Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Help i really need advice about this problem?

A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be with me. I talked to my 2 cousins about HER. They said they have heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she's clearly not and has already slept with so many guys already at age 15.





I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my cousins say and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
duude,, yu suck.. y the f**k do yu want to listen to yur cousin even after he stabbed yu..


go for her dude..Help i really need advice about this problem?
i would ignore both parties and decide on your own terms. your cousins are skewed, they already have their opinions formed. your mom is biased, she already thinks she knows everything about this girl. you need to decide for yourself A) if she is attractive B) if she is easy and C) if you want to be with her. if you figure it out on your own you will definitely make the right choice
well, you obviously know the answer to this already, your mom is the better one to believe. But you know, neither of these people can for sure know anything. You need to become friends with this girl and learn about her yourself. if you are still interested, ask her out.
Believe your mom.





She's usually right anyways. :]
ya that is gonna take some time to think about.


listen to your heart.





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If your cousins are tricking u to dump a girl and then steal her from u then they are assholes and u shouldn't listen to them. U should listen to ur mom and ask the girl out
mother always knows best.
omgosh talk to her!


stuff your cusins LOL
i think the answer is obvious..


believe ur mom..


as the old saying goes, parents know what's best for you.. but your cousins dont.. lol..
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  • Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?

    A couple of months ago I had a very expensive phone bill. I am with Optus. and I rang them and I asked why. They suggested I go on Optus one plan 99$. I was on prepaid for my mobile. They changed my mobile plan to post paid but they did need change my home phone to 99$ one plan although they were cahrging me for it. I got very angry and decided to cancel the whole idea. now they have send me a bill. 11 $ for mobile phone calls and 180$ cancellation fee! what would you do if you were in my shoes?would you pay this?would make a complain?what do you suggest me to do please?Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    For a start - when you ring up Optus you speak with a SUPERVISOR, never just the first person on the phone, you will get nowhere. Demand they put their supervisor on the phone. Explain your situation and DEMAND it has to be fixed NOW.





    After you have tried that, and 99% of the time speaking to a supervisor it does solve the problem - but if you got nowhere then make a formal complaint to the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman's - a long lengthy process but worth it in the end if you get the outcome you wish.


    I managed to get $5,000 out of Telstra going through them for stuffing me around.Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    Thats just optus for you, telstra is the same, so just pay it and dont sign with telstra or optus again, they are most expensive phone companys, their are other cheaper ones out there
    get hold of the Telco Ombudsman - and register yr compliant.


    We had the same nonsense with Telstra and you really do have to push yr complaint thru the system ie keep at it because they know they will wear most people down.





    ';Complaints about landline, mobile phone and Internet services have increased by almost 8 percent in the last financial year.





    According to the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman's annual report, which was released today, a whopping 59,850 complaints have been lodged.





    Not surprisingly, the biggest area for complaint was disputes about billing.





    Established in 1993, the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman is a free and independent dispute resolution service.





    It is largely geared toward residential and small business consumers who have been unable to resolve a complaint with their Internet service provider or telco.';

    I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?

    Your Question


    I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?


    hello friends i have comleted PG. now my parents are searching a good boy for me but i like my childhood friend .we both are mail to each ohher from last one year......one day i felt that i liked him.....


    and i told him that ';I like you'; suddenly he said that you are like my


    sister and now you stop mailing me .....now please help me what i do beacuse i like only my childhood friend and i can not think about any other boy?I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Before taking any decision for any boy, always think wether he would secure your life.


    It must be possible that he is your crush. i would like to advice you that the parents decision must be honoured because they would always feel that their child should be happy.


    Defintaley they would look a guy which suits you %26amp; will always keep you happy. So admire your parents liking %26amp; forget your childhood friend.





    Always remeber that whatever happens in life happens for good.I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Well if you know where he lives go to his house and tell him he shouldn't get so mad and your sorry.Then, go over and talk about stuff don't tell him you like him yet


    and you ask him if he would like to go out for some dinner (not as a date also don't do this until you've been talking to him for a while)and continue this on until he says ';i like you';.If he says no to the apology ask him if you can at least still email ar mail each other and do all the stuff i said at the top like go out for dinner,talk etc.
    forget him dear, marry some good boy. Listen you must understand that the boy you like is looking at you just like a sister. There is a limit and a pride of every relationship. If you cannot make him your brother, make him a friend but stop thinking more.


    We like our fathers mothers too but we cannot marry them.
    you were friends because both of you had a mutual feeling that you could be friends. i hope you understand from the same logic that in order to establish any relationship, there should be mutual consent from both the persons.. a mutual feeling.





    I can understand what you are going through, but I WANT to give you practical advise. so just try not to lose your best friend. tell him what you have realized.
    May be you want to marry him because you are more comfortable with him.marrying a complete stranger is scaring you..although you like him but you cant force him to change his feelings towards you...just the way he cant change your feelings towards him...tell him that your childhood friendship matters more to you than anything else so be friends and normal again..show him that it was a temporary feeling that you had...but as regards your marriage..think about it open mindedly..but plz continue to be friends with him..
    dear...it ws unfortunate..but u only liked him n loved him..so dnt get that hooked on..it is nt th end of the world..it is nt necessary that whomsoever we love or like same should happen wid that person..so let it pass by..u will find manymore people more interesting ...so move ahead baby....all the best
    DONT MARRY WHO U LOVE


    MARRY THE ONE WHO LOVES U





    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON


    ITS BEST FOR BOTH OF U BECUZ HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT U
    Hey silly,





    You would find many wonderful personalities out there.





    Come out of the shell.





    The world is so wide and great.





    Silly girl !
    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON
    See if you can change his mind orelse go with your parents decision.
    You must forget and get married to a person whom your parents suggest
    mom says get off the computer and go to bed or you're grounded!
    sometimes I hit my pee pee with a hammer

    I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?

    My best friend is dating a guy who is very controlling. She constantly complains to me about it. It seems like an everyday thing that she tells me ';I'm leaving him, I hate him, blah blah blah';


    Tonight she told him that they should post pone the wedding a few more months (they are supposed to be getting married in March)


    He freaked out on her and stormed out leaving her stranded without a vehicle.


    When I texted her later to ask if she made it back home (she had went for a walk) she said no. I asked her where she was and she said ';with a friend';. I asked her what friend and she said Chris. Chris is her EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER! I had to put up with that bull crap for almost two years!!!!





    This is what I don't get....


    She says she ';loves'; David (her fiancee) and wants to marry him but when things go bad she runs to ex bf's to find comfort?


    I don't want to seem like a bad friend but wtf!?


    What should I freaking say to her?????I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    She likes the drama. If you don't like drama then comfort her, but realize that she is just milking it for all it's worth. My advice is to warn her not to pull away from her fiance or she might just lose him permanently. She obviously still has some feeling for the ex-bf (or at least wants to use him while she has the chance), but either way she is playing a very risky game. Just warn her to cool her engines or she might just have it all blow up in her face. You seem like you care about her so just be honest and comfort her, but don't get in the middle or you'll end up in the drama too.I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    Well try not to be rude about it, but she obviously doesn't have high self-esteem because if she did, she would forget about the both of them and find someone who will treat her with respect. Let her know how amazing she is, and tell her that her fiancee might not be a good person for her to be with if he leaves her stranded.
    I think that this is something she needs to figure out on her own and that it's her business. You're there to be there for her, as a friend. But it's her life. If she needs comfort just listen to her and watch a movie with her and eat ice cream. Even though you want to help, when this comes down to it, it's her who has to make the choice and grow up and figure out what's going on.





    good luck =]
    Women, always looking for reassurance and security. Why not to introduce her to a more appropriate partner, before it is too late and she gets married.
    Tell her that I told you that she needs to see a therapist. The girl's got some issues to deal with, like maybe getting some self-esteem.
    if i were you i would tell her if you keep on having prob. with ur fiancee then you should tell him you done with him
    just talk to her about everything that is on your mind.


    there may be a reason she does. you never know until you talk.


    I know I had similar problems with my best friend. her boyfriend was a complete jerk to her and he totally used her. it hurt me to see her in pain because she is usually so strong. so just talk to her. but don't get mad. just tell her you want to talk. just talk thats all. no yelling no freaking out. just calm talking and talk it out.


    thats my advice.


    good luck.


    and hang in there. I know it's hard. you just can't ignore her at a time like this because she obviously needs a friend right now. she just doesn't know it.





    So like I said. Just talk to her.


    I hope it turns out ok. =)

    Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?

    I'm 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat, and i'm a virgin still, but im now in shape and get a lot attention from girls now. Even dough my appearance has changed i will always respect girls, and always treat them right. I met a girl who is 24 and she has a 2 y/o girl, and she's divorced but the baby's dad still comes to visit the daughter... (I think there might be baby daddy problems here)








    Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20 (I lied because i'm into older women because they are matured), and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Chris if your not in too deep just now i would say don't get to deep into it.





