Sunday, August 22, 2010

I need advice on a problem with relationships. this could cost me my life if i miss play it not joking...?

my bestfriend got a girlfriend. she is my crush from 2nd grade. we just graduated high school. he is a major *** to her. i told her she could do better. she dumped him. we spent the next three days together. he calls her from the traintracks. he was oging to commit suicide. she tells me i go and takle his asss off the tracks. next day they get back together. she is now hostile to everyone. she was loving to all but she just got done telling her mom to f off... he called me last nite told me he knew what was goin on and that it needed to stop. i havent done anything but talk to her. while they were broke up she told me that once he calmed down we could get together in a few weeks. after he said that he said if he catches us he would kil me with his new golf clubs... wtf do i do? i love her and cant leave her cause he isnt mentaly stable and is a drunk and if he raises his hand at her i will rip it off. sum best friend hu? wtf do i do? i cant leave her with him...I need advice on a problem with relationships. this could cost me my life if i miss play it not joking...?
ask the girl to ctay away from the guy... and both of you maybe you should try to tell your parents or the police in order to have some protection in case something happens.I need advice on a problem with relationships. this could cost me my life if i miss play it not joking...?
report the threat to the police! you could be in major trouble if you don't have LEGAL DOCUMENTATION of the threat(s). if ANYTHING (like an attack or fight) were to happen that would be key evidence. you can try to talk to one of her close friends to see if she has been acting differently, you might not be able to do anything, but someone else she trusts might.
He sounds like a mentally unstable and manipulative person who is not good for either you or your girlfriend. I'd report him to the police and also talk to your friend's family about what happened - even if she's being awful to them, he parents probably still love and care for her and need to know what is going on.





Good luck.
awhh it's adorable how much you care for her but if it's your life or his, maybe even hers, then you should give her advice to dump him again %26amp; you just need to stay away from him...as far away as possible. but if you guys like each other then you guys should get together. between you %26amp; him, you sound like the better person, which i'm sure is true; everything will work out for the best.


-good luck!
Be a man and stand up for what you love and usually guys like him are full of ---- anyways all talk no action if he was really going to kill himself he would not have called anyone he wouls have just done it. Goodluck hes only calling wolf for the attention!!!!
to be honest, the best thing to do is back off. be there when she needs you most.. but dont get in the way, because if he is threatening you like that, you need to watch your back. try and forget your love for her, but if anything kicks off, be straight there to support her
this is probably not what you want to hear but leave her alone. There is no relationship whatsoever in life that puts your life or well being in danger. Just continue to be her friend and watch over her. She apparently doesnt like you enough to leave him or she would.
im glad that you care about her...





get the police involved. this is not a good situation...


REPORT IT TO THE POLICE!!!!!





I've been in a relationship like this and almost lost my life, please don't let her become another case like that....just report it and do your best to help!
u can go black on his *** like i do n kill the ****** first ...but..that would be wrong..u can notify the police about the whole situation, if ur old enough, get a gun, and keep talking to her and giving her advice, and if the idiot should ever come near u..well.u know whats next.. :)...or..go to church and pray for him
Even though u r her best friend, all u can do is tell her 2 leave him! If she listens then good 4 her, but if not, unfortunatly its her own fault!!!! However, i would honestly get her parents involved and tell them about this loony :) Its 4 her own good!!!!


Good luck hun -xx-


Hope i helped -xx-
that`s really tough , to like ur best friend`s gf .. but i just think that she will figure out someday that he`s a jerk and choose u








now i reanswered it :) and thnx for answerin mine :) hope u read it
hope she's not playing you you sound like a real great friend and if your serious and she is you need to get her away from that situation and she needs to seek a protection order and there are safe houses for women so he cant touch her he needs help and so does she she needs your help but don't put yourself in a situation that's going to get you hurt or her if she's not willing to leave because it could end up fatal for you both
In all honesty, you aren't going to be able to do anything in their relationship. It isn't even safe for you to even be involved, I sincerely mean this. You are dealing w/two unstable mentally sick people %26amp; on top of it an alcoholic. I realize you certainly are tying your best to prevent different things from happening, but there's no way you've got even a prayer of winning w/either one. You've got to accept this to be fact, regardless of how hard you try or what you do. As hard as it might be, you honestly have to remove yourself from their problems. You're getting yourself too involved w/a no win situation. You wouldn't be turning your back on anyone, you'd be saving yourself a lot of mental anguish %26amp; accepting the fact this all is NOT your problem, therefore you have no choice but to remove it from your life. You're taking your life in your own hands %26amp; being responsible for YOU. You can only help those who want to be helped %26amp; are willing to at least TRY to help themselves. I do not see this happening in this case whatsoever. For some reason he has a hold on her, control over her. No one is going to be able to take that away. She has to remove herself of her own accord %26amp; I don't see that becoming a reality. Please don't put or leave yourself in harms way over this whole thing. Please just get out of it %26amp; get as far removed as you can from it all. All the love you have for her is not changing her actions twds. him %26amp; I don't forsee her leaving him for whatever reason she has for staying w/him. She could do something about it but won't. Please think of yourself %26amp; save yourself. Don't take anymore calls, just please avoid them in ALL WAYS you can. ACCEPT the fact you just cannot help either one of them. Leave them both in your past %26amp; please work on starting a new beginning for yourself. You're too young %26amp; have your whole life ahead of you. Don't throw it away for nothing. There's nothing more I can say, but I trust you w/at least think of what I've said. This is a serioud situation, %26amp; not worth your life. You CAN do it, please just do it. ALL the best to you...:)
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