
First of all, god does not hate you for staying up late. If staying up late is the worse thing you ever did, then Kudos to you!!!-)
I am a night owl myself. You just have to train yourself to go to sleep. that means if you have to get up at 6am then make sure you are in bed no later than 11pm. Make yourself go to bed, lay there if you have to, that is what I had to do. After a while, your body will get used to it.
Good luck to you
Staying up late at night does not bring you to hell, disobeying God will. Just check on your habbits because it developes into an attitude. It is not good for 14 year old to stay very late at night for your health and academics sakes. Because it lowers your brain activity and weakens your body. continous practice will result to unbalance health and diet. It might not be the spirit saying those thing but rather your concience. Don't stay very late unless important and does not affect your studies.
This is not a spiritual problem though it may be an ethical one?
Are you staying up late on school nights or just weekends?
If on a weekend is it because you were at a party?
What kind of party?
Are you staying up to watch TV or videos or gaming instead of studying?
Are you reading books? What kind?
Are you running late for morning activities or school?
Please be more specific!
The problem could just be restlessness caused by fluctuating teenage blood sugar and hormone levels.
Try a simple solution avoid stimulants like junk food with lots of sugar or caffeine after 9 pm.
About 9pm have one last snack something like hot drinking chocolate or milk.
God gave you a brain and expects you to use it. Also, being a Christian means you have to discipline yourself. So you shouldn't be staying up to 1 am without good reason.
If you have a mobile, set a time to go to bed as well as a time to get up in the morning.
God does not send people to Hell for not listening to the Holy Spirit.
It is by your own choice to quench the Holy Spirit .You're only hurting yourself.
If you feel it's the Holy Spirit trying to guide you into doing the right thing, then why are you resisting ?Just do what you feel the Holy Spirit is guiding you to do and you will be alright.
Maybe these verses will help coax you to bed at a decent hour:
Proverbs 6:9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou rise out of thy sleep?
Proverbs 11:27 Well doth he rise early who seeketh good things; but he that seeketh after evil things shall be oppressed by them.
If that doesn't work, ask your parents to start dragging you out of bed at 5am every morning. (EVERY morning, 7 days a week). In a couple of days you'll be so exhausted you'll go to bed earlier.
Going to bed late isn't a big deal compared to other things but could be a sin if you parents told you to go to bed at a certain time. You won't go to hell for your sins though if you ask god to forgive you for them and accept him as your savior.
Well, if God's bidding you to do something you really should do it
I am 16, and I like to stay up late too, but if u decide to stay up late, read the bible and pray
(hint: satan always try to distract you or make you sleep when you pray)
Dont let the holey spirit put ideas in your head.
Play it smart and get those voices out. You'll
feel better in the AM and your parents will still
be alive. Oh, and tell your folks to use protection
for their next child.
no he is not but your parents are telling you to go to bed and you are not that means you are being disobedent. right. when i have a hard time sleeping reading God word comforts me and i fall straight to sleep. try it
What problems are resulting from your staying up late?
What activities are you involved in when you stay up late?
Are you disobeying your parents by staying up late?
Just staying up late itself is not a sin.
Hold up the Bible above your head with two hands and then let go.
It will either make the voices go away, or make you fall asleep... or er... unconscious. Either way, it's a win-win situation.
God will not send you to hell for staying up late.
God loves you even at your worst.
God's love is unconditional... so much so we cannot even fathom his endless mercy and grace towards us.
Talk to your mom about getting prescription drugs.
Take your finals after a month of doing that,
and you'll have made it to hell.
STs!
Rule 14.
If that's the best you've got, try again.
LMAO
That voice is PEDO BEAR!
Don't ask me I have always been a night owl.
What????
Annnnnoying problem with hair. could really use some advice. not to good on this stuff.?
my hair is like dark brown and wavy and soemtimes curly. and im at the shore.
i want my hair to be really straight
and sometimes i want it to be curled with a curling iron
but its really frizzy and it doesnt look right.
i just want it to look good with no frizz mess
any hair care products or tricks/tips?
i would reallly appreciate the help!:]Annnnnoying problem with hair. could really use some advice. not to good on this stuff.?
any anti frizz serum from a supermarket or hairdressers
like john friedas frizz ease thats really popular a few of my friends swear by it
or my favourite, toni and guy have a really good one which i think smells nice called tame-it serum
but just look around and find one that says it controls frizz and is in your price range =]Annnnnoying problem with hair. could really use some advice. not to good on this stuff.?