    I am not for breaking up friendships or relationships by any means just because of age, but i think the commitment to the child and having the daddy on the scene might be a little too much for someone just ';starting'; out if you know what i mean.








    And remember girls mature faster than guys, so if you date someone your own age or maybe a year or two older then your getting your older woman! lol





    It might be fun to experiment with someone in the same situation as yourself , rather than getting into a family situation.








    Having said all that, if this girl is really committed to you and you are both in love and been and know each other deeply and the hubby don't have a problem with it or you, then that's different.





    Hope this helps a little :)Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Just enjoy your young life I guess. If it doesn't work out you still have your whole life ahead of you. You still have 20 yrs to find your mate.
    WELL U ALREADY DID A MOSTAKE BY ';HITTING IT OFF';


    SO LEAVING WILL BE THE PROPER THING 2 DO BUT BECAUSE U HITT IT OFF WITH HER IF U LEAVE IT WILL SEEM IF U WAS JUSS USING HER TO HAVE SEX


    ITS UP 2 U 2 KNOW IF U REALLY LIKE THIS LADY WAYS AND STUFF AND IF U ARE CAPABLE TO HANDEL A 2 YEAR OLD AS A FATHER


    have a talk with her and tell her that youre 19 and well the same thing u told us


    and if u really like her as a person to live with and the 2 year girl as a daughter then go for it


    but if u have 2 leave tell her the truth in person and then talk about it and then leave dont just leave in a sudden


    trust me iths is great help


    if u need more help them mail me at


    sweet_boy_sharaz_hotmail.com

    Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?

    I'm going to use names.


    Me-Tony


    Her-Kaitlin


    Other guy-Travis





    Well me and Kaitlin, were together for 6 months.


    On our 6th month annir. she decided that she didn't want to date me anymore.


    So the same day she started going out with this Travis kid.


    One day later she broke up with Travis, and got back with me.


    Six days after that she broke up with me and is back with Travis.





    She lives one street over, and we usual hang out after school.


    Now here is where i need help.


    She is cheating on Travis with me..


    Everyday me and Kaitlin act like we're still dating.





    But she doesn't want to break up with Travis..


    She says she ';loves'; him after 8 days they've been together.


    But she cheats on him with me...


    She said, ';Tony, i love you. It's just that when i'm with you i never want it to end, but when i'm with Travis i feel the same way.';


    I've asked my friends for advice they told me to just stop talking to her,


    And see what she does. Well i did that and she started to freak out that i wasn't talking to her.


    She thought something happened to me..


    I can't just let her go, after the stuff me and her did.


    Her birthday is saturday, and i got her this extremely expensive ring that has our names engraved in it. But now it's worthless..


    I feel lost without her. ):


    Help?!Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    It depends how old you are really. She could be having a mid life crisis? You sound pretty young tho, teens, or twenties?


    It sounds like she is cheating and messing around with the both of you.


    She isn't sure of what she wants, and she is most definitely keeping her options open. I think this Travis guy is abit of a player and she isn't sure what's going on with him and her. Are you sure they are together? I think she's just a booty call to him or he is dating other girls as well, which is why she comes back to you. You know, the kind of guy who doesn't show a girl too much affection, so she wants to get it out of him (if you know what I mean)


    If I was you I would either keep away from her until she has got it out of her system or tell her to get her **** together.


    Hope I made some sence %26amp; helped you :)Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    i agree you need to go on cheaters but i guess i would be a complete dick to her and talk to travis and get pics before to show and prove she is a slut. also keep ALL txt and phone calls... good luck!
    take the girl on cheaters
    She probably was cheating on you while you guys were together with this Travis guy. You need to put a stop to this before she starts playing you for a fool (if she's already not) This girl is using you and she wants you to be there for her regardless and that is not right. because if you see it if something doesn't go right with you and her she goes to him and if something doesn't go right with her and him she goes to you so pretty much you're a back up plan. You need to open your eyes!! Just stop talking to her she's not worth it and won't be (Once a cheater always a cheater!!!!) Leave her alone and just be up front and tell her you're not going ot be putting up with what she has been doing. You're only hurting yourself even more by staying with her. She's no good for you and she doesn't appreciate you or anything that you do for her. So dump her!
    okay obviously shes very confused. and both of you are probably good guys. i think its time to tell her to choose. i know it will hurt but if she comes back it was worth it and if she doesnt, well, then it wasnt meant to be.


    good luck !
    First of all, I apologize for my name, I promise I'm not the same Travis. Second of all, I know it'll hurt, but you need to get away from that situation. She's just going to keep messing with you. Because she can. She needs to grow up a lot before she can be in a committed relationship.
    I think it would be best if you did not see her for some time cose I think she is not sure who she likes best and wants to go out with both of you.
    She dosent love you, she likes you and that won't change.


    Be her friend, stop the sex.


    Dont give her the ring.


    Remember, be her friend. NO SEX!

    What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?

    I was with my gf for a long time. I did something so stupid, which I won't say, because I'm not proud of it, but she's just really pissed, and she won't talk to me at all, and her friends won't let me talk to her either.





    There's this friend, a girl, and we were just talking, got to flirting, and now she wants me to call her and like come over and stuff... She's my type and all, but I don't know if I'm not supposed to be doing this. Should I just tell her I have a gf or go along with it?? I'm so confused.











    I know I posted this, but I didn't get any answers, and I need some ASAP.What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    Well, if you TRULY love your gf of a long time


    Dont go seeing this other girl


    Let it pass over


    And dont bring it up when you guys are together again (which you probably will be)


    Good luck. :)What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    OMG ADD DETAILS BAOUT WHAT YOU DID


    but basically here's what i think





    do you want to stay with your girlfriend?!


    if you don't..


    text your girlfriend and be like





    listen i'm trying to reconcile things.. but you're not talking to me. i want to figure out what to do about you and me but you're just ignoring me. i know that i did some stupid s hit and i know that you need your space but i can't sit here and wait forever.. so call me, okay?





    if she doesn't call you.. obviously it's over.


    if she does, then you can either mend things or just get over it.





    once you have closure with your gf call the girl and go over her house.





    GOOD LUCK
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  • Help i need your advice on this problem?

    If your the ';girl';, and dated the ';Loser'; who is a drugi and will hit you, treat you bad, and lost your v-card to him. Then there is the ';fat guy'; your best-f who told you he likes you, who will treat you nice but you just played with him until he got fed up and just left, and you never saw him again. On top of that you even mess with your best-f own cousin. Years later you see your best-f again.





    This time looking hot and see he made something out of himself and riding in a lamborghini how would you feel and what would you do as the abused girl?





    I'm going back to my old town for the holidays, and i'm the old best friend!.Help i need your advice on this problem?
    i would feel pretty upset. i wouldnt have stuck around to get hut and treated badly all the time i would have gone with the boy who treated u great, it doesnt matter how big u are.


    bet that was a kick in the butt!Help i need your advice on this problem?
    Touche. Good for you. Go back with your head up high and a little strut to your step.
    Ah your the guy that brags about having money and a lamborghini all the time.
    sounds like the movie ';Just Friends'; but i would be happy for him and not worry or think anything of it.
    DON'T GIVE UP

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be my gf. I talked to my cousins (one a girl, and one a boy) about HER. They said they heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she is BEAUTIFUL and heard she has slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my guy cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    i would listen to your mom if she has been friends with her mom she would know better then any one and besides you said so your self that you cuz has the the habbit of saying things about a gurl and then ends up dating them even though you liked them so.......... go with your gut feeling and listen to your momHelp i really need advice about this problem?
    wow ok...first off just cause someone ';heard stuff'; about someone, does not make it true its called a grapevine. and it probably got started cause someone don't like her and wanted to make her upset. and i would say trust your mom dude. but still be care-full. tell her how you feel. its obvious she ';likes'; you. BUT take it slow. don't have sex of any kind. GET TESTED. and i don't mean just her. do it with her. that will comfort her, and you will both know if your clean. and if 1 of u is dirty, and still want to be together, talk to a doctor. see what your options are. but bottom line.... don't believe every think you hear. cause now days its all ';he said, she said'; ask her directly after you have been seeing her for a while. and get tested. hope this helps and good luck.





    P.s better safe, than sorry.
    Never believe rumors. Always find out the truth. Talk to the girl and get to know her then make assumptions for yourself. Your cousins are just jealous probably. Listen to your mother!

    Advice desperately needed - on this problem???

    Weought our house in 1963, a young ornimental (we were told) was planted outside on County Council land just on the edge of our front garden. Many years later, its HUGE, blotting out the street light from our garden at night. Shedding a whole load of leaves in the garden every Autumn. But worse of all, its a well known fact that the roots travel twice the distance of the hieigth of the tree! Which must now well past our house, and near the undergrown pipes to sewers etc.,





    I have enquired to have it removed, the council say NO, they dont like to take down healthy trees.





