Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Help i really need advice about this problem?

A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be my gf. I talked to my cousins (one a girl, and one a boy) about HER. They said they heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she is BEAUTIFUL and heard she has slept with so many guys already at age 15.





I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my guy cousin about a chick he says ';She's a slut right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
i would listen to your mom if she has been friends with her mom she would know better then any one and besides you said so your self that you cuz has the the habbit of saying things about a gurl and then ends up dating them even though you liked them so.......... go with your gut feeling and listen to your momHelp i really need advice about this problem?
wow ok...first off just cause someone ';heard stuff'; about someone, does not make it true its called a grapevine. and it probably got started cause someone don't like her and wanted to make her upset. and i would say trust your mom dude. but still be care-full. tell her how you feel. its obvious she ';likes'; you. BUT take it slow. don't have sex of any kind. GET TESTED. and i don't mean just her. do it with her. that will comfort her, and you will both know if your clean. and if 1 of u is dirty, and still want to be together, talk to a doctor. see what your options are. but bottom line.... don't believe every think you hear. cause now days its all ';he said, she said'; ask her directly after you have been seeing her for a while. and get tested. hope this helps and good luck.





P.s better safe, than sorry.
Never believe rumors. Always find out the truth. Talk to the girl and get to know her then make assumptions for yourself. Your cousins are just jealous probably. Listen to your mother!

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