What's your advice for this problem?

What's your advice for this problem?


i am illegal here in the US. my 3 year visa expired last december 5th of 2008. and tried everything i could to process my papers in rightful and lawful manners. but nothing happened.





some people push me to marry someone for the sake of 'green card'. what is the stand of the church about this?





i know they mean to just 'be practical' but is it immoral? facing such moral dilemmas and ethical problems bring me to a greater question 'what is more important in life?'


considering that i am married and have 2 kids waiting for me in cuba. my wife and my 2 kids are waiting for me. but there's no way i can get them. and we just live a simple life in cuba.


i know i will earn a lot here in the US but i also have this pain of choosing work instead of being with my family. but you also have this mentality that your the head of the family and you should be the provider. but i know my presence is not there.


maybe i am just afraid of becoming like my father who left us when i was a kid and came back after 15 years. i always ask myself: should i stay? or go home? i don't know. but i still have time to think.


what's your advice?


thanks.What's your advice for this problem?
The honorable thing to do is go home.What's your advice for this problem?
You cant marry here because you already have a wife and family. If there is no way that they can come here all you can do is make the choice to go back or to send them money to make their life easier without you. I think your children would prefer to have less and have you in their lives but of course you know your family better than I.
Illegal would be an indication for you to go to your country and not try to harm ours because of the laws that we have here.


Good luck and we wish you well


But in as much as you undermine the ability for real folks to make a living and take care of the people who have worked for these rights.


Sorry no empathy here.
What part of Illegal don't you understand,You need to go back and try to get it done right. That's the way it should be done.


That's why we are spending millions of dollars on immigration.
The moral and ethical thing to do is to go home. You're a law-breaker and we have enough of our own in that category.
while you can keep working and saving . This is probably the best way to help your family so good luck !
';Bye-Bye';.
go home





or
Go Home - or get in line and get your papers the legal way
please ... go home
My advice Time to go back to Cuba
If you marry to stay here and have a wife and children at home, then any church would consider that a sin. That is bigamy and is also illegal. If you are a Catholic, it is worse. The honorable thing to do would be to return home to your country and your family. While you may not wish to return to a communist country, it is in your best interest to do so. Things may open up in Cuba before long, but you have a family who needs you.


That is more important.
Talk to a lawyer who is experienced with immigration matters relating to Cubans in the United States. The laws are different for Cubans than for people from most other countries. Nobody here expects anyone from your country to return to a Communist dictatorship. It is quite possible that your status is not illegal.





I do not believe churches have a stand on this issue that differs from that of the federal government. As far as your family is concerned, that is between you and your wife and children.





Considering the fast pace of changes in the world right now, it is possible that it will not be long before relations between the United States and Cuba will change for the better. Contact Cuban-American organizations in your area to keep current with those changes.
Immoral? You already have a wife and 2 children and entering into a false marriage to stay is immoral. It is deceitful and you know you will divorce before you even get married. That is playing with something sacred. I've known more than a few who have married for a green-card here in this university city, seems like one thing they had in common is that they made a deal with the devil by doing so. And they didn't have a wife and children back home either. So many sad stories for all parties involved, you don't know who and how many people you will hurt in the process.