There are so many serums out there in the markets, you just have to talk to your stylist about which one is right for you. If your hair is fine, then go for a lighter water-based serum. Otherwise, look for one that controls frizz and hydrates your strands.
There are also some serums that are anti-humidity. I don't know the names exactly, but if you go and ask your stylist I'm sure she'll show you some really good stuff.
John Frieda Frizz-Ease Straight Ahead Style-Activating Daily Shampoo
http://www.drugstore.com/qxp150110_33318鈥?/a>
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.a鈥?/a>
use BEDHEAD control freak serum it really helps! Just put it on before you straighten it! or if you want curly hair without frizz BEYOND THE ZONE noodle head! Just spray it in your hair and scrunch it! Try bending over when you scrunch your hair! it helps my sister!
HOPE I HELPED :D
Fakkai hair products for curly hair. Just put it on before you do anything with your hair and there is no frizz. It doesn't increase or decrease curls or waves so it allows for easy hair styling and a natural feel to your hair.
use Bed Heads Afterparty to prevent frizz. And try stariftening with a blowdryer
http://i20.tinypic.com/vn1p29.jpg
i want my hair to be really straight
and sometimes i want it to be curled with a curling iron
but its really frizzy and it doesnt look right.
i just want it to look good with no frizz mess
any hair care products or tricks/tips?
i would reallly appreciate the help!:]Annnnnoying problem with hair. could really use some advice. not to good on this stuff.?
any anti frizz serum from a supermarket or hairdressers
like john friedas frizz ease thats really popular a few of my friends swear by it
or my favourite, toni and guy have a really good one which i think smells nice called tame-it serum
but just look around and find one that says it controls frizz and is in your price range =]Annnnnoying problem with hair. could really use some advice. not to good on this stuff.?
There are so many serums out there in the markets, you just have to talk to your stylist about which one is right for you. If your hair is fine, then go for a lighter water-based serum. Otherwise, look for one that controls frizz and hydrates your strands.
There are also some serums that are anti-humidity. I don't know the names exactly, but if you go and ask your stylist I'm sure she'll show you some really good stuff.
John Frieda Frizz-Ease Straight Ahead Style-Activating Daily Shampoo
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True problem, I need advice, can you help?
My boyfriend's 11 year old brother will not clean his butt after he uses the bathroom. If you try and to tell at him or yell at him to do it he'll start crying. And he smells really bad when he's at school and at the house.
Grounding has helped either.True problem, I need advice, can you help?
He needs to see a counsellor about poor self esteem.True problem, I need advice, can you help?
where are his parents? he needs to be sat down and explained that he has to do it, and if he won't there is enough people that will, no body wants to smell that. some day the school can call child protection and report child neglect. is he mentally challenged? if not then hold him down and scrub his A**.
i used to babysit a kid that was much like that.
he may not feel comfortable wiping his behind on a few levels:
if you are not a guardian of this child then you should make it known to his parents, this kid may not know how to wipe his behind and may need someone to help show him how to do it, or the toilet tissue may be to rough for his behind, if that is the issue hand him some baby wipes to wipe his behind, it helps another reason may be that he may be afraid of his own manure, such as a phobia (COPROPHOBIA or CORPOROPHOBIA) if that is the case counseling could help. without yelling at him and forcing him to make effort simply ask him why he doesn't like to wipe his behind, there must be a reason from his point of view why he chooses not to do such a task. You shouldn't ground a child just because he wont or can't wipe his behind, instead of yelling and disciplining him you should encourage him.
Award him for wiping his behind, i know it sounds weird but when children are rewarded for petty things they tend to be more enthusiastic about getting task done.
You shouldn't be the one to be concerned about it, it is his parents calling. But it is thoughtful that you are looking out for the welfare of this child.
make sure it's just not a cleaning issue... it could be a medical problem... chronic constipation with frequent stool loss around his stool plug.. neurological issues.. or social issues. since he seems to overly sensative about the issue I don't think it is just lazziness. He needs a medical evaluation.