    We did not request it to be put there, I love trees, and would plant a dozen somewhere else to replace that one. But what else can I do????? Please advice desperately needed.Advice desperately needed - on this problem???
    If i were you i would get in touch with a solicitor %26amp; ask them who would be responsible for damage to your property/pipes.


    The council did not have the foresight to see what the tree would grow into.They should be responsible for any damage caused,in my opinion,but take professional advice.Hope it all works out for you.Advice desperately needed - on this problem???
    Get some copper spikes, drive them into the tree. It will kill it within a year. Then they have to take in out. Remove the spikes before the come out. They will not know you killed the tree.
    I would suspect that you need to get specialist advice from a surveyor. If he can prove that the tree is actually damaging your property or causing subsidence, then you could probably approach the council again to see about having it removed.





    Alternatively, have you tried asking the council if they are prepared to compromise and allow you to have the tree cut back a bit by a professional tree surgeon? The trees outside my house are protected, but we were still allowed to have them trimmed when squirrels were getting into our loft via the long branches.
    You could petition and claim it is a nuisance, or if the roots are past your property perhaps they are affecting the integrity of you homes' foundation. Try every angle. My Mom had this problem with her village council.
    Trim it back, now that it is Spring. I doubt that is will kill it.

    Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?

    A couple of months ago I had a very expensive phone bill. I am with Optus. and I rang them and I asked why. They suggested I go on Optus one plan 99$. I was on prepaid for my mobile. They changed my mobile plan to post paid but they did need change my home phone to 99$ one plan although they were cahrging me for it. I got very angry and decided to cancel the whole idea. now they have send me a bill. 11 $ for mobile phone calls and 180$ cancellation fee! what would you do if you were in my shoes?would you pay this?would make a complain?what do you suggest me to do please?Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    When you say post-paid I assume you signed a contract, which is a legally binding document. All contracts have a ';cooling off period'; in which you can back out, but if you changed your mind outside this period, Optus are within their rights to charge you whatever fee is specified in the contract. If you signed up for a year or more, you have now broken that contract and Optus have the right to sue you. If you can't afford the fee, I would contact Fair Trading at your local council and see what they suggest.Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    I was on Optus Pre-Paid and decided to change my service provider to Transact. My husband and I have identical mobile phones and it took him 5 minutes to unlock from the Optus network. I applied on 11 Apr 07 and it took until 24 Oct 07 to unlock from the network. I was then charged 50.00 for the unlocking. I submitted a complaint through the telecommunication Industry Ombudsman (TIO) and they gave me a TIO number to quote to Optus. They will also give you the Optus phone number to ring. Please be advised that Optus have 10 days to fix the complaint. The TIO phone number can be tracked via the web.

    I really need your advice,please?college problem!?

    Well,yesterday I went to college to take an access course,however they offered me ';Literacy advanced'; instated as my English test didn't met the minimum requested and they believed there will be a lot of hard work! may will be difficult for me!(but I have already a degree in science in my own language not English so quite familiar with Uni and hard working)





    I have no idea about this course just know it`s for those who their first language is English but have problem in writing and reading,and at end aim to progress onto uni .





    I am very enthusiasm about going to uni again to carry on my study so i`m looking for a chance to make progress.


    Now my questions are:





    1)how can get some more information about ';literacy advanced'; which I have been offered?and how it can help my English?





    2)Do you think there will be any any opportunity to go to higher level(pre-access or access) if they realise how good I am ,during the course,or have to finish it without promotion?





    thanks in advance!I really need your advice,please?college problem!?
    To your first question, the easiest way to get more information about the ';literacy advanced'; course is find out which department it is in, and who the head of department is and email that person, possibly stating that you would like to have a meeting to discuss over what the actual ';literacy advanced'; course is, he or she will also provide information as to what you will be covering and types of work you will be doing.





    For your second question i dont think you will be able to go to a higher lever, most university requires completion of a course before you can go to a higher course. Although you can also ask the head of department during the meeting, you might be able to, never know. Hope that helps.

    Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?

    A couple of months ago I had a very expensive phone bill. I am with Optus. and I rang them and I asked why. They suggested I go on Optus one plan 99$. I was on prepaid for my mobile. They changed my mobile plan to post paid but they did need change my home phone to 99$ one plan although they were cahrging me for it. I got very angry and decided to cancel the whole idea. now they have send me a bill. 11 $ for mobile phone calls and 180$ cancellation fee! what would you do if you were in my shoes?would you pay this?would make a complain?what do you suggest me to do please?Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    For a start - when you ring up Optus you speak with a SUPERVISOR, never just the first person on the phone, you will get nowhere. Demand they put their supervisor on the phone. Explain your situation and DEMAND it has to be fixed NOW.





    After you have tried that, and 99% of the time speaking to a supervisor it does solve the problem - but if you got nowhere then make a formal complaint to the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman's - a long lengthy process but worth it in the end if you get the outcome you wish.


    I managed to get $5,000 out of Telstra going through them for stuffing me around.Experienced AustraliansI need your advice on this problem?what would you do?
    Thats just optus for you, telstra is the same, so just pay it and dont sign with telstra or optus again, they are most expensive phone companys, their are other cheaper ones out there
    get hold of the Telco Ombudsman - and register yr compliant.


    We had the same nonsense with Telstra and you really do have to push yr complaint thru the system ie keep at it because they know they will wear most people down.





    ';Complaints about landline, mobile phone and Internet services have increased by almost 8 percent in the last financial year.





    According to the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman's annual report, which was released today, a whopping 59,850 complaints have been lodged.





    Not surprisingly, the biggest area for complaint was disputes about billing.





    Established in 1993, the Telecommunications Industry Ombudsman is a free and independent dispute resolution service.





    It is largely geared toward residential and small business consumers who have been unable to resolve a complaint with their Internet service provider or telco.';
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  • I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?

    Your Question


    I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?


    hello friends i have comleted PG. now my parents are searching a good boy for me but i like my childhood friend .we both are mail to each ohher from last one year......one day i felt that i liked him.....


    and i told him that ';I like you'; suddenly he said that you are like my


    sister and now you stop mailing me .....now please help me what i do beacuse i like only my childhood friend and i can not think about any other boy?I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Before taking any decision for any boy, always think wether he would secure your life.


    It must be possible that he is your crush. i would like to advice you that the parents decision must be honoured because they would always feel that their child should be happy.


    Defintaley they would look a guy which suits you %26amp; will always keep you happy. So admire your parents liking %26amp; forget your childhood friend.





    Always remeber that whatever happens in life happens for good.I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Well if you know where he lives go to his house and tell him he shouldn't get so mad and your sorry.Then, go over and talk about stuff don't tell him you like him yet


    and you ask him if he would like to go out for some dinner (not as a date also don't do this until you've been talking to him for a while)and continue this on until he says ';i like you';.If he says no to the apology ask him if you can at least still email ar mail each other and do all the stuff i said at the top like go out for dinner,talk etc.
    forget him dear, marry some good boy. Listen you must understand that the boy you like is looking at you just like a sister. There is a limit and a pride of every relationship. If you cannot make him your brother, make him a friend but stop thinking more.


    We like our fathers mothers too but we cannot marry them.
    you were friends because both of you had a mutual feeling that you could be friends. i hope you understand from the same logic that in order to establish any relationship, there should be mutual consent from both the persons.. a mutual feeling.





    I can understand what you are going through, but I WANT to give you practical advise. so just try not to lose your best friend. tell him what you have realized.
    May be you want to marry him because you are more comfortable with him.marrying a complete stranger is scaring you..although you like him but you cant force him to change his feelings towards you...just the way he cant change your feelings towards him...tell him that your childhood friendship matters more to you than anything else so be friends and normal again..show him that it was a temporary feeling that you had...but as regards your marriage..think about it open mindedly..but plz continue to be friends with him..
    dear...it ws unfortunate..but u only liked him n loved him..so dnt get that hooked on..it is nt th end of the world..it is nt necessary that whomsoever we love or like same should happen wid that person..so let it pass by..u will find manymore people more interesting ...so move ahead baby....all the best
    DONT MARRY WHO U LOVE


    MARRY THE ONE WHO LOVES U





    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON


    ITS BEST FOR BOTH OF U BECUZ HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT U
    Hey silly,





    You would find many wonderful personalities out there.





    Come out of the shell.





    The world is so wide and great.





