Any advice on this problem with my BEST friend, Its getting pretty serious?

Ive been dealing with a few personal problems lately and i naturally just isolate myself, its something im trying to change and I tried explaining that to my best friend but she wont understand....We used to see each other everyday..now we're in different schools. We've been through the best and worst times of our lives together, so i didnt think it would take this little to make her question our friendship! Shes already questioning if we're drifting apart..its not even that, I just needed a little time away, Its been a little over a month...I realized im being selfish by being so aloof, and i suggested we hang out this weekend..but it feels like she lost all this trust for me and feels awkward for us to hang out...Shes very overbearing with her boyfriend and always need his attention..now shes being that way with me..Im thinking i should just talk to her and ride it out...what do you think?? thanks ^-^Any advice on this problem with my BEST friend, Its getting pretty serious?
Relationships change as we mature, have life changing experiences, make new friends, etc.


People come into their personalities as they mature. It sounds like your friend has a controlling personality and it's just beginning to show itself as she's getting older.


You, on the other hand, are becoming more introspective and trying to take care of yourself. There is nothing wrong with this unless you're experiencing depression and not getting help for it.


It's normal to find friends who have more in common with you as you get older. It's also normal to shed friendships that become burdons.


Although you can still keep this friendship alive, I suggest that it become a very part-time one ... for your own good.


You need to surround yourself with people who build you up, not people who control and accuse you (and sap your energy resources and make you feel bad about yourself).


Find some friends at your new school (even if it's only one) who make you feel good about who you are. Friends who can laugh with you. Friends who will respect your needs.


In other words: friends who let you be who you are.Any advice on this problem with my BEST friend, Its getting pretty serious?
friends will fade,


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A masterpiece is in the making,


as colorful emotions,


potray the many shades and tints,


two comrades stroke together.


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Although it has marks of damage,


there are experts willing to repair it.


the painting will mend,


and the cracks will fade.


Attention from adoring artists and fans,


will follow.


So if the painting hangs with a golden frame,


and its colors and themes stay strong,


it will surely be titled an everlasting classic!
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