Something is really wrong with him.Cause by age 11 he should be wiping his own behind.Maybe he doesn't like the feel of TP on his butt.They do have wipes for adults that they can wipe thier butt.And his parents don't care thier son is walking around smelling like poo you need to call someone.Like CPS.Cause that isn't right.If my kid did smelled like poo all day and they were at that age I would of had them at the doctor office right away.
i say leave it be it is his a s s and if he wants to be stanky than let him!
give him a good spanking. yell at him. let him cry, don't let him take control. obviously being nice isn't going to work
oh mine!!! thts disgusting...
try explaining him ...wht impact it gives to others...
ask him why he doesnt clean?
if he doesnt like using tissue papers...then try giving him an alternative of using wet tissues!!!!
just ask him his problem!!!...tell him the things..wich normally mum teaches us when we learn hw to do things!!!
can he swim?
i know you're trying to help, but his parents are going to have to be the ones to take care of this. aren't they concerned or ever around?
EWWWWWWWWWWW THAT IS A MAJOR PROBLEM!! SRY BUT MY BROTHER'S HAVE MUCH BETTER CONTROL!! GET HELP!! I MEAN NOWWWW!
Take his nasty behind outside and hose him down with the garden hose! No for real this kid has issues,maybe he has a medical problem that he won't talk about, like it hurts him to wipe. he could have something going on there or he's just in a hurry to go back to what ever he was doing. What does your boyfriend say,better yet, what does his parents say? Poor kid someboby needs to help him, take his dirty a** to a doctor.
doestn he have a mother ?? whycant she help him ,maybe the poor kid has a problem that need to be addressed .
he need counceling. get him there now!!
His parents need to take responsibility for this kid - not you.
However, don't yell at the kid, that definitely doesn't help as you have already discovered and if he smells then put distance between you and him. You can't solve his problem but you can change how you react to it - ignore it and back away from him, that's all YOU can do.
Grounding has helped either.True problem, I need advice, can you help?
He needs to see a counsellor about poor self esteem.True problem, I need advice, can you help?
where are his parents? he needs to be sat down and explained that he has to do it, and if he won't there is enough people that will, no body wants to smell that. some day the school can call child protection and report child neglect. is he mentally challenged? if not then hold him down and scrub his A**.
i used to babysit a kid that was much like that.
he may not feel comfortable wiping his behind on a few levels:
if you are not a guardian of this child then you should make it known to his parents, this kid may not know how to wipe his behind and may need someone to help show him how to do it, or the toilet tissue may be to rough for his behind, if that is the issue hand him some baby wipes to wipe his behind, it helps another reason may be that he may be afraid of his own manure, such as a phobia (COPROPHOBIA or CORPOROPHOBIA) if that is the case counseling could help. without yelling at him and forcing him to make effort simply ask him why he doesn't like to wipe his behind, there must be a reason from his point of view why he chooses not to do such a task. You shouldn't ground a child just because he wont or can't wipe his behind, instead of yelling and disciplining him you should encourage him.
Award him for wiping his behind, i know it sounds weird but when children are rewarded for petty things they tend to be more enthusiastic about getting task done.
You shouldn't be the one to be concerned about it, it is his parents calling. But it is thoughtful that you are looking out for the welfare of this child.
make sure it's just not a cleaning issue... it could be a medical problem... chronic constipation with frequent stool loss around his stool plug.. neurological issues.. or social issues. since he seems to overly sensative about the issue I don't think it is just lazziness. He needs a medical evaluation.
Something is really wrong with him.Cause by age 11 he should be wiping his own behind.Maybe he doesn't like the feel of TP on his butt.They do have wipes for adults that they can wipe thier butt.And his parents don't care thier son is walking around smelling like poo you need to call someone.Like CPS.Cause that isn't right.If my kid did smelled like poo all day and they were at that age I would of had them at the doctor office right away.
i say leave it be it is his a s s and if he wants to be stanky than let him!
give him a good spanking. yell at him. let him cry, don't let him take control. obviously being nice isn't going to work
oh mine!!! thts disgusting...
try explaining him ...wht impact it gives to others...
ask him why he doesnt clean?
if he doesnt like using tissue papers...then try giving him an alternative of using wet tissues!!!!
just ask him his problem!!!...tell him the things..wich normally mum teaches us when we learn hw to do things!!!
can he swim?
i know you're trying to help, but his parents are going to have to be the ones to take care of this. aren't they concerned or ever around?