    Silly girl !
    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON
    See if you can change his mind orelse go with your parents decision.
    You must forget and get married to a person whom your parents suggest
    mom says get off the computer and go to bed or you're grounded!
    sometimes I hit my pee pee with a hammer

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be with me. I talked to my 2 cousins about HER. They said they have heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she's clearly not and has already slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my cousins say and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    duude,, yu suck.. y the f**k do yu want to listen to yur cousin even after he stabbed yu..


    go for her dude..Help i really need advice about this problem?
    i would ignore both parties and decide on your own terms. your cousins are skewed, they already have their opinions formed. your mom is biased, she already thinks she knows everything about this girl. you need to decide for yourself A) if she is attractive B) if she is easy and C) if you want to be with her. if you figure it out on your own you will definitely make the right choice
    well, you obviously know the answer to this already, your mom is the better one to believe. But you know, neither of these people can for sure know anything. You need to become friends with this girl and learn about her yourself. if you are still interested, ask her out.
    Believe your mom.





    She's usually right anyways. :]
    ya that is gonna take some time to think about.


    listen to your heart.





    answer mine please:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
    If your cousins are tricking u to dump a girl and then steal her from u then they are assholes and u shouldn't listen to them. U should listen to ur mom and ask the girl out
    mother always knows best.
    omgosh talk to her!


    stuff your cusins LOL
    i think the answer is obvious..


    believe ur mom..


    as the old saying goes, parents know what's best for you.. but your cousins dont.. lol..

    I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?

    My best friend is dating a guy who is very controlling. She constantly complains to me about it. It seems like an everyday thing that she tells me ';I'm leaving him, I hate him, blah blah blah';


    Tonight she told him that they should post pone the wedding a few more months (they are supposed to be getting married in March)


    He freaked out on her and stormed out leaving her stranded without a vehicle.


    When I texted her later to ask if she made it back home (she had went for a walk) she said no. I asked her where she was and she said ';with a friend';. I asked her what friend and she said Chris. Chris is her EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER! I had to put up with that bull crap for almost two years!!!!





    This is what I don't get....


    She says she ';loves'; David (her fiancee) and wants to marry him but when things go bad she runs to ex bf's to find comfort?


    I don't want to seem like a bad friend but wtf!?


    What should I freaking say to her?????I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    She likes the drama. If you don't like drama then comfort her, but realize that she is just milking it for all it's worth. My advice is to warn her not to pull away from her fiance or she might just lose him permanently. She obviously still has some feeling for the ex-bf (or at least wants to use him while she has the chance), but either way she is playing a very risky game. Just warn her to cool her engines or she might just have it all blow up in her face. You seem like you care about her so just be honest and comfort her, but don't get in the middle or you'll end up in the drama too.I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    Well try not to be rude about it, but she obviously doesn't have high self-esteem because if she did, she would forget about the both of them and find someone who will treat her with respect. Let her know how amazing she is, and tell her that her fiancee might not be a good person for her to be with if he leaves her stranded.
    I think that this is something she needs to figure out on her own and that it's her business. You're there to be there for her, as a friend. But it's her life. If she needs comfort just listen to her and watch a movie with her and eat ice cream. Even though you want to help, when this comes down to it, it's her who has to make the choice and grow up and figure out what's going on.





    good luck =]
    Women, always looking for reassurance and security. Why not to introduce her to a more appropriate partner, before it is too late and she gets married.
    Tell her that I told you that she needs to see a therapist. The girl's got some issues to deal with, like maybe getting some self-esteem.
    if i were you i would tell her if you keep on having prob. with ur fiancee then you should tell him you done with him
    just talk to her about everything that is on your mind.


    there may be a reason she does. you never know until you talk.


    I know I had similar problems with my best friend. her boyfriend was a complete jerk to her and he totally used her. it hurt me to see her in pain because she is usually so strong. so just talk to her. but don't get mad. just tell her you want to talk. just talk thats all. no yelling no freaking out. just calm talking and talk it out.


    thats my advice.


    good luck.


    and hang in there. I know it's hard. you just can't ignore her at a time like this because she obviously needs a friend right now. she just doesn't know it.





    So like I said. Just talk to her.


    I hope it turns out ok. =)

    Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?

    I'm 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat, and i'm a virgin still, but im now in shape and get a lot attention from girls now. Even dough my appearance has changed i will always respect girls, and always treat them right. I met a girl who is 24 and she has a 2 y/o girl, and she's divorced but the baby's dad still comes to visit the daughter... (I think there might be baby daddy problems here)








    Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20 (I lied because i'm into older women because they are matured), and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Chris if your not in too deep just now i would say don't get to deep into it.





    I am not for breaking up friendships or relationships by any means just because of age, but i think the commitment to the child and having the daddy on the scene might be a little too much for someone just ';starting'; out if you know what i mean.








    And remember girls mature faster than guys, so if you date someone your own age or maybe a year or two older then your getting your older woman! lol





    It might be fun to experiment with someone in the same situation as yourself , rather than getting into a family situation.








    Having said all that, if this girl is really committed to you and you are both in love and been and know each other deeply and the hubby don't have a problem with it or you, then that's different.





    Hope this helps a little :)Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Just enjoy your young life I guess. If it doesn't work out you still have your whole life ahead of you. You still have 20 yrs to find your mate.
    WELL U ALREADY DID A MOSTAKE BY ';HITTING IT OFF';


    SO LEAVING WILL BE THE PROPER THING 2 DO BUT BECAUSE U HITT IT OFF WITH HER IF U LEAVE IT WILL SEEM IF U WAS JUSS USING HER TO HAVE SEX


    ITS UP 2 U 2 KNOW IF U REALLY LIKE THIS LADY WAYS AND STUFF AND IF U ARE CAPABLE TO HANDEL A 2 YEAR OLD AS A FATHER


    have a talk with her and tell her that youre 19 and well the same thing u told us


    and if u really like her as a person to live with and the 2 year girl as a daughter then go for it


    but if u have 2 leave tell her the truth in person and then talk about it and then leave dont just leave in a sudden


    trust me iths is great help


    if u need more help them mail me at


    sweet_boy_sharaz_hotmail.com

    Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?

    I'm going to use names.


    Me-Tony


    Her-Kaitlin


    Other guy-Travis





    Well me and Kaitlin, were together for 6 months.


    On our 6th month annir. she decided that she didn't want to date me anymore.


    So the same day she started going out with this Travis kid.


    One day later she broke up with Travis, and got back with me.


    Six days after that she broke up with me and is back with Travis.





    She lives one street over, and we usual hang out after school.


    Now here is where i need help.


    She is cheating on Travis with me..


    Everyday me and Kaitlin act like we're still dating.





    But she doesn't want to break up with Travis..


    She says she ';loves'; him after 8 days they've been together.


    But she cheats on him with me...


    She said, ';Tony, i love you. It's just that when i'm with you i never want it to end, but when i'm with Travis i feel the same way.';


    I've asked my friends for advice they told me to just stop talking to her,


    And see what she does. Well i did that and she started to freak out that i wasn't talking to her.


    She thought something happened to me..


    I can't just let her go, after the stuff me and her did.


    Her birthday is saturday, and i got her this extremely expensive ring that has our names engraved in it. But now it's worthless..


    I feel lost without her. ):


    Help?!Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    She dosent love you, she likes you and that won't change.


    Be her friend, stop the sex.


    Dont give her the ring.


    Remember, be her friend. NO SEX!Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    take the girl on cheaters
    i agree you need to go on cheaters but i guess i would be a complete dick to her and talk to travis and get pics before to show and prove she is a slut. also keep ALL txt and phone calls... good luck!
    First of all, I apologize for my name, I promise I'm not the same Travis. Second of all, I know it'll hurt, but you need to get away from that situation. She's just going to keep messing with you. Because she can. She needs to grow up a lot before she can be in a committed relationship.
    It depends how old you are really. She could be having a mid life crisis? You sound pretty young tho, teens, or twenties?


    It sounds like she is cheating and messing around with the both of you.


    She isn't sure of what she wants, and she is most definitely keeping her options open. I think this Travis guy is abit of a player and she isn't sure what's going on with him and her. Are you sure they are together? I think she's just a booty call to him or he is dating other girls as well, which is why she comes back to you. You know, the kind of guy who doesn't show a girl too much affection, so she wants to get it out of him (if you know what I mean)


    If I was you I would either keep away from her until she has got it out of her system or tell her to get her **** together.


    Hope I made some sence %26amp; helped you :)
    okay obviously shes very confused. and both of you are probably good guys. i think its time to tell her to choose. i know it will hurt but if she comes back it was worth it and if she doesnt, well, then it wasnt meant to be.


    good luck !
    I think it would be best if you did not see her for some time cose I think she is not sure who she likes best and wants to go out with both of you.
    She probably was cheating on you while you guys were together with this Travis guy. You need to put a stop to this before she starts playing you for a fool (if she's already not) This girl is using you and she wants you to be there for her regardless and that is not right. because if you see it if something doesn't go right with you and her she goes to him and if something doesn't go right with her and him she goes to you so pretty much you're a back up plan. You need to open your eyes!! Just stop talking to her she's not worth it and won't be (Once a cheater always a cheater!!!!) Leave her alone and just be up front and tell her you're not going ot be putting up with what she has been doing. You're only hurting yourself even more by staying with her. She's no good for you and she doesn't appreciate you or anything that you do for her. So dump her!

