Need advice on love problem with a soldier.?

okay i'm really starting to fall in love with this one guy. we met online but he doesn't live that far away from me. we planned on meeting before but things would come up. anyways now he's being deployed and i don't know what to do. i can give you more information on a more private chat. just ask but i really have no idea what to do. please help!!! thank you!!Need advice on love problem with a soldier.?
Get out while you can!!!!!!!!





Being in love with an active duty member of the armed forces, in my book, is a curse. So much stress... trust issues... holidays alone... the list goes on and on and on and on and on and on.Need advice on love problem with a soldier.?
From experience most military men are bad news. I have dated 4.. was engaged to one of them. And I found out the hard way that he was already married. I know your heart is broken, because he left and you never got to meet him. But seriously, if wanted to meet you that bad and you guys lived soo close than he would have made it happen. Perhaps his wife wouldnt let him out to play.
Okay. If you have not already met him face to face then I have to say that in reality ... although you may connect with him, it will probably not be the same as you imagined. Sorry. Could this be the reason for deployment ?? Am cynical I suppose. On the other hand, if you have met him and the sparks have flown between you .. go for it, although I assume this may be the less realistic conclusion. All the very best to you .. and may romance live on.
you should know very well what you want in a man or woman such that when you see or find it in him or her, you will develop the love.you are not a kid.anything that has advantage they say has a disadvantage.


think twice and make a headway.
I doubt you can stop him being deployed, but tell him how you feel. That way, when he's wherever he is, he has you to think about and come home to :)


Good luck
I think you need to tell him how you feel!! And keep him in your thoughts and prayers while he is gone!! Good Luck.
Maybe a online guy isn't right for you...





maybe a reality guy is better...
E-mail me with some details and I will give you the most honest third party opinion. I hope this helps.





-Ty
While chatting with him u knew that he is a soldier,and u know what is importance of duty in ARMY,so u should know about his difficulty.
Just try to keep in contact with him


so you can get to know him a bit more.


if you ever get to met him in person


be sure to bring a friend along with you


cause he is a stranger. You don't know what


might happen just to be safe.Other then that


everything seems to be going well just hung


in there.