EWWWWWWWWWWW THAT IS A MAJOR PROBLEM!! SRY BUT MY BROTHER'S HAVE MUCH BETTER CONTROL!! GET HELP!! I MEAN NOWWWW!
Take his nasty behind outside and hose him down with the garden hose! No for real this kid has issues,maybe he has a medical problem that he won't talk about, like it hurts him to wipe. he could have something going on there or he's just in a hurry to go back to what ever he was doing. What does your boyfriend say,better yet, what does his parents say? Poor kid someboby needs to help him, take his dirty a** to a doctor.
doestn he have a mother ?? whycant she help him ,maybe the poor kid has a problem that need to be addressed .
he need counceling. get him there now!!
His parents need to take responsibility for this kid - not you.
However, don't yell at the kid, that definitely doesn't help as you have already discovered and if he smells then put distance between you and him. You can't solve his problem but you can change how you react to it - ignore it and back away from him, that's all YOU can do.
I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
I am a 14 and a girl that stays up way too late!! everytime i start staying up super late like this i hear the holy spirit saying ';rachel do no do that you need to be going to bed'; and i keep on ignoring it and staying up till like 1:00 am in the morning!! what is going on?? i feel like god is gonna send me 2 hell for doing this???I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Well Rachel, you won't go to hell for that, but you are going to feel awful in the morning when you have to get up and function! I know the feeling because I am a night owl too. I do not think God sends all night owls to hell. He is a good God and loves us! Try drinking some hot milk and eating a turkey sandwich. I think you should wind down and take a warm bath and turn the lights off and count sheep or do a crossword puzzle. You will feel a little drowsy because some crossword puzzles are boring. Your mind is too active so only keep beautiful things in your mind before you go to bed. Once you establish a routine, it won't be so hard for you!
God bless you, Rachel!I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Okay, first off, it is probably you thinking ';Hey, it's probably about time I go to bed.'; Second off, whoever is making you think that staying up late at night is a sin is a damn fool. If being up at one o' clock in the morning were a sin, all the cops, factory workers, college students, Emergency room doctors/nurses/staff would all be absolutely screwed in the spiritual world. You need to just get some sleep. I tend to stay up way too late for my own good, but have to force myself to go to bed at a decent time. This is something that you have to do for yourself. Only you can determine when you go to bed. Also try turning off music and lights in your bedroom and removing any distractions. If you need some white noise, try some soft music turned down very low or a ceiling fan or something to that effect.
Best wishes.
a lot of it can be simple things
1) lack of exercise - most likely part of it. if you get enough exercise normally you'll be tired and then go to bed.
2) eating too much at night - if you eat too much at night you will have trouble sleeping.
3) not eating enough raw fruits and vegetables - should make up a large part of your diet.
4) not enough sunlight - this can definitely be a factor.. because sunlight is what helps start melatonin production which is what helps regulate sleep.
5) too much computer or tv at night - studies have proven that being on the computer/tv can interfere with sleep patterns.
First of all, god does not hate you for staying up late. If staying up late is the worse thing you ever did, then Kudos to you!!!-)
I am a night owl myself. You just have to train yourself to go to sleep. that means if you have to get up at 6am then make sure you are in bed no later than 11pm. Make yourself go to bed, lay there if you have to, that is what I had to do. After a while, your body will get used to it.
Good luck to you
Staying up late at night does not bring you to hell, disobeying God will. Just check on your habbits because it developes into an attitude. It is not good for 14 year old to stay very late at night for your health and academics sakes. Because it lowers your brain activity and weakens your body. continous practice will result to unbalance health and diet. It might not be the spirit saying those thing but rather your concience. Don't stay very late unless important and does not affect your studies.
This is not a spiritual problem though it may be an ethical one?