    What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?

    I was with my gf for a long time. I did something so stupid, which I won't say, because I'm not proud of it, but she's just really pissed, and she won't talk to me at all, and her friends won't let me talk to her either.





    There's this friend, a girl, and we were just talking, got to flirting, and now she wants me to call her and like come over and stuff... She's my type and all, but I don't know if I'm not supposed to be doing this. Should I just tell her I have a gf or go along with it?? I'm so confused.











    I know I posted this, but I didn't get any answers, and I need some ASAP.What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    Well, if you TRULY love your gf of a long time


    Dont go seeing this other girl


    Let it pass over


    And dont bring it up when you guys are together again (which you probably will be)


    Good luck. :)What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    OMG ADD DETAILS BAOUT WHAT YOU DID


    but basically here's what i think





    do you want to stay with your girlfriend?!


    if you don't..


    text your girlfriend and be like





    listen i'm trying to reconcile things.. but you're not talking to me. i want to figure out what to do about you and me but you're just ignoring me. i know that i did some stupid s hit and i know that you need your space but i can't sit here and wait forever.. so call me, okay?





    if she doesn't call you.. obviously it's over.


    if she does, then you can either mend things or just get over it.





    once you have closure with your gf call the girl and go over her house.





    GOOD LUCK
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  • Help i need your advice on this problem?

    If your the ';girl';, and dated the ';Loser'; who is a drugi and will hit you, treat you bad, and lost your v-card to him. Then there is the ';fat guy'; your best-f who told you he likes you, who will treat you nice but you just played with him until he got fed up and just left, and you never saw him again. On top of that you even mess with your best-f own cousin. Years later you see your best-f again.





    This time looking hot and see he made something out of himself and riding in a lamborghini how would you feel and what would you do as the abused girl?





    I'm going back to my old town for the holidays, and i'm the old best friend!.Help i need your advice on this problem?
    i would feel pretty upset. i wouldnt have stuck around to get hut and treated badly all the time i would have gone with the boy who treated u great, it doesnt matter how big u are.


    bet that was a kick in the butt!Help i need your advice on this problem?
    Touche. Good for you. Go back with your head up high and a little strut to your step.
    Ah your the guy that brags about having money and a lamborghini all the time.
    sounds like the movie ';Just Friends'; but i would be happy for him and not worry or think anything of it.
    DON'T GIVE UP

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be with me. I talked to my 2 cousins about HER. They said they have heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she's clearly not and has already slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my cousins say and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    duude,, yu suck.. y the f**k do yu want to listen to yur cousin even after he stabbed yu..


    go for her dude..Help i really need advice about this problem?
    i would ignore both parties and decide on your own terms. your cousins are skewed, they already have their opinions formed. your mom is biased, she already thinks she knows everything about this girl. you need to decide for yourself A) if she is attractive B) if she is easy and C) if you want to be with her. if you figure it out on your own you will definitely make the right choice
    well, you obviously know the answer to this already, your mom is the better one to believe. But you know, neither of these people can for sure know anything. You need to become friends with this girl and learn about her yourself. if you are still interested, ask her out.
    Believe your mom.





    She's usually right anyways. :]
    ya that is gonna take some time to think about.


    listen to your heart.





    answer mine please:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
    If your cousins are tricking u to dump a girl and then steal her from u then they are assholes and u shouldn't listen to them. U should listen to ur mom and ask the girl out
    mother always knows best.
    omgosh talk to her!


    stuff your cusins LOL
    i think the answer is obvious..


    believe ur mom..


    as the old saying goes, parents know what's best for you.. but your cousins dont.. lol..

    Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?

    I'm 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat, and i'm a virgin still, but im now in shape and get a lot attention from girls now. Even dough my appearance has changed i will always respect girls, and always treat them right. I met a girl who is 24 and she has a 2 y/o girl, and she's divorced but the baby's dad still comes to visit the daughter... (I think there might be baby daddy problems here)








    Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20 (I lied because i'm into older women because they are matured), and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Chris if your not in too deep just now i would say don't get to deep into it.





    I am not for breaking up friendships or relationships by any means just because of age, but i think the commitment to the child and having the daddy on the scene might be a little too much for someone just ';starting'; out if you know what i mean.








    And remember girls mature faster than guys, so if you date someone your own age or maybe a year or two older then your getting your older woman! lol





    It might be fun to experiment with someone in the same situation as yourself , rather than getting into a family situation.








    Having said all that, if this girl is really committed to you and you are both in love and been and know each other deeply and the hubby don't have a problem with it or you, then that's different.





    Hope this helps a little :)Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Just enjoy your young life I guess. If it doesn't work out you still have your whole life ahead of you. You still have 20 yrs to find your mate.
    WELL U ALREADY DID A MOSTAKE BY ';HITTING IT OFF';


    SO LEAVING WILL BE THE PROPER THING 2 DO BUT BECAUSE U HITT IT OFF WITH HER IF U LEAVE IT WILL SEEM IF U WAS JUSS USING HER TO HAVE SEX


    ITS UP 2 U 2 KNOW IF U REALLY LIKE THIS LADY WAYS AND STUFF AND IF U ARE CAPABLE TO HANDEL A 2 YEAR OLD AS A FATHER


    have a talk with her and tell her that youre 19 and well the same thing u told us


    and if u really like her as a person to live with and the 2 year girl as a daughter then go for it


    but if u have 2 leave tell her the truth in person and then talk about it and then leave dont just leave in a sudden


    trust me iths is great help


    if u need more help them mail me at


    sweet_boy_sharaz_hotmail.com

    I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?

    Your Question


    I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?


    hello friends i have comleted PG. now my parents are searching a good boy for me but i like my childhood friend .we both are mail to each ohher from last one year......one day i felt that i liked him.....


    and i told him that ';I like you'; suddenly he said that you are like my


    sister and now you stop mailing me .....now please help me what i do beacuse i like only my childhood friend and i can not think about any other boy?I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Before taking any decision for any boy, always think wether he would secure your life.


    It must be possible that he is your crush. i would like to advice you that the parents decision must be honoured because they would always feel that their child should be happy.


    Defintaley they would look a guy which suits you %26amp; will always keep you happy. So admire your parents liking %26amp; forget your childhood friend.





    Always remeber that whatever happens in life happens for good.I need suggestion and advice in love problem.? ?
    Well if you know where he lives go to his house and tell him he shouldn't get so mad and your sorry.Then, go over and talk about stuff don't tell him you like him yet


    and you ask him if he would like to go out for some dinner (not as a date also don't do this until you've been talking to him for a while)and continue this on until he says ';i like you';.If he says no to the apology ask him if you can at least still email ar mail each other and do all the stuff i said at the top like go out for dinner,talk etc.
    forget him dear, marry some good boy. Listen you must understand that the boy you like is looking at you just like a sister. There is a limit and a pride of every relationship. If you cannot make him your brother, make him a friend but stop thinking more.


    We like our fathers mothers too but we cannot marry them.
    you were friends because both of you had a mutual feeling that you could be friends. i hope you understand from the same logic that in order to establish any relationship, there should be mutual consent from both the persons.. a mutual feeling.





    I can understand what you are going through, but I WANT to give you practical advise. so just try not to lose your best friend. tell him what you have realized.
    May be you want to marry him because you are more comfortable with him.marrying a complete stranger is scaring you..although you like him but you cant force him to change his feelings towards you...just the way he cant change your feelings towards him...tell him that your childhood friendship matters more to you than anything else so be friends and normal again..show him that it was a temporary feeling that you had...but as regards your marriage..think about it open mindedly..but plz continue to be friends with him..
    dear...it ws unfortunate..but u only liked him n loved him..so dnt get that hooked on..it is nt th end of the world..it is nt necessary that whomsoever we love or like same should happen wid that person..so let it pass by..u will find manymore people more interesting ...so move ahead baby....all the best
    DONT MARRY WHO U LOVE


    MARRY THE ONE WHO LOVES U





    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON


    ITS BEST FOR BOTH OF U BECUZ HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT U
    Hey silly,





    You would find many wonderful personalities out there.





    Come out of the shell.





    The world is so wide and great.





    Silly girl !
    TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON
    See if you can change his mind orelse go with your parents decision.
    You must forget and get married to a person whom your parents suggest
    mom says get off the computer and go to bed or you're grounded!
    sometimes I hit my pee pee with a hammer

    I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?

    My best friend is dating a guy who is very controlling. She constantly complains to me about it. It seems like an everyday thing that she tells me ';I'm leaving him, I hate him, blah blah blah';


    Tonight she told him that they should post pone the wedding a few more months (they are supposed to be getting married in March)


    He freaked out on her and stormed out leaving her stranded without a vehicle.


