So I've Got A Relationship Problem..Any Advice?

So, me %26amp;%26amp; this person have been talking for over 2 months now (talking like ';talking talking'; as in we might date.) We DO wanna be together; the person I'm talking to has said they do wanna be with me, so I'm not worried about that. My only problem is that they have not asked me to be their girlfriend yet, %26amp;%26amp; we've been talking for a good minute now. I've asked them if they wanna continue to talk through the summer, %26amp;%26amp; they said ';yeah';. But I don't know if we're ever gonna be together OFFICIALLY; so I guess what I wanna know is should I ask them straight up where we're headed. Part of me wants to ask them that, but the other part of me is scared that asking them that question might scare them away %26amp;%26amp; they might stop talking to me; %26amp;%26amp; I don't want that to happen. I know for a fact that they DO care about me %26amp;%26amp; love me %26amp;%26amp; vice-versa, but I'm afraid they won't ever ask me to be their girlfriend; so what should I do? Thanks in advance for your opinions %26amp;%26amp; advice.So I've Got A Relationship Problem..Any Advice?
In adult relationships you don't have to ask someone to be your girlfriend it is implied by your actions, However, if this is something that is important to you ask him, If they run away they would have run away eventually anyway and you have just saved yourself time and emotional burden.So I've Got A Relationship Problem..Any Advice?
Thank you guys for your opinions %26amp;%26amp; advice. A lot has happened since I've posted that question and I will keep you updated. Thanks!

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There are 3 ways this will turn out:





1: He will ask you out





2: He won't ask you out and you will have to step up and ask him out.





3: He won't ask you out and you do nothing.





No matter what you do, you run the risk of being hurt. If you like this person, ask him out. If you think you're going to ';scare him off'; he never wanted to date you to begin with.
I'm a guy, and from a guy's point of view, I would try to subtly drop the hint. If a girl asks, ';what are we?'; or things like that, it is a little scary, especially if he's not feeling the same way. I would try to ask something like, ';where do you see us heading?'; Something a little less threatening and more future-oriented as opposed to demanding something in the now. Good luck.
try going out or ';talking'; to another person and don't be afraid to let the other know what's going on (don't shove it in their face but don't hide). If anything is said your reply should be that you haven't been asked to be exclusive.
if u think he really likes u then u should ask him and the way it sounds i think he will ask u soon.
sound as if it is lagit, you are boyfriend and girlfriend....guys just dont like to say that out loud , i bet his friends label you as his girlfriend ...