Advice on hubby problem please help?

sorry its too long but i tried to cut it short and sorry for mispellings tyoed in a rush okay i will try to cut rthis short me and my husband got married last year got pregnant immediately after and to be honest it has been one hell roller coaster of a ride and it really depressing me.thing is my husband deep down is a lovley man but his sister has been a big nfluence in most of our problems of which i partly blame my husband for being childish as to let his sister wreck our marriage.9ijwas still in uni when we got married (my final year)and i had hoped to go travelling after that spend atleast a year on my own to then start proper work not temping after that and all that one can ever wish for after graduating really. but then my husband had other plans he wanted us to get married we werent staying together by the way.nyway back to the story i accepted coz i really loved him and we got married the sister wanted to get involved in our wedding plans which i was fine with up till the point she wanted to chose evrything for me which i dint really fancy and i told her in a good way that it was my day and i had plans on how i wanted it to be but i think she took pffence in it as she started being funny towards me after that. after i graduated i planned atleast to continue working where i was till i got a job then i would relocate to be with my hubby but my hubby felt there was no need and he wasnt for the idea he even had me turn down 2 good job offers but i respected him thinking it wud be easy fr me to get a job where he was . so i started applying for job with no luck and this was mid summer last year when i moved there i had regrets after regrets but i kept applying anyway at that point i dint realise he was telling his sister all about what wid been up to and she started phoning me evryday and saying all sorts of horrible comments though trying to say it as if she was joking but it was hurting me but i just thought since i dint really know her maybe that was just her so i dint really care much i ealised i was pregnant but then i started bleeding only to be tols at walk in centre that i might be misscarrying with no proper checks was sent home and you can imagine at that point how i was feeling it went on for days until i demanded a scan whic came back okay but my bp was so high and i was told to rest i just wanted this to be btwn me n my hubby until we were so sure what was happening but he went on to tell his sis behind my back.since he was the one earning though i had some savings evrytime i mentioned going for groceries or anything that needed money he would sulk and be cold to me. then oneday his sister phoned asking me why i wasnt working etc etc and from then on shee said she was to be checking what i did for the day to look for work i thought she was joking but ey she meant her words i then spoke to my hubby bout it who just dint want to listen and evrytime the sis called she had more to hurt me and my hubby wouldnt want to know and by this point i was getting on with my preggers and my blood pressure got worse when i mentioned starting to buy stuff for the baby he just didnt want to know so i started doing it with my own savings and coz i couldnt stand the sis i started switching of my phone coz i really sdint want to exchange bad words with her and what a coincidence it was that i discuss something with my hubby the next she would be questiining me about it.when i got to the mid semester my health wasnt okay i was scared my bp would coz me and my baby harm and after being treated so badly and you can imaigne the tears i shed at night and i just dint know my huby anymore he had completly changed and really to be honest i dint get no penny of him for any of the baby things he refused to come for midwifes appointment with me wanting to go baby sit for a freind instead yet he i was not well carrying his child and then the worst happened we had a row and he said he was regretting getting married it was so hurtful after all i sacrificed just coz i asked him hwy he opted to baby sit his freinds child instead of coming with me to the gps it was a nasty row and really it would have benn worse so i though it was better to leave and i dint have anywhere else to go so i when to a refuge hostel okay im not gona go ito much detail cooz its too long but we talked about it and he apologised then i cam e home but things dint get any bettr evrything that involved money would coz tension so i just never asked i just used my own to buy evything baby needs but the sis was on my case even worse saying i wanted to get his brother in trouble by goin to a refuge.centre okay a lot happened and finally i just told her to stay out of my marriage coz i had had enough and couldnt take anymore but then my hubby dint take it well evrytime his relations come to coz me trouble he just never stands up for me instead he gets angry at me for not wanting to be bullied( i moved from the place he was renting and got my own placeAdvice on hubby problem please help?
Sorry but I lost the plot after the first 30 lines!Advice on hubby problem please help?
Marry in haste - repent at leisure.
My head just exploded.
Good for you.
im sorry this is way to much to read...
Hi,


Yeap get out and stay out! Go as far away as possible. I know it may be hard, but you will survive. That man is nasty and his sister is even worse! He should have stood by you through thick n thin.


There is alot of help out there these days and there will be somebody out there that can help you! Do you have family that you can turn to? Or friends?


You will need all the support you can get right know, what with bub coming along! You need to stay healthy for you bub, and little stress as possible!


I hope everything works out for you!!


All I can say is stay away from him and his family! As hard as it may be, do it! Even if you go under ground for awhile!
It sounds to me like your husband has been pushing you and the baby away your whole pregnancy. Thats sad and i'm sorry to hear you are going through this. You will do fine though, and maybe you two can work it out. You should probably ask him if he is done and if not he needs to lay down the rules with his sister.





My boyfriends sister speaks her mind too much but as long as he thinks for himself and I dont have to hear it. All is fine.
Sorry but you will have to just get on with life and forget him and his horrible sister. Go forward in life and forget the mistakes of the past as they will continue to haunt and deppress you Good Luck in the future.
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well


things happen in life.





but everybody has a hubby.


everybody is different





people has to respect who you are and what you do





don't let know body step on you