Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?

I'm 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat, and i'm a virgin still, but im now in shape and get a lot attention from girls now. Even dough my appearance has changed i will always respect girls, and always treat them right. I met a girl who is 24 and she has a 2 y/o girl, and she's divorced but the baby's dad still comes to visit the daughter... (I think there might be baby daddy problems here)








Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20 (I lied because i'm into older women because they are matured), and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
You getting too seriously involved with a woman who has a child already. I know your a virgin and all of this is new to you. I suggest you start slow. Get with a woman that is very similar. You have no idea about the amount of drama a baby's daddy can bring along, especially when this is your first relationship.


You already started things off wrong, by lying to her about your age. Get out now before things get serious and you will find others.Help i need quick advice on this problem i got?
Well since you are a V it could be a problem later one because we tent to not let go to the person we lost out V too. it gets emotional and well she has a kid and your young there are women out there with out the baggage, and if you see baby daddy drama its probably there. i would say keep looking
for one tell her the truth NOW and do u want to deal with baby daddy issues ? A women with a baby and a ex is one thing BUT when there is problems then u dont want to go there
well if ur gonna keep seeing her u need to come clean b/c if she finds out another way she'll be upset and part of ';respecting'; women is telling the truth.... if u wonna keep her around u need to tell her the truth.
you're young stay away from all the drama. if you want to keep seeing her you need to tell her your real age.
Lieing is never a good way to start a relationship. Be honest, she'll find out eventually.
Tell her your real age and see what happens. You should not start relationships off with lies.
stay away from drama*
Enjoy stroking her, BUT i stress don't get her pregnant or marry the girl. She got alot of baggage that a single man doesn't need. Your will make your like hard if you do. Then you will have baggage too. The state will come after you for child support for years. An you may even end up in jail if you fail to pay. You will find a single no child women your age. Try losing weight and learn to pick up women. It an art form that must be learn if you don't have it. Good luck man. Read about men rights in home. There are none for men. The state throws out men from the home, family, money. An the women just goes with another male. Remember that!!!

LADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?

there is this group of guys (5 kids) in my high school that i used to go to. they popular because there a good looking.but there are boring. because they like compliment each other ( not in a gay way)and make stupid jokes.the funny thing is ,5 of them know each other since elementary .one of the guy in the group use to be close with me, know we are all in college,my ';used'; to be close friends,ditch me..one time when we are suppose to me at this Coffee place,he totally stood me up,and give me a text msg saying ';he need to accompany his mom to go some where,and he says he will me when he is available.after few months, when i am on face book ,i saw his pic going out with his friends(that i mention earlier) on a road trip and another several more photo album with his ';friends'; like in starbucks and stuff.. matter affect he is my ONLY guy friend that im close too


he could just give me a call and ask me if he want to go hang out with them.is not that i want so badly to be friends with him,but i feel disappointed,i know im not cool as ';them';..








my question is should :


1)i call him and arrange to meet up with him?( i never meet for over 1 year)





2)should i just move on ..after all who needs high school friends when you have alot more college friends.is this true?





3) if i ignore him,he will think that i did not take effort to contact him( actually i think he the one should call me,cause he ditch me )





4)is my personality drives him away (im cheerful,friendly,loud,clutz)LADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?
I KNOW U OUT DAR BRIAN


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091121134719AAkS83G%26amp;r=wLADIES AND MEN,need advice for friendship problem..headache!?
1. Yeah, if you wanna continue that friendship


2. Move on and make new friends. He doesnt seem like a friend too you


3. Maybe just say sorry?


4. Haha, no. Im friendly and a clutz.
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  • I need serious medical advice on a problem with psoriasis?