Are you staying up late on school nights or just weekends?
If on a weekend is it because you were at a party?
What kind of party?
Are you staying up to watch TV or videos or gaming instead of studying?
Are you reading books? What kind?
Are you running late for morning activities or school?
Please be more specific!
The problem could just be restlessness caused by fluctuating teenage blood sugar and hormone levels.
Try a simple solution avoid stimulants like junk food with lots of sugar or caffeine after 9 pm.
About 9pm have one last snack something like hot drinking chocolate or milk.
God gave you a brain and expects you to use it. Also, being a Christian means you have to discipline yourself. So you shouldn't be staying up to 1 am without good reason.
If you have a mobile, set a time to go to bed as well as a time to get up in the morning.
God does not send people to Hell for not listening to the Holy Spirit.
It is by your own choice to quench the Holy Spirit .You're only hurting yourself.
If you feel it's the Holy Spirit trying to guide you into doing the right thing, then why are you resisting ?Just do what you feel the Holy Spirit is guiding you to do and you will be alright.
Maybe these verses will help coax you to bed at a decent hour:
Proverbs 6:9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou rise out of thy sleep?
Proverbs 11:27 Well doth he rise early who seeketh good things; but he that seeketh after evil things shall be oppressed by them.
If that doesn't work, ask your parents to start dragging you out of bed at 5am every morning. (EVERY morning, 7 days a week). In a couple of days you'll be so exhausted you'll go to bed earlier.
Going to bed late isn't a big deal compared to other things but could be a sin if you parents told you to go to bed at a certain time. You won't go to hell for your sins though if you ask god to forgive you for them and accept him as your savior.
Well, if God's bidding you to do something you really should do it
I am 16, and I like to stay up late too, but if u decide to stay up late, read the bible and pray
(hint: satan always try to distract you or make you sleep when you pray)
Dont let the holey spirit put ideas in your head.
Play it smart and get those voices out. You'll
feel better in the AM and your parents will still
be alive. Oh, and tell your folks to use protection
for their next child.
no he is not but your parents are telling you to go to bed and you are not that means you are being disobedent. right. when i have a hard time sleeping reading God word comforts me and i fall straight to sleep. try it
What problems are resulting from your staying up late?
What activities are you involved in when you stay up late?
Are you disobeying your parents by staying up late?
Just staying up late itself is not a sin.
Hold up the Bible above your head with two hands and then let go.
It will either make the voices go away, or make you fall asleep... or er... unconscious. Either way, it's a win-win situation.
God will not send you to hell for staying up late.
God loves you even at your worst.
God's love is unconditional... so much so we cannot even fathom his endless mercy and grace towards us.
Talk to your mom about getting prescription drugs.
Take your finals after a month of doing that,
and you'll have made it to hell.
STs!
Rule 14.
If that's the best you've got, try again.
LMAO
That voice is PEDO BEAR!
Don't ask me I have always been a night owl.
What????
Well Rachel, you won't go to hell for that, but you are going to feel awful in the morning when you have to get up and function! I know the feeling because I am a night owl too. I do not think God sends all night owls to hell. He is a good God and loves us! Try drinking some hot milk and eating a turkey sandwich. I think you should wind down and take a warm bath and turn the lights off and count sheep or do a crossword puzzle. You will feel a little drowsy because some crossword puzzles are boring. Your mind is too active so only keep beautiful things in your mind before you go to bed. Once you establish a routine, it won't be so hard for you!
God bless you, Rachel!I have a problem with staying up late and need christian advice?
Okay, first off, it is probably you thinking ';Hey, it's probably about time I go to bed.'; Second off, whoever is making you think that staying up late at night is a sin is a damn fool. If being up at one o' clock in the morning were a sin, all the cops, factory workers, college students, Emergency room doctors/nurses/staff would all be absolutely screwed in the spiritual world. You need to just get some sleep. I tend to stay up way too late for my own good, but have to force myself to go to bed at a decent time. This is something that you have to do for yourself. Only you can determine when you go to bed. Also try turning off music and lights in your bedroom and removing any distractions. If you need some white noise, try some soft music turned down very low or a ceiling fan or something to that effect.
