Can you give some advice about my problem? I don't know what to do?

I had a friend of mine,who was a an illegal immigrant here for about 8years,He had a business,a drivers license(expired),and w/ bank account,I know him for only a year but when he know that I have papers from my husband, he started to convince me to divorced my ex-husband becoz at that time I was separated from him for 5 years but this guy,my friend was also married here ...you know he started to finance all my requirement to be a citizen ,finally my oath taking will be on next month, my problem was ,I don't feel like it to marry him just for the papers ,,I ashamed to tell him that this is not right! It will destroy my dignity and reputation pls tell me what to say about this guy???? Thank you!!!Can you give some advice about my problem? I don't know what to do?
send him aletter saying sorry find another sucker!!!Can you give some advice about my problem? I don't know what to do?
You should definately marry for love not just papers. I think there are others ways for you to become a citizen but you being unhappy should not be one of them. I think you should just tell him how you feel. If he loves you and i mean truly loves you he will understand. I pray all goes well for you and the best of luck.
I don't know what to tell him, but I agree, it's not right.





And besides, what if you meet ';The One'; later down the path?

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Can anyone give me advice on a problem with an ex?

i havent spoke to my ex for 2 days now, and i have asked other questions, but he says he is scared of losing me? i dont know why? why is this? we are both first loves and were together 18 months, he likes someone else but doesnt want hurt me. does he really know what he wants? i asked him the other day if he prefers being friends and he said NO. i thought when you break up with someone your ment be 100% sure. is he though? im sick of worrying about it though. tomorrow onwards im away in birmingham doing a placement, so this will help occupy my mind. if you were me what would you do? its been 4 months since we broke up, i dont what hes thinking, but to say i dont want lose you i dont get it?? please help, and if you can push me in the right direction great!!!! does he need to lose me to know what its like. we have never had no contact for a long period of time, would this help? i still love him, and want another chance but he turns round and says i cant waste my time. but he wants me there on the back burner. help please!!Can anyone give me advice on a problem with an ex?
Hello there,





About a year ago my ex broke up with me, claiming he liked someone else but he still wanted to talk with me as a friend. So I kept talking to him and just that he broke up with me was heart-broking at that time. Why? Well, because I thought I loved him. But now I realize I didn't.. After some months still having contact with him I made a decision and decided not to ever write him again, even though I still felt smth for him. After I lost contact with him I realized I was better off without him. And he even wrote me and started being like a girl which made me laugh and happy. Because I didn't need him. I didn't love him. Suddently everything I felt before was a big joke to me.





My point is that a guy who says he likes someone else but still acts like he cares abt you is a jerk. He doesn't care about you only about himself and his sexual needs.. Trust me.. Guys are jerks.. Most of them.. So just loose contact with him and don't ever talk to him again.. I never replied to my ex's message either.. He kept asking my friend what happened to me and stuff.. But I didn't care anymore.. And this summer he even tried to get my phone number .. So yes they come running back like DOGS... But it's too late.. You can find better than that ! I assure you that..





Good luck,


- TinaCan anyone give me advice on a problem with an ex?
It sounds to me like he is playing mind games with you. Don't let him do this, where is your self respect? Find another guy who is more sure of himself and secure and does not need to keep you dangling on a string.





Either he wants you or he doesn't. Don't ever settle for second best. Don't let guys treat you badly. You are a special person. Get a guy who appreciates that. :-)
Hi Lauz,





Sounds like he wanting to keep you simmering in case he wants you back in due course. Get yourself some space and let him see that you are not desperate for him. If you back off its likely he will chase you, but if you take him back let him know that youare not a substitute for anyone.





Good luck and kind regards,





Jon
hey do not let men treat u like a bunch of an item that they can use anytme and discard anytime .since he had decieded to call it quit then let it be .he should go and go with his emotion.thank god u are travelling .travel and forget about him and move on with ur life ,he is not the only guy on earth .

I have this small problem and Im wondering if you can help me fixed it or some advice?

I have this female friend and we really like each other, in fact our chemistry is great! therefore, I invited her to go socialize somewhere. So far, its fun and enjoyable!





YaY! :P





Next, few days ago, I suprised her by inviting her to go with me to San Diego in California, which is tomorrow for the whole day. :-D. However, I have a funny feeling that she really interesting in me but I really cant tell if she is or not. Hence, I never had a true girlfriend nor had my first kiss. I really like her but I wanted to be prepared from her. What should I do? Or What my next move? (Obviously, I never made out with a girl in my life and is there anything that I can be prepare to make my ';first made out session'; successful? Like what do I need to have or how do you do it (if you have done this before, that is?)





Oh and another thing, I lived in Los Angeles all of my life (really expenisve place to live!) and I always wanted to have a wonderful true girlfriend and I predicted she (my female friend) might be mine. I would be more than happy to have her, but Im starting to be realistic that being in a relationship is very expensive and I dont think I would be fiancially responsible despite living in Los Angeles and insufficent funds from my paycheck :(. So what I would like to know is am I going to have a wonderful relationship from the begining?





