Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?

i like this girl who i am good friends with. we are both juniors in highschool. the problem is, she has a boyfriend and she really likes him, but i know for a fact i like and appreciate her more than he does. i just want to find a way to either be with her, to clear my chest, or to just get over these feelings completly. I just want this wonderful girl in my life without screwing something up. please help.Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
that is tough once you have already established a friendly relationship with a girl. you got to jump into it as if you want to dater her right away.. best you can do is try to let her know you are interested but be subtle about it.. flirt with her just a little and give her compliments.. like wow you sure look nice today.. and pay attention to her body language, you can tell a lot from that..





just give it your best shot while bieing some what suttle but not to suttle, that is probably your best bet unles you really feel the need to just be like hey this is the deal.. and see what happens.. but remember this you kever know till you try.. but maybee try the flirting and compliments.. and if she starts flirting back and all that than tell her the deal..Girls i need your advice on a big problem i have please!!!?
since u said please... if u think something is rong with this girlz bf talk 2 her about it, if she is trying to get out of the relationship-HELP HER, dont try 2 get over the feelingz 4her, she obviously likes u back!!!
whatever you do dont pressure her into leaving her boyfriend. if things dont work out between you two she'll blame you. tell her how you feel but you respect she has a boyfriend. you never know she may eventually leave him and look for you.
Don't get involved in a relationship. Just wait til she is free. Otherwise you would be like kind of a junior homewrecker.
Stay friends with her until she dumps her boyfriend. You might ask her to go with you to grab a shake or a soda. If she says OK then you might tell her that you really like her and see what she has to say.


Good luck.
tell he how you feel and let the desion be hers!!!!!!!!!!
If she thinks of you as a friend and she has a boyfriend, then I wouldn't say anything for the time being. Just be her friend and be happy for her right now..because if you try to break up her and her boyfriend she could get mad at you. There really isn't anything you can do, just be happy as friends.
r u a lesbo?
Do nothing Peter...If she breaks up with him, that is different...
Thats a tuff one... I would*if i were you* put an annomonous note in her locker saying how you feel... and put maybe a rose or some really pretty flower in her locker too... but if you have guts.. then write your name at the bottom of the note or just tell her to her face how you feel...
Well, I believe that close friends are better than a boy/girlfriend. You should wait it out. Don't pressure her into anything. And if you truly feel that he's not the right one, then you should tell her.


It's not your decision to choose who she goes out with. But if there's a way to change her mind, go ahead.
Eventually she will find out what you already know and then things will look up for you. In the mean time, be there for her...especially in an emergency or when she needs emotional support. Make her laugh sometimes (girls love that). If it is meant to be it will come about.
Just tell her how wonderful she is and how losing her would be devastating to you.


She probably already nose that you're pretty wonderful too.


Now it's up to you to figure out the best way to handle the situation.


Saying nice things is not my strong point.
awww thats so sweet!


it will be harder trying to get over it so i suggest that you just come clean and tell her how you feel.,


if she tells you that she loves her bf and isnt interested in you in that way, then you can still be good friends with her but it will be easier to get over her... if that makes ne sense!


good luck
ok i say back off and move on or sit and wait. cause if you say enything to ';clear your chest'; you will prolly make things awkward with her and her boyfriend will hate you adn prolly kill you. dude just put yourself in his shoes. if she was your girl would you want some guy hitting on your girl just because he thinks he deservs her more..... ya didnt think so. u dont really know wat they have going. this could be one of her great loves. dont ruin it for both of them. dont be that selfish. u can always come back to her later.

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