    I am 25 years old and have been breaking out with rashes for over a year now. Last year, I suddenly started breaking out in rashes under my armpits, between my legs, and where my arms fold (other side of elbow). I have been tested for diabetes, AIDS, cancer, lyme disease..... (about forty blood tests in all....I have good insurance) Well, they finally did a biopsy on my skin---when a rash popped up---and said I have psoriasis, but not the plaque kind. My dermatologist is clueless to this biopsy and says my rashes are not associated with psoriasis. He actually says some people go through weird stages for sometimes a few years where this happens---me breaking out with rashes because of sweat. Anyway, it's tough when I've been healty my whole life yet can now barely be outside for five minutes without having a rash appear. Please, anyone help me. Have you ever heard of this before?I need serious medical advice on a problem with psoriasis?
    Not sure this will help you but scabies is a possibility. You should check between your toes and the folds/webbing between your fingers too. Pictures can be found by simply checking with google.





    http://www.medicinenet.com/scabies/article.htm. This is caused by a mite and this condition was suggested to me by a infectious disease doctor upon returning from India. Your dermatologist should be able to isolate. You don't mention whether this condition itches or not, if scabies it would itch horribly. I have never heard of psoriasis between your legs but to me this is highly indicative of scabies.





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    I need advice on my menses problem?

    Hi,i am 28yrs old %26amp; hve PCOS. My period had been regular for the past 3months.I am on it now on the 3rd cycle..The problem is my period have been going on for 12days now %26amp; there were lots of blood clots as huge as a pingpong ball on the 4th day %26amp; on the 11day i had blood clots again the size of a 10cent coin.Is this because my system is clearing up or something is not rite..? please help..I need advice on my menses problem?
    what u say that ovulution is the problem. nothing else, be calm and go to your family doc and consult her. it is okI need advice on my menses problem?
    hi asker,





    its not a healthy thing for you, as such a heavy blood loss from your body can make you severely anaemic. blood clots is not at all a healthy sign. and please, i don't mean to scare you but making you aware of your misinterpretation.





    an easy blood flow is a healthy sign but blood clots, an absolute no no!





    try to drink hot drinks and avoid cold and spicy things during your menses.





    take care

    Help i really need advice about this problem?

    A girl who lives next to me likes me (I don't know her but i'd like to get to know her). She tells my MOM i'm cute, and she wants to be with me. I talked to my 2 cousins about HER. They said they have heard she's DIRTY, and say she's ';UGLY'; when she's clearly not and has already slept with so many guys already at age 15.





    I talked to my mom about it, and she said that's BS that my cousins say and that the girls parents are extremely strict with her and rarely let her out which is TRUE. The thing is every time i talk to my cousin about a chick he says ';She's a **** right away';. One time he was saying this about a girl so i'd had to let her go, next thing i know he's going out with her!.





    Who would you believe your mom who's been good friends with the girls mom over 6 years or both of your cousins who have ';HEARD'; stuff?Help i really need advice about this problem?
    first of all, your cousin is somehow jealous of you and does not want to see you happy. you need to either stop talking to him about your personal life or totally get away from him. apparently, getting away from him is the best thing you can do. think about this, you finally get a girlfriend, he gets jealous and tries to take revenge on you by saying bad stuff about you to the girl.Help i really need advice about this problem?
    Believe your mom, Dude. Your mom obviously has first hand knowledge about this girl, where are your cousin, like you said, has just heard stuff. I mean, look at how he already turned on you once with that other chick. How do you know he's not trying to pull the same stunt? Believe the person who will always care about you, no matter what.
    I would believe you mom


    because if you cant believe your mum who can believe?


    Also just cause your cousins''heard'' this stuff doesn't mean it is true okay, you cant believe everything you hear and by the sounds of it your cousins should not believe what they hear.


    It also matters what you want to do as well .


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    If I was u I will believe myself and what I see on her, not getting in relation with her is totally a stupid idea, you should start knowing her and by time you will know her better than anyone, I think my advice to you is don鈥檛 trust what other says take it on consideration but make your one opinion apart of what they say.
    theyre just saying that so you'll leave the girl alone and they can go out with her, go out with whoever you want to
    You gotta expect she hasn't slept around and give her the benefit of the doubt, but before a serious relationship ever develops, you have to ask her directly. You can go on a couple dates while ';throwing off'; any ';comments'; your cousins might say. See if she really appears to be a good or bad person. Also, you never want to get into a relationship where you start off extremely suspicious of the person, it can damage relationships with lots of other people (your friends that may be her friend as well). Good luck dude.