Thank you for your time to read this, I TRULY appreciated it!





I am 19 years old and my female friend is a little bit older than me (24 to be exact) but that does not make any difference to us, believe me.I have this small problem and Im wondering if you can help me fixed it or some advice?
Well if she goes with you then she likes you that much. To make out with her I would just, sitting there talking, slowly lean in and kiss. Then back of for a second and see how she reacts, then if good, keep going. Dont worry about if its a good kiss or not.I have this small problem and Im wondering if you can help me fixed it or some advice?
Relax, all will work out in the end. Most people worry about finances and such. Just be smart about saving, work extra hours, and find neat things to do that don't cost much. As for the first make out session...relax and don't force it.

Please help, adult advice on teenage problem? :(?

hi, alright so this is the story:


im 16 years old, junior in highschol, gets good grades, and still a virgin, most of my friends arent virgins and they always make fun of me for being a virgin but dont worry, i dont get fooled. i WANT to wait til marriage and i WILL wait till marriage regards to whatever they say.


couple days ago, as a joke, my friend (as a joke) typed this funny ';contract';that says ';I, (MY NAME) WILL LOSE MY VIRGINTY'; when i sign that i agreed to lose my virginity before senior year, we all laughed about it (i dont take it personally) and they all faked my signature on it and so on.. so after all the laughing and joking around, like friends do, i kept the piece of paper with me so no one would find it, i put it in my purse so id throw it away at home, but i seemed to forgot and my mom (behind my back) looked through my purse and found that paper. now, i have two older sisters (18 and 20) and they both live with us and she showed them it. so when i came home after school, i walked in the door, my 18 yr old sister calls me a **** and gives me a dirty looks, i didnt think anything of it as we dont get along, so i just went upstairs to my room and my 20 yr old sister opens my door and calls me a whore. and leaves. then my mom comes in, and she told me she found this in my purse (the contract) i decided to tell her the truth that all kids tease me and it was just a joke between my friends and she should know better that i wont do that.


but the thing that hurt me the most was that she showed two of my sisters (there planning on telling my dad) before she confronted me. i never had a good relationship with my mom or sisters because im just different, im more mellow and easy going and gets along with anyone, while there full of drama and are the biggest racist people you will ever meet.


im really sorry if this is long, but i dont have anyone to talk to, and there is no way i will ever talk to my mom about anything again as it seems that i cant trust her :/ help. is it my fault? what do i do?Please help, adult advice on teenage problem? :(?
awww, I feel so bad for you. First of all, I'm proud of you wanting to wait til marriage-I do as well. All this is definitely not your fault. You were honest with your mom, so she should be able to forget about it and move on. Your siblings seem really unsupportive. They didn't even talk to you about it, they just called you names. Also, look at it as a good thing that you are different from the rest of your family. It's good you realize their mistakes and that you wanna be your own person. It seems like you are a really good person. In the end, it doesn't matter what your dad and mom will think of the note. As long as you know, in your heart, what your intentions were, nothing else matters. Your opinion is the most important, and it seems like you know where you stand. I congratulate you! Just be honest with your parents, and it will all work out. I hope this helped! :)Please help, adult advice on teenage problem? :(?
Just tell them to **** off. That it is your body and you'll do what you want. It doesn't matter what they think as long as your safe.
wow





well first off. be yourself


ignore your friends and what they choose to do





dont treat them any different for the decisions they make





and maybe one day they will grow up and be as smart and as mature as you one day





and if that never happens friends come and go





your family





ouch





yeah family can hurt





what is said is said





you told the truth and you are aware of your own thoughts and ideas





continue what you believe is right and be yourself





i have a good friend of mine





who grew up with a racist family





hes a bright man. very smart





hes about 36





when he was 23ish





he changed his name so he didnt have to associate with them and their ways











do your thing and be yourself
first of all be yourself stay a virgin heck im 13 and all my friends are doing it but im not and they do tease me but they also regret doing it especially the pregnant ones or the ones that have HIV don't do it until you're ready








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I need some advice about a problem?

I'm having second thoughts about being in my college's marching band. I just don't really feel enthused about it and don't know if i really want to devote my time to it. i'm just worried about messing up the drill by leaving. I have a limited amount of time to decide,by Thursday actually. I like music and playing the trumpet,but just don't know if i want to continue marching,what should i do? I need some advice about a problem?
I think that if you're having second thoughts about it you should leave. I mean if you're not exciting already then why do it? Besides, you could always join another club! I'm sure there's something you could find that interests you.





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I need some advice for this problem with my Boyfriend?

Okay so where should I start off . My boyfriend and I have been bestfriends for almost 2 years so far . He knows basially everything about me and all my little dark secrets . We just got together like 1 month ago though . Well anyways i have a problem, well DUH 'cause your reading this . Hahahs .








