I want to help my guy friend out with a girl problem, any advice?

so i don't know the whole story, but my guy friend likes this girl chloe he went to high school with (they're in college now). but he just got out of a serious relationship over the summer (it was his first love, his ex broke his heart...). i think that chloe MIGHT like him too but doesn't know for sure. so i asked him about it as a private message on facebook. fyi, his ';facebook status'; was: i'm a bit sad...i am who i am, love me or leave me


me: are you ok? your status thing popped up in the news feed, you don't sound very happy?


him: Im ok haha, people just piss me off. And a girl is making me sad. lol


me: ohh i'm sorry, if you want to talk about it, you know you can :)


either way i hope things work out for you


him: haha i know thanks, but theres nothing really much to say. Me and her both dont know where we are emotionally right now amd its just making a sad situation.





what do i say to him? what's your advice for 2 people who are in the situation he's facing? thanksI want to help my guy friend out with a girl problem, any advice?
Ask him if he would like any advice, but if he says no don't ask him again. Most of the time when people are sad they just want someone to sympathize with them and chat, not to tell them what to do. If you think another girl likes him, now isn't a good time to try to hook him up, since he just got out of a serious relationship. Even if he asked about finding another girl, I'd give it some time because a girl who hooks up with him soon after will be cheated out of a good relationship if his mind is still on his ex. Not much you can do on this one but sit back and show support.I want to help my guy friend out with a girl problem, any advice?
When it comes to matters of the heart, for friends, the best thing you could do is to just mind your own business. Even if your opinion is sought, keep it kind of low key, because in the end, hopefully you will still be his friend, even if he stays with the girl or not. God Bless.
It sounds good that you want to help your friend, but normally these type of misunderstandings occur between the people whom they think they are in love with other. Sometimes things doesn't go according to our thinking or tune, at that juncture we feel that something is going to happen seriously. These all arrive only if you are not open to your partner, i suggest you if your friend asks you for a solution, tell him that be open and frank to his partner which clears all misunderstandings and also helps him in building a good and strong relationship with his girl. Precisely, lack of communication will create all these scenes and also strongly suggest him if he has done any mischief thing which hurted her, ask her apology with no second thought. Ego never solves misunderstandings. If he is really interested in her, ask him to adopt above things. I wish all success to both of them.
To be honest, it doesn't sound like he's asking for advice. He probably really appreciates that you're there for him if he wants to chat.