    I need help and advice on this problem?

    Okay so basicaly my x boyfreind who was my best freind dated me for like 4 days kissed me on halloween . By the way were 14 -.- anyways we broke up in the end of september. Then when well lets say we did a little bit more than kissing like intimate stuff. Also he's cheating on his girlfreind with me. Also then my freinds start telling me that he told them and a bunch of people of what we did. I dont know wat to do if i should keep doing intimate stuff with him or wat, cuz i know he would probably tell them . Then my freind tells me that the guy still likes me. Then the guy tells me he only told one person. I like him to though and I would like to keep doing stuff with him . Im just asking wat do u think would be the best way to handle this.I need help and advice on this problem?
    Ask yourself this question, if something exciting was happening in my life you would obviously tell people not just your best frined but some other people. This may be hard to hear but even though he's doing ';things'; with you, no matter what you will always be second best to his girlfriend and if she found out he would have to choose her over you. You also need to relize that when his girlfriend finds out about what you guys have done she might try to fight you. You also need to look at the reputation your gonna have when the little secret gets out. when people find out, your reputation will be ';the girl that gets with other girl's dudes'; and every girl will dislike you because of what you have done in your past and your reputation stays with you forever. What if you were in that other girl's shoes? payback is a ***** and what you do with him will always come back and bit you in the ***. I hope this could help you though :)I need help and advice on this problem?
    Someone who really cares about you would only want to be with you and not share details with others. It's really that simple! It's easy to make excuses for other people why they do what they do. And it's probably easy to stay with him because he makes you feel good about yourself. But you should never make a decision because it's the easiest. Start demanding respect for yourself (like telling him what you expect: honesty, loyalty, etc) then he will have to decide whether or not he wants to be with you. And if he won't agree, then don't give in and find someone sweet and kind.
    well you should ask him to breakup with his girlfriend and if he does he want to be with you , and your 14 have fun be carefull of dezezes and youl probably have our heart broke a few time before you meet the right one, my advise to you , is be happy , respect others, and mostly make sure your respected
    this is something you truly and only should answer for yourself. What do you believe in, what are your morals and what do you really want out of life. if your fine with having sex with him(or whatever intimate things you did lol) then continue. This is your decision and his. of course always have safe sex and get checked for anything. do not let others say that your too young or your not ready for this kind of thing. just stay away from drama as much as possible. good luck n god bless.
    1st of all, 14 is way too young to be doing ';intimate stuff';, especially when the guy has a girlfriend. I think what would be best is telling him that if he really wants to be with you, he has to break up with his current girlfriend. AND take things slower.
    the media is getting through to minors, we ned to put an end to this NOW. You should be out riding ur bike, shopping, oing stuff a 14 year old SHOULD do, not ';LOVE'; My God i hate it when minors say they ';LOVE'; eachother and they dont even know wat LOVE is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You just need to have a talk with him.


    Say that you like him but by him telling his friends, he disrespected you.


    And if he wants to continue seeing you, he needs to keep things between just you too.
    You are his booty call. he just wants you to for sex. He already has a girlfriend. He will never be able to have a relationship with you because he can not be trusted, hes a cheater. So all you got going is his sex.
    You are way too young to be doing anything intimate. First of all, don't be the other girlfriend, you deserve to be the ONE AND ONLY girl in his life. have more respect for yourself.
    you shouldnt be hurting this other girl that he is dating, tell him to commit to you and only you or that girl and only that girl
    First of all, ask him to break up with his girlfriend if you must be with him. Second of all, it'd hurt his reputation too if he told. Third of all, I advise you not to be too intimate.
    If he's telling people things that should be kept behind closed doors, don't trust him. He's going to make you look like a slut and give you a bad reputation. Go find someone else to ';experiment'; with.
    get him back. appearently he like u and prolly does more stuff with u then his gf. just say ur not gonna do stuff with him if he has a gf and that u still like him
    this is way too complicated for a 14 year old's life.
    you're a booty call for him. there's just one thing he wants (you know what it is)
    wow what a life you have
    if ur 14 dont go beyond kissing and lay off he has a gf
    I'm fourteen, too, and I have been in the same situation. Its tough deciding whats right, but I did, and It was a great choice. I asked my friends what i should do, and In the end i listened to what my heart said to do. I know it sounds like it came from a movie, but it's true, and it helped me a lot. I hope this helped you too.