    When I texted her later to ask if she made it back home (she had went for a walk) she said no. I asked her where she was and she said ';with a friend';. I asked her what friend and she said Chris. Chris is her EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER! I had to put up with that bull crap for almost two years!!!!





    This is what I don't get....


    She says she ';loves'; David (her fiancee) and wants to marry him but when things go bad she runs to ex bf's to find comfort?


    I don't want to seem like a bad friend but wtf!?


    What should I freaking say to her?????I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    She likes the drama. If you don't like drama then comfort her, but realize that she is just milking it for all it's worth. My advice is to warn her not to pull away from her fiance or she might just lose him permanently. She obviously still has some feeling for the ex-bf (or at least wants to use him while she has the chance), but either way she is playing a very risky game. Just warn her to cool her engines or she might just have it all blow up in her face. You seem like you care about her so just be honest and comfort her, but don't get in the middle or you'll end up in the drama too.I seriously need some advice. best friend problem. ?
    Well try not to be rude about it, but she obviously doesn't have high self-esteem because if she did, she would forget about the both of them and find someone who will treat her with respect. Let her know how amazing she is, and tell her that her fiancee might not be a good person for her to be with if he leaves her stranded.
    I think that this is something she needs to figure out on her own and that it's her business. You're there to be there for her, as a friend. But it's her life. If she needs comfort just listen to her and watch a movie with her and eat ice cream. Even though you want to help, when this comes down to it, it's her who has to make the choice and grow up and figure out what's going on.





    good luck =]
    Women, always looking for reassurance and security. Why not to introduce her to a more appropriate partner, before it is too late and she gets married.
    Tell her that I told you that she needs to see a therapist. The girl's got some issues to deal with, like maybe getting some self-esteem.
    if i were you i would tell her if you keep on having prob. with ur fiancee then you should tell him you done with him
    just talk to her about everything that is on your mind.


    there may be a reason she does. you never know until you talk.


    I know I had similar problems with my best friend. her boyfriend was a complete jerk to her and he totally used her. it hurt me to see her in pain because she is usually so strong. so just talk to her. but don't get mad. just tell her you want to talk. just talk thats all. no yelling no freaking out. just calm talking and talk it out.


    thats my advice.


    good luck.


    and hang in there. I know it's hard. you just can't ignore her at a time like this because she obviously needs a friend right now. she just doesn't know it.





    So like I said. Just talk to her.


    I hope it turns out ok. =)

    Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?

    I'm going to use names.


    Me-Tony


    Her-Kaitlin


    Other guy-Travis





    Well me and Kaitlin, were together for 6 months.


    On our 6th month annir. she decided that she didn't want to date me anymore.


    So the same day she started going out with this Travis kid.


    One day later she broke up with Travis, and got back with me.


    Six days after that she broke up with me and is back with Travis.





    She lives one street over, and we usual hang out after school.


    Now here is where i need help.


    She is cheating on Travis with me..


    Everyday me and Kaitlin act like we're still dating.





    But she doesn't want to break up with Travis..


    She says she ';loves'; him after 8 days they've been together.


    But she cheats on him with me...


    She said, ';Tony, i love you. It's just that when i'm with you i never want it to end, but when i'm with Travis i feel the same way.';


    I've asked my friends for advice they told me to just stop talking to her,


    And see what she does. Well i did that and she started to freak out that i wasn't talking to her.


    She thought something happened to me..


    I can't just let her go, after the stuff me and her did.


    Her birthday is saturday, and i got her this extremely expensive ring that has our names engraved in it. But now it's worthless..


    I feel lost without her. ):


    Help?!Can anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    take the girl on cheatersCan anyone give me advice of my problem with my girlfriend?
    i agree you need to go on cheaters but i guess i would be a complete dick to her and talk to travis and get pics before to show and prove she is a slut. also keep ALL txt and phone calls... good luck!
    okay obviously shes very confused. and both of you are probably good guys. i think its time to tell her to choose. i know it will hurt but if she comes back it was worth it and if she doesnt, well, then it wasnt meant to be.


    good luck !
    I think it would be best if you did not see her for some time cose I think she is not sure who she likes best and wants to go out with both of you.
    She probably was cheating on you while you guys were together with this Travis guy. You need to put a stop to this before she starts playing you for a fool (if she's already not) This girl is using you and she wants you to be there for her regardless and that is not right. because if you see it if something doesn't go right with you and her she goes to him and if something doesn't go right with her and him she goes to you so pretty much you're a back up plan. You need to open your eyes!! Just stop talking to her she's not worth it and won't be (Once a cheater always a cheater!!!!) Leave her alone and just be up front and tell her you're not going ot be putting up with what she has been doing. You're only hurting yourself even more by staying with her. She's no good for you and she doesn't appreciate you or anything that you do for her. So dump her!
    It depends how old you are really. She could be having a mid life crisis? You sound pretty young tho, teens, or twenties?


    It sounds like she is cheating and messing around with the both of you.


    She isn't sure of what she wants, and she is most definitely keeping her options open. I think this Travis guy is abit of a player and she isn't sure what's going on with him and her. Are you sure they are together? I think she's just a booty call to him or he is dating other girls as well, which is why she comes back to you. You know, the kind of guy who doesn't show a girl too much affection, so she wants to get it out of him (if you know what I mean)


    If I was you I would either keep away from her until she has got it out of her system or tell her to get her **** together.


    Hope I made some sence %26amp; helped you :)
    She dosent love you, she likes you and that won't change.


    Be her friend, stop the sex.


    Dont give her the ring.


    Remember, be her friend. NO SEX!
    First of all, I apologize for my name, I promise I'm not the same Travis. Second of all, I know it'll hurt, but you need to get away from that situation. She's just going to keep messing with you. Because she can. She needs to grow up a lot before she can be in a committed relationship.
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  • What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?

    I was with my gf for a long time. I did something so stupid, which I won't say, because I'm not proud of it, but she's just really pissed, and she won't talk to me at all, and her friends won't let me talk to her either.





    There's this friend, a girl, and we were just talking, got to flirting, and now she wants me to call her and like come over and stuff... She's my type and all, but I don't know if I'm not supposed to be doing this. Should I just tell her I have a gf or go along with it?? I'm so confused.











    I know I posted this, but I didn't get any answers, and I need some ASAP.What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    Well, if you TRULY love your gf of a long time


    Dont go seeing this other girl


    Let it pass over


    And dont bring it up when you guys are together again (which you probably will be)


    Good luck. :)What do I do? Advice for GIRL PROBLEM?
    OMG ADD DETAILS BAOUT WHAT YOU DID


    but basically here's what i think





    do you want to stay with your girlfriend?!


    if you don't..


    text your girlfriend and be like





    listen i'm trying to reconcile things.. but you're not talking to me. i want to figure out what to do about you and me but you're just ignoring me. i know that i did some stupid s hit and i know that you need your space but i can't sit here and wait forever.. so call me, okay?





    if she doesn't call you.. obviously it's over.


    if she does, then you can either mend things or just get over it.





    once you have closure with your gf call the girl and go over her house.





    GOOD LUCK

    Help i need your advice on this problem?

    If your the ';girl';, and dated the ';Loser'; who is a drugi and will hit you, treat you bad, and lost your v-card to him. Then there is the ';fat guy'; your best-f who told you he likes you, who will treat you nice but you just played with him until he got fed up and just left, and you never saw him again. On top of that you even mess with your best-f own cousin. Years later you see your best-f again.





    This time looking hot and see he made something out of himself and riding in a lamborghini how would you feel and what would you do as the abused girl?





    I'm going back to my old town for the holidays, and i'm the old best friend!.Help i need your advice on this problem?
    i would feel pretty upset. i wouldnt have stuck around to get hut and treated badly all the time i would have gone with the boy who treated u great, it doesnt matter how big u are.


    bet that was a kick in the butt!Help i need your advice on this problem?
    Touche. Good for you. Go back with your head up high and a little strut to your step.
    Ah your the guy that brags about having money and a lamborghini all the time.
    sounds like the movie ';Just Friends'; but i would be happy for him and not worry or think anything of it.
    DON'T GIVE UP

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be my gf. I talked to my cousins (one a girl, and one a boy) about HER. They said they heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she is BEAUTIFUL and heard she has slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my guy cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    i would listen to your mom if she has been friends with her mom she would know better then any one and besides you said so your self that you cuz has the the habbit of saying things about a gurl and then ends up dating them even though you liked them so.......... go with your gut feeling and listen to your momHelp i really need advice about this problem?
    Never believe rumors. Always find out the truth. Talk to the girl and get to know her then make assumptions for yourself. Your cousins are just jealous probably. Listen to your mother!
    wow ok...first off just cause someone ';heard stuff'; about someone, does not make it true its called a grapevine. and it probably got started cause someone don't like her and wanted to make her upset. and i would say trust your mom dude. but still be care-full. tell her how you feel. its obvious she ';likes'; you. BUT take it slow. don't have sex of any kind. GET TESTED. and i don't mean just her. do it with her. that will comfort her, and you will both know if your clean. and if 1 of u is dirty, and still want to be together, talk to a doctor. see what your options are. but bottom line.... don't believe every think you hear. cause now days its all ';he said, she said'; ask her directly after you have been seeing her for a while. and get tested. hope this helps and good luck.





