Help! i need advice with this problem

last year my friend and i got into this mild fight. i heard from one of my other friends that she hated me so i just stopped talking to her all together. now since the new school year is coming and i got my schedule and shes in 5 of my classes, and shes the only person i no in those classes. idk if i should ignore her or try to become friends again and idk how she will react if i do go up to her. i just would like to see what other people would do in this situation... so please help!Help! i need advice with this problem
ooh bummer.


well do you know for a fact that she hates you? have you asked her why?


what if your other friend was just lying to you? well cause that's what happened to me once, so yeah thats why i'm asking.





just keep it as it is. if you want to talk to her then go ahead but if you feel like that's not a good idea then don't, keep your distance. just make other friends in the classroom.Help! i need advice with this problem
talk to her like you forgot it happened. if she doesnt seem to catch on or still seems mad, you need to apologize. say someone told you that she hated you, and that it made you really mad. now you realize that you shouldnt have accepted the info secondhand, think the little fight was stupid, you acted like a jerk, and you are sorry. even if its not true, the apologize needs to sound sincere and not like its blaming her. after that, just be freindly to her, and hope that she forgives you. also, you should try to get to know some of the other people in your classes.
Maybe she got over the fight, if I were you I'd probably try and talk to her. It's not like she'd scream at you in the middle of school. If she doesn't wanna talk just move forward because she isn't a real friend. There's plenty of other people who would talk to you.
The way I see it you have two options. You can walk up to her and talk about the fight and how it wasn't a big deal and you feel that you both over reacted. Explain to her that you guys are in so many classes together it wouldn't make sense not to be friends again and maybe help each other out.





The other option is to find some different friends in the classes and leave her alone.





I would opt for option 1. :)
You need to just play it by ear. Don't over think it. Isn't the main reason you go to school is to learn something? Go to your classes, do the work and talk to the other kids around you when you're finished.





School is kinda weird. You can actually go through different friends every year. It's not a huge thing so don't blow it up to be. You'll be fine, it won't be the end of the world of you two don't get back to the way you were before. It really isn't. In school you'll end up changing friends like you do classes every day.





If you want to be back friends with that girl then you need to talk to her and find out what it was that happened between you two and offer to rectify the situation. You will have to speak to her - there's no getting around that. A closed mouth doesn't get feed love.





Best of luck.
well try talking to the other ppl that are n your classes and mabye since she doesnt have anyone to talk to she will try talking to u! thats what i would do!