So anyway this is where the problem starts he just recently became real close to this one guy who now he calls his bestfriend . They have all classes together, like all the same things, %26amp; etc. They hang out basically EVERYDAY . School and even out of school ! I mean I get that it's his bestfriend and all but it's just like i'm the one feeling left out . Like you know how when a person hangs out with a couple they feel like the third wheel ? No not for me, whenever me, my boyfriend, and his bestfriend hang out i'm basically the third wheel 'cause they talk about things they know about and like there little insiders . I mean yeah i know, ';Bros before Hoes'; but this is really too much . I mean just recently when my boyfriend and i, just us, were hanging out he was saying ';I miss[his bestfriend]'; and like i was just quiet . And him %26amp; i just kept walking and he just said it again like ';Man, I really miss [his bestfriend] . And like in my head i'm like WTF, i know ! Who cares ! And other times he'd be like, ';Have you seen [his bestfriend]';, ';I hope [his bestfriend] is coming today';, and other things like that . Or he'll like tell me like a certain funny kind of have-to-be-there moment between them . It's just really irritating ! Is it just me thinking this is way out of line ? Or I shouldn't be worrying ?








%26amp; Now recently his bestfriend is trying to get with this girl . So his bestfriend is now just hanging with that girl and my boyfriend is somewhat alone . In my head i'm like ';HAHA, get a taste of your own medicine'; but like ugh, i have no clue . I would talk to him about it, but i mean i know he'll flip out . I mean who wouldn't if your girlfriend or boyfriend came out saying ';you hang with so and so too much'; . I am not a clingy, nagging, or whatever kind of girlfriend . I don't even show i'm mad when he does stuff like this, sometimes . But yeah, I never complain !








So yeaah, ADVICE is really really needed right now .


So please send something !








%26amp;P.S,


MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT GAY . SO DON'T EVEN THINK THAT . HAHA, WHENEVER I TOLD MY FRIENDS ABOUT IT THERE LIKE ';OMG THERE LIKE BOYFRIENDS'; . BUT NO ! I KNOW FOR A FACT MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT GAY, HE IS 100% STRAIGHT .I need some advice for this problem with my Boyfriend?
Well you could ignore it and hope that his bestfriend gets with that girl and then he would spend all his time with her then ud get your bf back but i'd suggest that you need to talk 2 your bf if you 2 are bestfriends he will understand what your saying, don't have a rant just ask if you and him can spend some time together, go bowling, cinema etc. If he doesn't understand then he's not worth being with sorry but i'm sure he will totally understand.


PS this happened with me and my bf when we 1st got together so I know how it feels just talk 2 him like i did and now weve been together 3 years. :) Good Luck Hun xI need some advice for this problem with my Boyfriend?
it'll probably just be a phase, i'd tell him how you feel though. if you dont tell him, he clearly wont know theres a problem. dont have a go at him, just say that you miss seeing him.
Hi,


One is definitely tempted tof believe that he is gay! However, you have dispelled that opinion. My candid advise is that you should have a candid heart-to-heart talk with him. He probably is unaware that he is hurting you. I hope you live happily ever after
Sounds to me like he needs to get his priorities straight. Your girl should always come first. Talk to him about it. If there's one thing that guys are terrible at, it's guessing what a girl is thinking. I would know.
Boys aint normally that way.I mean i too hav many guy frndz but they've never showed more interest in going out wid a guy than a gal.Now as u r saying he is not a gay,we'll hav 2 cut that option off.


It might be possible that your boyfrnd is sharing somthn ....somthng very secretive [relaed 2 boiz] 2 his frnd...n so has get along wid him more nicely...or maybe he is just tryna check you or somthng...or maybe he really takes that guy as his best frnd...


At this situation i think u must go upto him...n clear everything once and for all...its no use keeping everything 2 urself ...have d guts 2 speak up your mind.but watever u say,make it in the sweetest way possible...


u really need best wishes!!!


BEST OF LUCK!!!

Can anyone give advice on gynaelogical problem?

I had a miscarriage two years ago, it was incomplete but I didn't have a D%26amp;C they waited for the pregnancy levels to go down.





Since then I have been sick in all kinds of ways. My heartbeat is irregular and I can feel it in my neck all the time. I am vomitting often.





I was getting bleeding between periods and after sex but now I'm getting very very bad periods. I get a tearing pain rather than a cramping pain, and this time (this week) there is some tissue like when I was miscarrying as well as clotting.





I am seeing a gynae on monday but I'm not sure what is happening right now. They can't see on scans because my womb is tilted backwards but I have a bulky uterus lining. They saw bits of tissue when they scanned me internally but they never scanned again.





What could be wrong? I am getting quite unwell.Can anyone give advice on gynaelogical problem?
check for endometriosis or scarring of uterus! good luck : )

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