    P.s better safe, than sorry.

    Advice desperately needed - on this problem???

    Weought our house in 1963, a young ornimental (we were told) was planted outside on County Council land just on the edge of our front garden. Many years later, its HUGE, blotting out the street light from our garden at night. Shedding a whole load of leaves in the garden every Autumn. But worse of all, its a well known fact that the roots travel twice the distance of the hieigth of the tree! Which must now well past our house, and near the undergrown pipes to sewers etc.,





    I have enquired to have it removed, the council say NO, they dont like to take down healthy trees.





    We did not request it to be put there, I love trees, and would plant a dozen somewhere else to replace that one. But what else can I do????? Please advice desperately needed.Advice desperately needed - on this problem???
    If i were you i would get in touch with a solicitor %26amp; ask them who would be responsible for damage to your property/pipes.


    The council did not have the foresight to see what the tree would grow into.They should be responsible for any damage caused,in my opinion,but take professional advice.Hope it all works out for you.Advice desperately needed - on this problem???
    Get some copper spikes, drive them into the tree. It will kill it within a year. Then they have to take in out. Remove the spikes before the come out. They will not know you killed the tree.
    I would suspect that you need to get specialist advice from a surveyor. If he can prove that the tree is actually damaging your property or causing subsidence, then you could probably approach the council again to see about having it removed.





    Alternatively, have you tried asking the council if they are prepared to compromise and allow you to have the tree cut back a bit by a professional tree surgeon? The trees outside my house are protected, but we were still allowed to have them trimmed when squirrels were getting into our loft via the long branches.
    You could petition and claim it is a nuisance, or if the roots are past your property perhaps they are affecting the integrity of you homes' foundation. Try every angle. My Mom had this problem with her village council.
    Trim it back, now that it is Spring. I doubt that is will kill it.

    Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?

    I'm 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat, and i'm a virgin still, but im now in shape and get a lot attention from girls now. Even dough my appearance has changed i will always respect girls, and always treat them right. I met a girl who is 24 and she has a 2 y/o girl, and she's divorced but the baby's dad still comes to visit the daughter... (I think there might be baby daddy problems here)








    Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20 (I lied because i'm into older women because they are matured), and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    You getting too seriously involved with a woman who has a child already. I know your a virgin and all of this is new to you. I suggest you start slow. Get with a woman that is very similar. You have no idea about the amount of drama a baby's daddy can bring along, especially when this is your first relationship.


    You already started things off wrong, by lying to her about your age. Get out now before things get serious and you will find others.Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
    Well since you are a V it could be a problem later one because we tent to not let go to the person we lost out V too. it gets emotional and well she has a kid and your young there are women out there with out the baggage, and if you see baby daddy drama its probably there. i would say keep looking
    for one tell her the truth NOW and do u want to deal with baby daddy issues ? A women with a baby and a ex is one thing BUT when there is problems then u dont want to go there
    well if ur gonna keep seeing her u need to come clean b/c if she finds out another way she'll be upset and part of ';respecting'; women is telling the truth.... if u wonna keep her around u need to tell her the truth.
    you're young stay away from all the drama. if you want to keep seeing her you need to tell her your real age.
    Lieing is never a good way to start a relationship. Be honest, she'll find out eventually.
    Tell her your real age and see what happens. You should not start relationships off with lies.
    stay away from drama*
    Enjoy stroking her, BUT i stress don't get her pregnant or marry the girl. She got alot of baggage that a single man doesn't need. Your will make your like hard if you do. Then you will have baggage too. The state will come after you for child support for years. An you may even end up in jail if you fail to pay. You will find a single no child women your age. Try losing weight and learn to pick up women. It an art form that must be learn if you don't have it. Good luck man. Read about men rights in home. There are none for men. The state throws out men from the home, family, money. An the women just goes with another male. Remember that!!!

    LADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?

    there is this group of guys (5 kids) in my high school that i used to go to. they popular because there a good looking.but there are boring. because they like compliment each other ( not in a gay way)and make stupid jokes.the funny thing is ,5 of them know each other since elementary .one of the guy in the group use to be close with me, know we are all in college,my ';used'; to be close friends,ditch me..one time when we are suppose to me at this Coffee place,he totally stood me up,and give me a text msg saying ';he need to accompany his mom to go some where,and he says he will me when he is available.after few months, when i am on face book ,i saw his pic going out with his friends(that i mention earlier) on a road trip and another several more photo album with his ';friends'; like in starbucks and stuff.. matter affect he is my ONLY guy friend that im close too


    he could just give me a call and ask me if he want to go hang out with them.is not that i want so badly to be friends with him,but i feel disappointed,i know im not cool as ';them';..








    my question is should :


    1)i call him and arrange to meet up with him?( i never meet for over 1 year)





    2)should i just move on ..after all who needs high school friends when you have alot more college friends.is this true?





    3) if i ignore him,he will think that i did not take effort to contact him( actually i think he the one should call me,cause he ditch me )





    4)is my personality drives him away (im cheerful,friendly,loud,clutz)LADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?
    I KNOW U OUT DAR BRIAN


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091121134719AAkS83G%26amp;r=wLADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?
    1. Yeah, if you wanna continue that friendship


    2. Move on and make new friends. He doesnt seem like a friend too you


    3. Maybe just say sorry?


    4. Haha, no. Im friendly and a clutz.
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  • I need serious medical advice on a problem with psoriasis?

    I am 25 years old and have been breaking out with rashes for over a year now. Last year, I suddenly started breaking out in rashes under my armpits, between my legs, and where my arms fold (other side of elbow). I have been tested for diabetes, AIDS, cancer, lyme disease..... (about forty blood tests in all....I have good insurance) Well, they finally did a biopsy on my skin---when a rash popped up---and said I have psoriasis, but not the plaque kind. My dermatologist is clueless to this biopsy and says my rashes are not associated with psoriasis. He actually says some people go through weird stages for sometimes a few years where this happens---me breaking out with rashes because of sweat. Anyway, it's tough when I've been healty my whole life yet can now barely be outside for five minutes without having a rash appear. Please, anyone help me. Have you ever heard of this before?I need serious medical advice on a problem with psoriasis?
    Not sure this will help you but scabies is a possibility. You should check between your toes and the folds/webbing between your fingers too. Pictures can be found by simply checking with google.





    http://www.medicinenet.com/scabies/article.htm. This is caused by a mite and this condition was suggested to me by a infectious disease doctor upon returning from India. Your dermatologist should be able to isolate. You don't mention whether this condition itches or not, if scabies it would itch horribly. I have never heard of psoriasis between your legs but to me this is highly indicative of scabies.





    Sickly Woodman Craig

    I need advice on my menses problem?

    Hi,i am 28yrs old %26amp; hve PCOS. My period had been regular for the past 3months.I am on it now on the 3rd cycle..The problem is my period have been going on for 12days now %26amp; there were lots of blood clots as huge as a pingpong ball on the 4th day %26amp; on the 11day i had blood clots again the size of a 10cent coin.Is this because my system is clearing up or something is not rite..? please help..I need advice on my menses problem?
    what u say that ovulution is the problem. nothing else, be calm and go to your family doc and consult her. it is okI need advice on my menses problem?
    hi asker,





    its not a healthy thing for you, as such a heavy blood loss from your body can make you severely anaemic. blood clots is not at all a healthy sign. and please, i don't mean to scare you but making you aware of your misinterpretation.





    an easy blood flow is a healthy sign but blood clots, an absolute no no!





    try to drink hot drinks and avoid cold and spicy things during your menses.





    take care

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be with me. I talked to my 2 cousins about HER. They said they have heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she's clearly not and has already slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my cousins say and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my cousin about a chick he says ';She's a **** right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    first of all, your cousin is somehow jealous of you and does not want to see you happy. you need to either stop talking to him about your personal life or totally get away from him. apparently, getting away from him is the best thing you can do. think about this, you finally get a girlfriend, he gets jealous and tries to take revenge on you by saying bad stuff about you to the girl.Help i really need advice about this problem?
    Believe your mom, Dude. Your mom obviously has first hand knowledge about this girl, where are your cousin, like you said, has just heard stuff. I mean, look at how he already turned on you once with that other chick. How do you know he's not trying to pull the same stunt? Believe the person who will always care about you, no matter what.
    I would believe you mom


    because if you cant believe your mum who can believe?


    Also just cause your cousins''heard'' this stuff doesn't mean it is true okay, you cant believe everything you hear and by the sounds of it your cousins should not believe what they hear.