Best wishes.
a lot of it can be simple things
1) lack of exercise - most likely part of it. if you get enough exercise normally you'll be tired and then go to bed.
2) eating too much at night - if you eat too much at night you will have trouble sleeping.
3) not eating enough raw fruits and vegetables - should make up a large part of your diet.
4) not enough sunlight - this can definitely be a factor.. because sunlight is what helps start melatonin production which is what helps regulate sleep.
5) too much computer or tv at night - studies have proven that being on the computer/tv can interfere with sleep patterns.
First of all, god does not hate you for staying up late. If staying up late is the worse thing you ever did, then Kudos to you!!!-)
I am a night owl myself. You just have to train yourself to go to sleep. that means if you have to get up at 6am then make sure you are in bed no later than 11pm. Make yourself go to bed, lay there if you have to, that is what I had to do. After a while, your body will get used to it.
Good luck to you
Staying up late at night does not bring you to hell, disobeying God will. Just check on your habbits because it developes into an attitude. It is not good for 14 year old to stay very late at night for your health and academics sakes. Because it lowers your brain activity and weakens your body. continous practice will result to unbalance health and diet. It might not be the spirit saying those thing but rather your concience. Don't stay very late unless important and does not affect your studies.
This is not a spiritual problem though it may be an ethical one?
Are you staying up late on school nights or just weekends?
If on a weekend is it because you were at a party?
What kind of party?
Are you staying up to watch TV or videos or gaming instead of studying?
Are you reading books? What kind?
Are you running late for morning activities or school?
Please be more specific!
The problem could just be restlessness caused by fluctuating teenage blood sugar and hormone levels.
Try a simple solution avoid stimulants like junk food with lots of sugar or caffeine after 9 pm.
About 9pm have one last snack something like hot drinking chocolate or milk.
God gave you a brain and expects you to use it. Also, being a Christian means you have to discipline yourself. So you shouldn't be staying up to 1 am without good reason.
If you have a mobile, set a time to go to bed as well as a time to get up in the morning.
God does not send people to Hell for not listening to the Holy Spirit.
It is by your own choice to quench the Holy Spirit .You're only hurting yourself.
If you feel it's the Holy Spirit trying to guide you into doing the right thing, then why are you resisting ?Just do what you feel the Holy Spirit is guiding you to do and you will be alright.
Maybe these verses will help coax you to bed at a decent hour:
Proverbs 6:9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou rise out of thy sleep?
Proverbs 11:27 Well doth he rise early who seeketh good things; but he that seeketh after evil things shall be oppressed by them.
If that doesn't work, ask your parents to start dragging you out of bed at 5am every morning. (EVERY morning, 7 days a week). In a couple of days you'll be so exhausted you'll go to bed earlier.
Going to bed late isn't a big deal compared to other things but could be a sin if you parents told you to go to bed at a certain time. You won't go to hell for your sins though if you ask god to forgive you for them and accept him as your savior.
Well, if God's bidding you to do something you really should do it
I am 16, and I like to stay up late too, but if u decide to stay up late, read the bible and pray
(hint: satan always try to distract you or make you sleep when you pray)
Dont let the holey spirit put ideas in your head.
Play it smart and get those voices out. You'll
feel better in the AM and your parents will still
be alive. Oh, and tell your folks to use protection
for their next child.
no he is not but your parents are telling you to go to bed and you are not that means you are being disobedent. right. when i have a hard time sleeping reading God word comforts me and i fall straight to sleep. try it
What problems are resulting from your staying up late?
What activities are you involved in when you stay up late?
Are you disobeying your parents by staying up late?
Just staying up late itself is not a sin.
Hold up the Bible above your head with two hands and then let go.
It will either make the voices go away, or make you fall asleep... or er... unconscious. Either way, it's a win-win situation.
God will not send you to hell for staying up late.
God loves you even at your worst.
God's love is unconditional... so much so we cannot even fathom his endless mercy and grace towards us.
Talk to your mom about getting prescription drugs.
Take your finals after a month of doing that,
and you'll have made it to hell.
STs!
Rule 14.
If that's the best you've got, try again.
LMAO
That voice is PEDO BEAR!
Don't ask me I have always been a night owl.
What????
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