Tuesday, July 27, 2010

What do i do about my friends problem?NEED ADVICE?

my friend, ive know her for like everrr, but we used to hang out a lot but we have the ocassional hi or conversations at church.The other day i found out that my sisters best friend,whos also in a class with her had saw that when she rolled up her sleeves there were cuts.Shes pretty sure they were cuts and i dont doubt she did do it because shes been having problems wih her parents and im pretty sure she said she though about doing it once a realllllllly long time ago-maybe more than 2 years.Its not that shell feel weird if i talk to her,its just i dont know what to say.I have no idea where to start and what to tell her to encourage her to stop.What do i do about my friends problem?NEED ADVICE?
Pray for her. Tell her you are praying for her and that if she needs someone to talk to, you are willing to listen.What do i do about my friends problem?NEED ADVICE?
Tell her soon she will kill herself one accidental cut on her vein shes gone and lots of people are going to miss her. Talk to her but in a caring loving way dont say stop your crazy she probably needs counseling because if people judge her that s just another reason for her to get angry with you and the world and to continue cutting herself so just talk to her
Ask her to hang out, tell her that you care about her and that she can come to you to talk about anything. Honestly I would also talk to a teacher or parent about what was seen. Your friend might need professional help for her problems. Best of luck... its hard but when you really care about someone you will find a way
She wants you to bring it up, otherwise she wouldn't do it. There's a great percentage of people who attempt suicide and make a show of it, .001% of Americans actually do it. If she had the strength to do it, she would have done it by now. It's an attention gag.
Tell the school counselor or social worker !!! And go with her if you feel she needs a friend's hand of comfort !!!
the only thing you can do is always be there for her and let her know that she can come to you for anything
Remain friends with her, she eventually will open up with you. Right now you don't know what she is going through but what she needs now is YOU. Tell her how much you love her and God is for her. Heard of this... God is for us and who can be against us? Keep praying for her. She will come through.





Thank you for being her friend!
Oh hoi, ask her if she is being havings a cat to play with her or someting. Cats scratch. Don't judge them or her.
Just love her like Jesus.
JUST TALK TO HER. BUT REALLY, IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
This is called self-mutilation. It's commonly practiced by people who are or were abused; it gives them both a feeling of control over pain, and a feeling of ';getting what they deserve.';





Your friend needs therapy, and possibly medical intervention. Is it possible for you to talk to your pastor or priest (I'm not sure what denomination you are...) about this issue? That might be the best way to begin helping your friend.
If i were you i would tell her the truth. One of the worst things to do to yourself is to cut your wrists and arms and fingers. Yo. If i had advice to give out iw ould say that you need to tell your friend that you are pretty sure you know she cuts her arms. Its very gross(lol) Hope i could Help!!!!

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