    It also matters what you want to do as well .


    :)
    If I was u I will believe myself and what I see on her, not getting in relation with her is totally a stupid idea, you should start knowing her and by time you will know her better than anyone, I think my advice to you is don鈥檛 trust what other says take it on consideration but make your one opinion apart of what they say.
    theyre just saying that so you'll leave the girl alone and they can go out with her, go out with whoever you want to
    You gotta expect she hasn't slept around and give her the benefit of the doubt, but before a serious relationship ever develops, you have to ask her directly. You can go on a couple dates while ';throwing off'; any ';comments'; your cousins might say. See if she really appears to be a good or bad person. Also, you never want to get into a relationship where you start off extremely suspicious of the person, it can damage relationships with lots of other people (your friends that may be her friend as well). Good luck dude.

    I need help and advice on this problem?

    Okay so basicaly my x boyfreind who was my best freind dated me for like 4 days kissed me on halloween . By the way were 14 -.- anyways we broke up in the end of september. Then when well lets say we did a little bit more than kissing like intimate stuff. Also he's cheating on his girlfreind with me. Also then my freinds start telling me that he told them and a bunch of people of what we did. I dont know wat to do if i should keep doing intimate stuff with him or wat, cuz i know he would probably tell them . Then my freind tells me that the guy still likes me. Then the guy tells me he only told one person. I like him to though and I would like to keep doing stuff with him . Im just asking wat do u think would be the best way to handle this.I need help and advice on this problem?
    Ask yourself this question, if something exciting was happening in my life you would obviously tell people not just your best frined but some other people. This may be hard to hear but even though he's doing ';things'; with you, no matter what you will always be second best to his girlfriend and if she found out he would have to choose her over you. You also need to relize that when his girlfriend finds out about what you guys have done she might try to fight you. You also need to look at the reputation your gonna have when the little secret gets out. when people find out, your reputation will be ';the girl that gets with other girl's dudes'; and every girl will dislike you because of what you have done in your past and your reputation stays with you forever. What if you were in that other girl's shoes? payback is a ***** and what you do with him will always come back and bit you in the ***. I hope this could help you though :)I need help and advice on this problem?
    Someone who really cares about you would only want to be with you and not share details with others. It's really that simple! It's easy to make excuses for other people why they do what they do. And it's probably easy to stay with him because he makes you feel good about yourself. But you should never make a decision because it's the easiest. Start demanding respect for yourself (like telling him what you expect: honesty, loyalty, etc) then he will have to decide whether or not he wants to be with you. And if he won't agree, then don't give in and find someone sweet and kind.
    well you should ask him to breakup with his girlfriend and if he does he want to be with you , and your 14 have fun be carefull of dezezes and youl probably have our heart broke a few time before you meet the right one, my advise to you , is be happy , respect others, and mostly make sure your respected
    this is something you truly and only should answer for yourself. What do you believe in, what are your morals and what do you really want out of life. if your fine with having sex with him(or whatever intimate things you did lol) then continue. This is your decision and his. of course always have safe sex and get checked for anything. do not let others say that your too young or your not ready for this kind of thing. just stay away from drama as much as possible. good luck n god bless.
    1st of all, 14 is way too young to be doing ';intimate stuff';, especially when the guy has a girlfriend. I think what would be best is telling him that if he really wants to be with you, he has to break up with his current girlfriend. AND take things slower.
    the media is getting through to minors, we ned to put an end to this NOW. You should be out riding ur bike, shopping, oing stuff a 14 year old SHOULD do, not ';LOVE'; My God i hate it when minors say they ';LOVE'; eachother and they dont even know wat LOVE is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You just need to have a talk with him.


    Say that you like him but by him telling his friends, he disrespected you.


    And if he wants to continue seeing you, he needs to keep things between just you too.
    You are his booty call. he just wants you to for sex. He already has a girlfriend. He will never be able to have a relationship with you because he can not be trusted, hes a cheater. So all you got going is his sex.
    You are way too young to be doing anything intimate. First of all, don't be the other girlfriend, you deserve to be the ONE AND ONLY girl in his life. have more respect for yourself.
    you shouldnt be hurting this other girl that he is dating, tell him to commit to you and only you or that girl and only that girl
    First of all, ask him to break up with his girlfriend if you must be with him. Second of all, it'd hurt his reputation too if he told. Third of all, I advise you not to be too intimate.
    If he's telling people things that should be kept behind closed doors, don't trust him. He's going to make you look like a slut and give you a bad reputation. Go find someone else to ';experiment'; with.
    get him back. appearently he like u and prolly does more stuff with u then his gf. just say ur not gonna do stuff with him if he has a gf and that u still like him
    this is way too complicated for a 14 year old's life.
    you're a booty call for him. there's just one thing he wants (you know what it is)
    wow what a life you have
    if ur 14 dont go beyond kissing and lay off he has a gf
    I'm fourteen, too, and I have been in the same situation. Its tough deciding whats right, but I did, and It was a great choice. I asked my friends what i should do, and In the end i listened to what my heart said to do. I know it sounds like it came from a movie, but it's true, and it helped me a lot. I hope this helped you too.


    And for the person down there that said it's too complicated for a fourteen year old's life, then you need to think about when you were fourteen, and remember that times have changed. This girl asked for help, and all you can give her is 'This is to complicated for a fourteen year old's life'... come on, get real. Anyways,, i hope this helped(:

    Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?

    Hey World. I am krazykat0506 a.k.a. Taylor Allison. There is this boy , that I just found out likes me from his best friend which me and his best friend are good friends. Him and I are like Best Guy and Gal friends(is what we call ourselves) He talks to me as if we're just friends but his best guy friend says that he talks about me all the time. Do I go and talk to him or do I stay to myself until he brings it up? Thanks for your time answering this question:))Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?
    I would go up and talk to him first...


    cuz sometimes they chicken out n evrythin.





    good luck:)





    will u answer mine!??


    pleasee??





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtrbgNflWZgUDQFpFX2BpwXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090519163624AAp3kP2Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?
    Are you going to tell him you're not romantically interested? If you're not, you're better off just playing it cool. If he does make any moves, then tell him you're not interested. You have a good friendship for now. Most guys always want to sleep with a pretty woman even if it's his best friend. But if she's not into him, he's okay with just being friends. If you're into him, duh. Tell him. Kiss him. Date him. Give each other rings and walk hand in hand in the park.
    You just said you talk to him??Actually you said,';he talks to you as if....'; Do you mean he has been talking to you and you don't talk back, you just listen, then walk away and think about it? If you two are talking to each other and like each other, one of you will have to bring up the subject eventually.
    That all depends on whether or not you like him too. If you do, go for it. Just be like ';I heard you like me and I want you to know I like you too.'; If you don't like him, then just play it cool. If he's going to pursue it, he'll bring it up. If he's not going to, then don't sweat it.
    Go talk to him!!!!! If you think that it could work out then tell him that so and so told you!! Go for it! Trust me, everything will fall into place!!!








    Seriously, its the 21st century, guys dont ask the girls out anymore, its usually the other way around!!!
    well, if you wanna date him, i would advise you to bring it up. if not, i would wait it out and see if he takes the chance.
    maybe try and bring it up casually like ';hey i think your nice and would make a sweet boyfriend'; stuff like that. if you drop little hints that you like him then maybe he feel more comfortable around you.
    Just be yourself and decide at the moment of doing it. That does not help much but all depends on the moment. If it comes along, the right moment, go for it, if it does not just wait till it does.
    I mean if your not a shy person then why not talk to him about it it seems that you like him to so hey why not give it a shoot it doesn't hurt to try.
    Give him the opening to bring it up. If he takes to long you bring it up, you don't want to wait to long and miss your chance.
    just be normal.. dont bring it up. either his friend told u and he wasnt supposed to or he is lying and u will make a fool of yourself. just dont do anything until he is ready. and don't let it ruin your friendship :)
    if you like him and you know he likes you and you guys are really close and can talk about anything, then you should be able to talk to him yourself. just text him or something.





    i'd go for it.
    if your sure he likes you then go up and ask him yourself just in case and if he says yes tell him to ask you out
    You should totally talk to him! It will be better for him, you know he's shy, and I bet you he would try talking to you but it will take him ALONG time.
    I say go after him! If he talks about you then I don't think there's much to lose. Besides, he may be too shy to go after you.
    well if ur paranoid and just cant stop thinking about it....just go on and let it out. Tell him what hapened and how you feel about it.
    be completely honest....if he likes it, then bliss..if he doesnt, then he doesbnt
    I would talk to him[: Do you like him? [:
    Ah - but do you like him? If you do, then tell him so!





    If not, then have the chat sooner rather than later!
    be patient.. if he doesn't bring it up in time, then i guess you go talk to him.
    go for him: )
    hey i think u should confront the person and tell them how you feel