    And for the person down there that said it's too complicated for a fourteen year old's life, then you need to think about when you were fourteen, and remember that times have changed. This girl asked for help, and all you can give her is 'This is to complicated for a fourteen year old's life'... come on, get real. Anyways,, i hope this helped(:

    Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?

    Hey World. I am krazykat0506 a.k.a. Taylor Allison. There is this boy , that I just found out likes me from his best friend which me and his best friend are good friends. Him and I are like Best Guy and Gal friends(is what we call ourselves) He talks to me as if we're just friends but his best guy friend says that he talks about me all the time. Do I go and talk to him or do I stay to myself until he brings it up? Thanks for your time answering this question:))Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?
    I would go up and talk to him first...


    cuz sometimes they chicken out n evrythin.





    good luck:)





    will u answer mine!??


    pleasee??





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtrbgNflWZgUDQFpFX2BpwXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090519163624AAp3kP2Do you have any advice for the problem I am having? If you do, please help me(:?
    Are you going to tell him you're not romantically interested? If you're not, you're better off just playing it cool. If he does make any moves, then tell him you're not interested. You have a good friendship for now. Most guys always want to sleep with a pretty woman even if it's his best friend. But if she's not into him, he's okay with just being friends. If you're into him, duh. Tell him. Kiss him. Date him. Give each other rings and walk hand in hand in the park.
    You just said you talk to him??Actually you said,';he talks to you as if....'; Do you mean he has been talking to you and you don't talk back, you just listen, then walk away and think about it? If you two are talking to each other and like each other, one of you will have to bring up the subject eventually.
    That all depends on whether or not you like him too. If you do, go for it. Just be like ';I heard you like me and I want you to know I like you too.'; If you don't like him, then just play it cool. If he's going to pursue it, he'll bring it up. If he's not going to, then don't sweat it.
    Go talk to him!!!!! If you think that it could work out then tell him that so and so told you!! Go for it! Trust me, everything will fall into place!!!








    Seriously, its the 21st century, guys dont ask the girls out anymore, its usually the other way around!!!
    well, if you wanna date him, i would advise you to bring it up. if not, i would wait it out and see if he takes the chance.
    maybe try and bring it up casually like ';hey i think your nice and would make a sweet boyfriend'; stuff like that. if you drop little hints that you like him then maybe he feel more comfortable around you.
    Just be yourself and decide at the moment of doing it. That does not help much but all depends on the moment. If it comes along, the right moment, go for it, if it does not just wait till it does.
    I mean if your not a shy person then why not talk to him about it it seems that you like him to so hey why not give it a shoot it doesn't hurt to try.
    Give him the opening to bring it up. If he takes to long you bring it up, you don't want to wait to long and miss your chance.
    just be normal.. dont bring it up. either his friend told u and he wasnt supposed to or he is lying and u will make a fool of yourself. just dont do anything until he is ready. and don't let it ruin your friendship :)
    if you like him and you know he likes you and you guys are really close and can talk about anything, then you should be able to talk to him yourself. just text him or something.





    i'd go for it.
    if your sure he likes you then go up and ask him yourself just in case and if he says yes tell him to ask you out
    You should totally talk to him! It will be better for him, you know he's shy, and I bet you he would try talking to you but it will take him ALONG time.
    I say go after him! If he talks about you then I don't think there's much to lose. Besides, he may be too shy to go after you.
    well if ur paranoid and just cant stop thinking about it....just go on and let it out. Tell him what hapened and how you feel about it.
    be completely honest....if he likes it, then bliss..if he doesnt, then he doesbnt
    I would talk to him[: Do you like him? [:
    Ah - but do you like him? If you do, then tell him so!





    If not, then have the chat sooner rather than later!
    be patient.. if he doesn't bring it up in time, then i guess you go talk to him.
    go for him: )
    hey i think u should confront the person and tell them how you feel