Sunday, August 22, 2010

Need advice on girl problem(were both 16)?

Im 16 and have been great friends with a girl i know for 3 years, i have always wanted to go out with her and really care for her but the moment never seemed quite right...She has just broken up with her boyfriend of over a year(he was in fact one of my best friends) and now seems like the right time to act.. but the problem is im fairly certain she doesnt like me, as in relationship wise. There are very many hints that she doesnt want to go out with me but still i have to make my feelings known, i have been obsessed(but not in any creepy way haha) by her for three years and i just need to know if anything can happen between us. i just some need form of closure with this...so what i should i do? what should i say to her? any advice is welcome.





CheersNeed advice on girl problem(were both 16)?
Hey bro? It's simple. Generally, girls don't know what they want. So a girl in such a situation is in a worse condition. So the thing here is to play long ball. What do I mean? She's nursing a break up. Help her go through it, by being JUST A FRIEND, nothing more. Be her shoulder to lean on. After she's over her ex, take her somewhere special, but still don't mention the word relationship to her. That will push her away. When you're sure that she's completely over her previous relationship, tell her that she's special to you and has always been. DON'T PUSH HER but at the same time, don't lie back too much. Long ball brother, long ball. Catch my drift?Need advice on girl problem(were both 16)?
maybe try telling her you want to talk to her about something sit down and tell her look i really like you and i don't want that to hurt our friendship but at the same time i need to know if there is any chance you would go on a romantic date with me and see if you feel the same and see what she says but if she tells you it's not there then you shouldn't let it get in the way of your friendship
I say you tell her how you feel. Thats way easier said than done, but i think you should just tell her your feelings for her, and ask her what she thinks of it. Maybe she does like you, you wont know unless you find out!

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