Monday, August 23, 2010

I need advice on a problem?

My dads girlfriend is moving into my house with her two kids, and i really don't want them too because his girlfriend is really nasty to me for no reason, she only does it when my dad isn't there and isn't listening, she talks to me like i'm crap and i treat her with nothing but respect (most of the time) i don't know if i should move out or something but i got no place to go :( i've told my dad about it, and he's just left things, i'm really stressed out and just don't know what i should do? any idea's anyone?





thanks?I need advice on a problem?
Get organized, be mature about it, talk to her and explain that the two of you need to get along, then do everything you can to make things smooth. Don't get (visibly) upset or shout because that's what kids do. Chances are your dad's not going to change his mind, so try to make the best of it.





If that doesn't work (or your dad always sides with her), you could always record (audio or video, whatever) her being nasty, and when your dad denies it, play the clip...





Edit: Okay, the key when she starts getting bitchy is to just stop talking, let her finish, then stay calm and say you don't feel (insert whatever she said here) is reasonable because (insert your reasoning here). If she keeps interrupting you, start asking her if she's finished before you start talking, then when she cuts you off, tell her you let her speak, so now it's your turn.





If you talk like a calm adult, you'll get farther (and might make her feel stupid in the process).I need advice on a problem?
call her out on what she's doing WHEN SHE'S DOING IT.








If your dad takes her side, then he doesn't deserve to live at your place.
try to talk to your dad again. xplain him.

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