Thursday, August 19, 2010

Advice on handling problem causing people?

ok well, this guy i know, and I have for quite a while, is pretty much one of my worst enemies, his mere existence bothers me sometime, whenever a problem arises he's always the one to attack me for it and try to gather everyone to turn on me. but thankfully i'm not a asshole who demands respect i actually earn it, so he always turns up outnumbered.





Most would say ';well just stay away from him';


but that's the problem, we are both in the same group of people, and even though most hate him, none are willing to say ';get the **** out'; because not everyone hates him and a heated debate starts and he threatens to kick everyones *** who hates him (he's 170 pounds solid muscle( bench's 250, squat 350 ) but thats all he has. By no means is he a good fighter.


I just can't deal with this guy anymore, today me and him almost fought again because he walked up and sqeezed my ***(he said it was national grab a *** day, like I care), so I biatch slapped him. Then he grabbed ahold of my and said ';if you ever hit me like that again I'll break your arm'; and I was like ';if you think so'; then he tried to slam me on the ground(in school btw principals suck) and I used a wrestling manuever(thankfully I'm on the wrestling team) and got behind him and pushing him away not wanting to actually start anything











so my over all question is, what do I do to get him to stop or go away or die or whatever?,





(P.S. I can* I believe take him in a fight even though I'm down 40 pounds seeing how he doesn't know how to fight at all and I'm a mixed martial artist and a wrestler. But I'm trying to avoid that I like not being suspended)Advice on handling problem causing people?
Ok, heres what you have to do. Never humor him, if he tries to be funny dont even look at him. Completely ignore him, this will piss him off and make him want to kick your *** more though. Next time he threaten to fight you or someone else just call him out on it. Say ';you always threaten just to fight people, cant you do anything else or is that all you know how to do.'; He will probably respond by saying he could kick your *** so just ignore what he says and walk away. Just keep ignoring him and he may eventually go away. You dont have to act like you like him or you hate him, stay neutral. Let someone else in the group handle kicking him out and not yourself.
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